Community | August 27, 2008 | 31 comments

Same sex marriage pioneer dies

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Del Martin, a pioneering lesbian rights activist who married her lifelong partner on the first day same-sex couples could legally wed in California, has died. She was 87.

This is so sad. A couple for 55 years, these incredible women were pioneers of same-sex marriage in California.

Martin and Lyon, who in 1955 co-founded the nation's first outspoken advocacy group for lesbians, the Daughters of Bilitis, were married at San Francisco City Hall on June 16, 2008.
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31 comments // Same sex marriage pioneer dies

  • Brittanyope89
  • LindseyIndigo
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      LindseyIndigo  
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    • This story made me cry when I heard it. Newly widowed Phyllis Lyon said in a statement,

      "Ever since I met Del 55 years ago, I could never imagine a day would come when she wouldn't be by my side. I am so lucky to have known her, loved her and been her partner in all things.

      "I also never imagined there would be a day that we would actually be able to get married," Lyon said. "I am devastated, but I take some solace in knowing we were able to enjoy the ultimate rite of love and commitment before she passed."

      She'll be remembered.

    • 3 years ago
  • anglcazn
  • sunnyspeaks
  • bottenfield
  • NickerBocker09
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      NickerBocker09  
    • She and her wife were extremely brave. They stayed with eachother for 55 years, talk about love. Im so glad they were able to wed. She fulfilled her dream and pursuit of happiness.

    • 3 years ago
  • Twana
  • blue_blooded
  • eldamon
  • shroomfairy
  • PersonaNonGrata
  • AxeRFJ
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      AxeRFJ  
    • I hope she ends up in the history books, because she is apart of history, and the whole gay movement going on is the 21st century version of race movements back then.

    • 3 years ago
  • Kylsport
  • Menchaca
  • parisinla
  • MalibuSurfer
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      MalibuSurfer  
    • The love between two people is ONE of the greatest things on earth. If 'everyone' was in a loving relationship as much as Martin and Lyon were, the world would be a happier place. I hope everyone finds that SPECIAL person. Its really great to fall asleep and start everyday waking up next to the one you love. Sometimes(unfortunately) it takes a few relationships before you find that person, but at least you grow a long the way.

    • 3 years ago
  • swa11ow
  • ALE609
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      ALE609  
    • How sad but at the same time happy she had her dream come true to marry her lifelong partner. She will be remembered always.Very brave of this couple to stay together all those years when everyone could look at them like some wired pepole. R.I.P. DEL MARTIN

    • 3 years ago
  • asherp
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      asherp  
    • I have hope for the future.

      There is a statistical cutoff at around 35 years old, where below that, only like 2% of people are against gay marriage. Above 35 years old, it's like 65% against.

      As soon as this new wave begins to take power, we'll see a much better society.

    • 3 years ago
  • seanalyn
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      seanalyn  
    • Oh no, my sincerest condolences to her wife and family :(

      I cried when I read the story about their love and struggle for the right to marry, then finally achieving their dream. Im just glad that they were able to be legally married before her passing.

    • 3 years ago
  • Argon18
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      Argon18  
    • Even though it's a shame that she died at least she made it long enough to realize the dream of geeting married.

      It certainly points out the differences since her spouse will have the legal protections afforded all married people on the death of their partner that weren't there before.

    • 3 years ago
  • parisinla
  • globewatcher
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      globewatcher  
    • how can anyone try to deny someones true happiness? i dont understand why it had to be a fight in the first place. i do, really of couse know of the opposition, and how they think they need to make rules for everyone. look at the pic. and the sincere recognition of love on all their faces. i really dig the "KEEP YOUR LAWS OFF MY BODY" phrase. it is so applicable in so many ways. especially here.

    • 3 years ago
  • Allsunday
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      Allsunday  
    • This is so sad. They were only married a little over two months before she died! I suppose I'm just happy they were allowed to marry at all.

    • 3 years ago
  • phukitol
  • sgwhites
  • tracyetheridge
  • ProfMTH
  • Furaipan
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      Furaipan  
    • It's pretty amazing that one could hold onto something thats been shunned for so many years...
      At least she lived long enough to be able to finally marry.

    • 3 years ago
  • gracesteban
  • sgirgis72
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