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Debate: Is it wrong for Chrisians or Christ-Followers to judge others?

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TheEmpireGuy
I have had my share of encounters with Christians or Christ-Followers who are very judgmental of others; especially atheists, agnostics, LGBT's and still many more. I have had even more encounters with atheists or agnostics or others who have a deep resentment for Christians because of bad encounters with them, but even they begin to judge all Christians as the same and condemning them for "ignorance" or some other kind of ridicule. The question here is should any Christian or Christ-Follower be judging anyone and should any non-Christians be judging them back?

I know there are MANY hypocrites that say they're Christians. I know there are MANY that say they're Christian, but then go around condemning anyone that isn't. I know there are many real WACKO'S out there that say God is glad our soldiers are dying (and that it's because of the gays in the U.S.). I know there are also MANY who go around condemning Christians for their beliefs.

I am sure they're not all like that! I have NEVER told anyone they were going to hell for their lifestyle.

"Do not judge so that you will not be judged."1 This command was given by Jesus Christ as He was preaching to the crowds on the Mount of Olives. This and similar verses are often cited as proof that Christians should not go around condemning others about their behavior. Is this what Jesus meant when He gave this command? Why does it seem that Christians are always judging others?

As human beings, we all make judgments all the live long day. Often in our everyday judgments, we judge unfairly. For instance if I get a bad meal at a restaurant my first time there, I am apt to say the place is no good and not go back. If not only the food was bad, but the service as well, I may just tell others not to go there. And my experience may have been a fluke; there may have been a problem going on that I was completely unaware of. Maybe the chef called in sick and his assistant was not as experienced or as talented, or perhaps one of the wait staff didn't show for work. However, based on my personal experience, I have judged the restaurant unfairly without ever realizing it. That is how we humans are, we make snap judgments and usually don't look back.

And yet still others like to say------"Do not judge, or you too will be judged" (Matthew 7:1) is often misunderstood. The verse continues, "For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged" (Matthew 7:2) It is a stiff warning about judging, but it is not an admonition not to judge.

Matthew 7:3-5 continues, "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."

So WHO is right and what is the answer to these questions?
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64 comments // Debate: Is it wrong for Chrisians or Christ-Followers to judge others?

  • leotardjesus
  • lucidstone
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      lucidstone  
    • Personally, I think it's ok to make an analysis and "judgment" of a person's intellect based in part on his/her world-view.

      I also "judge" a person's morality and ethics based on their actions. (are they malicious, manipulative, destructive, etc.) This is my analysis of whether or not they are a "good" person or not.

      Some people incorrectly blur the lines between the two when they see an example of an individual's actions be based on that individual's world-view. This is faulty reasoning as even though they can appear to be linked, they are ultimately two separate things.

      One of my best friends is a devout, church-attending Christian. I honestly don't think that highly of her intellect, for various reasons that include her world-view.

      However, she happens to be a very good and loving person that is not malicious, destructive, or manipulative and she is also a very good friend. She is a good human being.

      Whenever we make an analysis and a conclusion, this is a judgment. Anyone with a functioning brain does this.

    • 2 years ago
  • Robroy1
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      Robroy1  
    • No one should judge anyone else. Every person has thier own reason and idea of how to lead thier own life. Who are we to judge.

    • 2 years ago
  • TheEmpireGuy
  • TheEmpireGuy
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      TheEmpireGuy  
    • To All Who Posted-

      isn't "an eye for an eye" the best way to go?

      in that way no one would be judged except by the act or crime they committed. Not by character or personality.
      Not by religion or beliefs. Just by what we know for a fact you did and then the same would be done unto you.

    • 2 years ago
  • ANBU_sonny
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      ANBU_sonny  
    • a christian who judges others isnt a christian at all.. we are all imperfect beings.. to sin is to be human. what makes a christian is having faith in our lord and savior christ, and to hold the messages he spread while down here..and write them in our hearts and take them with us in our day to day choices..

    • 2 years ago
  • TheEmpireGuy
  • jubal
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      jubal  
    • Mercy triumphs over judgment!

