Sex in the slums
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Many of the younger women are from the mid-western part of Nigeria and have been tricked into coming to Lagos by false promises, only to find themselves in the sex industry.
Some of the sex workers commute to Ijora Badia from other parts of Lagos at night and leave in the morning, while others come to work there for a few months. The high level of fluctuation in the population is a challenge to field workers.
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damnneargenius
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I don't seriously endorse killing anyone (well, perhaps rapists), but I do seriously endorse having your pets spade or neutered to prevent a runaway population of broken, suffering, unwanted animals.
Hey, Bob Barker said it at the end of every Price is Right.
Do you think humans are so above animals?
What makes us so? Advanced thought and controlled behavior?
I never said get rid of the good people amongst them, I said get rid of the sexual-behavioral addict type cancer that has caused that cesspool (literally) to form in the first place.
WHY DOES NO ONE PROTECT THE TRULY INNOCENT UNBORN CHILDREN BEFORE THE ACT OF LUSTFUL CONCEPTION?
That is what I'm trying to stop, across all lines and stereotypes. Protect the innocent by preventing them from being brought into the world by people unfit and unprepared to take EXCEPTIONALLY good care of them.
Innocent life should be treated as precious, the destroyers should be destroyed if you want the problems to go away.
The fact that someone's sex drive is so powerful that that is what they think of when the world around them is so broken is scary. Truly scary.
There are different levels of dysfunctional, but if you want to start classifying them, this has got to be pretty far down the list. The good people, genes, and behavior cannot survive as they should because there are so many selfish, short-sighted, sexual destroyers/predators/hedonists amongst them, and that should not be ignored in such dire, TRULY TRAGIC circumstance.
- 3 years ago
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damnneargenius
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Mark701
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damneargenius: If we kept "dysfunctional" people from breeding I dare say the human race would have perished many centuries ago.
- 3 years ago
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Mark701
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Tayllerand
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sex is like a drug , its addicted thats why people pay for it, its really sad that a lot women in poor countries they have to work in this profession.
The only thing Im against its the human trafficking of innocent women.
If a woman wants to work as a hooker thats her problem but no one should force a woman to do this.
By the way, I love sex and I think its one the greatest thing of life.
Im addicted to love.I mean sex. - 3 years ago
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Tayllerand
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ignignokt
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damnneargenius--seriously? Hitler had a plan like that. Generalize; then sterilize or euthanize. These people are the same "innocent lives" you're saying they are giving birth to and condemning to death; they were just born earlier into the same fubar situation.
Shall we carpet bomb?
Or can we maybe accept that they are not as capable of rising above their lot as we in the rest of the free world, and figure out a solution that doesn't involve genocide? - 3 years ago
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ignignokt
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damnneargenius
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ignignokt:
No. I'm not serious about killing anyone, but I think the world needs to be damn serious about preventing people displaying behavior like this from bringing helpless children into that world.
My desire for the world would be that everyone have an upbringing at least as good as mine was. I realize this is a relatively high standard, but it shouldn't be.
Sex is like a drug, and these peoples' inability to control their sex drives while their existence is destroyed beyond comprehension is a very ugly and tragic scenario that all ties back to self control.
Had I not proven that controlling one's behavior is possible to the extremes that I have using myself as the Guinea Pig and example, I wouldn't have the room to preach, but if I can do it, then why can't they?
My life is infinitely better off than theirs', and yet I stopped myself from having sex, much less promiscuous sex, with diseased strangers...for money...because of short-sighted ignorance and out of control genetic programming.
If you can't control yourself, then who in God's name is supposed to be responsible for controlling the damage your selfish behavior causes to society?
This is an extreme example, just as the recent years of my life have been an extreme example proving good-looking men don't have to sleep with every woman they can just because it feels so good.
- 3 years ago
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damnneargenius
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daledrops
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lovers lane just got a whole heck of a lot bigger... and thats not a good thing.
- 3 years ago
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daledrops
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diode
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nigeria is quickly becoming the asshole of the world
- 3 years ago
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diode
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peter_doerrie
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diode:
Yeah and guess who has made it that way...
- 3 years ago
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peter_doerrie
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JuliusBC
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Granted constraint or protection is warranted but not all can afford it or even know about it.
Prostitution is one thing but in many cases this is more of an environmental rape even though some of the recipients are marginally willing.
Sex traffickers should be hunted down by the government and hung or at a bear minimum have their genitalia removed. This would curtail children from being sold or forced into this despicable process of trade.
As far as mandating these people into control or their punishment ensues is out of line. I don't know of many people that can curb their sexual desires. It is obvious your parents couldn't and I am quite sure they wouldn't want someone monitoring their moments of intimacy.
The real problem here is the need for the rest of the world to address the world hunger issues. They need to hook a plow behind their Hummer's and Suv's and start growing crops for food.
Governments need to educate their people as to what is needed and how.
Granted the population of this planet is seemingly out of control in proportion to food but that isn't all together true. Look around America and see how many lard asses there are running around. There is an extreme amount of food wasted around the globe on a daily basis.
It is more about money, power and lack of concern for fellow human beings. Perhaps CEO's with multi-million dollar bonuses should be required to take on humanitarian efforts that address issues such as these.
- 3 years ago
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JuliusBC
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UrbanGypsy
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How can you even think of sex in a place like that?
- 3 years ago
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UrbanGypsy
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werewere
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some people are forced to sell sex, others choose to. Either way, society frowns upon it without a second thought.
- 3 years ago
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werewere
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honusurf
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- 3 years ago
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honusurf
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Dragunov316
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damnneargenius, interesting I have to agree with you. This is an epidemic, out of control, all because they can not control their sexual urges.
In addition, I believe this world has enough food, wealth, industry, and supplies to go around, so that stuff like this doesn't have to happen. Question is, why is the world not doing anything to help or make a difference. Why are the billionaires and millionaires of this world more interested in making sure every child has a computer, instead of food.
As you stated, it is a crime to humanity, but these people in Lagos will not be the only ones to pay for this crime. We will all pay.
- 3 years ago
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Dragunov316
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damnneargenius
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(Then I read the article.)
Of yes you can dictate to people what they can and can't do when there entire society and behavior basically represents a virus-like plague on the Earth.
With all do respect, fuck these people...and not in a pleasant way "for money to survive".
Hello?
This behavior is literally like virus that could easily destroy mankind itself if it weren't limited by it's own dysfunction.
A slum full of ignorant, virus-spreading sex addicts...
Apparently there really is no God there. God would instruct, rather, make them understand sex is not to be used in that way, and simply start eliminating the problem with some straight Sodom and Gomorrah type shit if they didn't listen.
Seriously, WTF?
Thinking like a doctor, before you can heal a problem, which that geographic/ethnic region clearly has, you need to stop the...
- 3 years ago
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damnneargenius
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peter_doerrie
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damnneargenius:
With all due respect, fuck you!
While travelling through your fucked up racist world have you ever considered that what you are saying really reminds at the bullshit that some nice brown-cladded germans said roughly 70 years ago. All that "well blacks (/Jews/Roma/Muslims/Communists/Democrats) really seem to be not humans the way they are acting. So they don't deserve to be treated like one. So kill them all to solve out problems and maybe theirs."
You make me sick.
- 3 years ago
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peter_doerrie
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damnneargenius
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FOUL!
Finally someone went and did it. Folks, may I present Exhibit A: Point and case, the EXACT reason these people live in slums in the first place.
Sex between people unfit to be allowed to have sex!
Next thing you know, there's another "poor starving mouth to feed" that should have NEVER been brought into this world in the first place.
This is a crime to humanity! I don't know what kind of measures they will allow to put an end to it, but until you control the dysfunctional population's sex drive....that is just going to be more land on God's green Earth that remains a twisted tragedy and waste instead of a garden of human accomplishment and achievement.
SEX is what is responsible for any problem related to people starving in the world. How dare these people have the audacity to have their priorities and rationalization so beyond fucked up?
You can't fix stupid, and it looks like stupid has learned that sex feels good and so therefore rationalizes it in any number of socially destructive ways.
THAT should be a crime. The men that want it so bad that they are willing to have sex in the slums shouldn't even exist in the world in the first place.
Before you can fix a problem, you have to stop the problem from getting worse, and unfortunately these people's sex drives are far higher than their intellectual capacity for existence.
I say, if you're going to feed them, then require behavior restrictions and track them at the same time, if they don't follow the rules, allocate a very dire place for them to exist the rest of their lives where sex and reproduction are no longer alternatives given to them.
It honestly hurts me to see stuff like this because it is behavior so wrong beyond my mind's comprehension I can't even begin to hypothesize solving the problems while these certain types are making them even worse.
Sex amongst derelicts leads to innocent children who are essentially murdered before they are even born by the beyond fucked-up circumstance they are born into.
This is beyond evil. Screw the people that are alive if this is how they behave, for they have no respect for the innocent human life their lustful behavior propagates, and that makes them killers if you ask me.
How in God's name do you ever expect to fix a social infrastructure like that when the people cannot control their primal lust is such a cancer-like way? It's impossible.
Why not just create really strict and final laws dealing with selling sex or having unprepared-for children?
I don't mean to be mean, but if you want to save the world, you need to eradicate that type of behavior by any means necessary. If not, the worst problems will just keep multiplying.
- 3 years ago
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damnneargenius
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JuliusBC
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damnneargenius:
You are wrong on so many levels and right on a few here. Granted constraint or protection is warranted but not all can afford it or even know about it.
Prostitution is one thing but in many cases this is more of an environmental rape even though the recipients are marginally willing.
Sex traffickers should be hunted down by the government and hung or at a bear minimum have their genitalia removed. This would curtail children from being sold or forced into this despicable process of trade.
As far as mandating these people into control or their punishment ensues is out of line. I don't know of many people that can curb their sexual desires. It is obvious your parents couldn't and I am quite sure they wouldn't want someone monitoring their moments of intimacy.
The real problem here is the need for the rest of the world to address the world hunger issues. They need to hook a plow behind their Hummer's and Suv's and start growing crops for food.
Governments need to educate their people as to what is needed and how.
Granted the population of this planet is seemingly out of control in proportion to food but that isn't all together true. Look around America and see how many lard asses there are running around. There is an extreme amount of food wasted around the globe on a daily basis.
It is more about money, power and lack of concern for fellow human beings. Perhaps CEO's with multi-million dollar bonuses should be required to take on humanitarian efforts that address issues like unto these.
- 3 years ago
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JuliusBC
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nazbags
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It kills me to hear of these women who say they try and use condoms but will make exceptions if the price is right ... health should be priceless
- 3 years ago
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nazbags
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jimmyson
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Normally, wherever there is unemployment, people tend to do whatever they can in order to survive. This is one of such things that we see in this kind of situation or environment of sex in the slums. However, it is not only in Nigeria as reported, but in any country that we can think of in this world. There is protitution both in high and low places. Anyway, I am not trying to justify prostitution, but i beleive that people, in as much as they want to exercise their freedom, should also learn how to protect themselves and others from the scourge of HIV/AIDS.
- 3 years ago
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jimmyson
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idealist
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thats messed up......
- 3 years ago
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idealist
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arcticspirit
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It's all supply and demand. If the men didn't want it, it wouldn't create this huge supply to fill to satisfy the degrading demand that women have to cater to.
Go home, be with your wife and kids already.
- 3 years ago
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arcticspirit
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peter_doerrie
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arcticspirit:
Yeah it is all black and white, all simple and all supply and demand. That really suits your simple picture of the world, doesn't it?
Did you ever think about something that may fall outside this narrow scheme? How about this: Those women in Lagos, they have to be prostitutes because they are unemployed, most of them are single moms how have to care for their (multiple) children and mot of them are sick (HIV /AIDS anyone) and all this costs money. Now this really shouldn't be a problem because Nigeria is one of the biggest oil producers today and they make billions of dollars every year. But none of this money makes it to those women, because basically it all goes to corrupt politicians and is wasted in various administrations. From the 1990s to the beginning of the 21st century the same amount of money all of africa was receiving as development aid was wasted on corruption and similar things in Nigeria alone. So why are they so stupid to waste it all? Because this is encouraged by "the West" and "the East" (namely china) who all want to have a big chunk from the oil and don't care about women having to sell their body. So they create and bolster systems, that allows them to deal only with some rich Nigerians, who are easily bribed, and not with something nasty like a civil community.Supply and Demand is bullshit. This is the same statement as "the market solves every problem" which just got a pretty tough reality check. The world is allways more comlicated than one simple sentence.
- 3 years ago
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peter_doerrie
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vkotomski
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Its hard to believe that there are still thinks like this going on in the world... God must hate what we have become! Right!??
- 3 years ago
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vkotomski
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arcticspirit
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vkotomski:
When one reads something like this, yeah you think that, but God can even be found in places like that. You'd be amazed. Otherwise how do people even live through those experiences?
- 3 years ago
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arcticspirit
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peter_doerrie
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vkotomski:
Have YOU ever been in those places, Arcticspirit? No, I thought so. Well I have been and let me tell you, I did not find God (or any god for that matter) aroud there. The closest thing those places come to in a religous sense is hell. Don't talk about god. That implies that it all will turn out to be good for those women (and all the others living in those shitholes). IT WONT. Most of them will die before the age of 35. They will die from hunger, desease, or violence and for most of them it will be only the painful end to an even more painful live. Yes, they live their lives with a huge amount of courage and I think none of us can really understand how they manage to get the strenght to do it. But a god is not part of it.
- 3 years ago
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peter_doerrie