      Forgiving someone who doesn't apparently deserve to be forgiven is a radical act and has a tremendous impact on the forgiven.

      Unconditional love has been known to transform hardened criminals into grateful human beings.

    • 2 years ago
  • sue4e3
  • sue4e3
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      sue4e3  
    • I have taken every thing I have learned and analyzed it .I was asked once if I would could go back and kill hitler as a baby would i ? In highschool I answered yes .Now I say no .In my personal opinion he was evil.But, an incident of that magnitude (death ,life and living it) had to play out the effects at that level can not be left to any one person.We have no inklingwho was livng and dieing and what they were taking from it.that made our word what it is or isn't. you have to be very careful if your going to sit on a throne.

    • 2 years ago
  • Gephoria
  • RAZORWOP
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      RAZORWOP  
    • JanforGore,
      Non-believers lump all Christians together because they should be. If there is any true spiritual reality to the faith, then it is only in it's original, unilateral form. All the different christian "denominations" are no more valid as a religion than various after-school clubs.

    • 2 years ago
  • ras_menelik
  • TheEmpireGuy
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      TheEmpireGuy  
    • RAZORWOP:

      That, right there is being very judgmental.

      Not all Christians should be lumped together as 'the same', all humans, in general, are different in what they believe.

      And what would you call a "non-denominational" church.
      i guess that counts as a denomination, but the question still stands.

    • 2 years ago
  • ras_menelik
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      ras_menelik  
    • For we know the one who said, "Vengeance belongs to me; I will pay them back," and again, "The Lord will judge his people." Hebrews 10:30

    • 2 years ago
  • SPECIALIST
  • JanforGore
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      JanforGore  
    • Hate the sin, not the sinner. And what is it with always focusing these questions on Christians? And why do people always lump all Christians into their own neat compartments? This title sounds a tad judgemental to me as well.

    • 2 years ago
  • current89
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      current89  
    • JanforGore:

      "And what is it with always focusing these questions on Christians? "

      It's because Christians are the largest religious group in the world. Though that will end in the next 50 years or so with the steady increase of Muslims and the slight decrease of Christians.

      "And why do people always lump all Christians into their own neat compartments? "

      Because most Christians have the same fundamental beliefs, the most basic one being the belief in Jesus Christ.

      "This title sounds a tad judgmental to me as well."

      The guy who posted this article is a Christian.

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • JanforGore:

      "And what is it with always focusing these questions on Christians?" I think this one was in particular because the poster is Christian and is looking for perspectives based about Christianity specifically.

    • 2 years ago
  • JanforGore
  • current89
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      current89  
    • JanforGore:

      Obviously you missed my point Jan, I'm saying he's focusing it on Christians because he's a Christan.

      "Lame excuses. People are judgmental even if they are atheists"

      First, no one is giving an excuse.

      Secondly, of course they are judgmental, all humans are judgmental. Including yourself. Hell you've insinuated that I don't have morals(not on this post though). However, secular atheistic nations tend to be more productive and filled with happier people, that isn't a coincidence. I'm referring to Adrian White's 2007 study.

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
  • TheEmpireGuy
  • SPECIALIST
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      SPECIALIST  
    • DeliaTheArtist - i like the way you think - perhaps if we used more precise language like "evaluate behavior", "discriminate and respond according to past actions" and "condemn soul to hell" (if there is one) we might be in complete agreement.

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • SPECIALIST:

      Well for the most part I do agree. Honestly, I'm not as interested in what happens to the soul after death as making sure justice is served here on earth- in that way, we can have a secular way of "evaluating behavior" and taking actions in response to it during a person's life, and leave all the souls, god and afterlife stuff up to the people that believe in it to hash out and worry about.

    • 2 years ago
  • SPECIALIST
  • SHAWN_RITTIMAN
  • SPECIALIST
  • SPECIALIST
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      SPECIALIST  
    • DeliaTheArtist - your post is right on - of course i make 'judgments' about people, but i still won't condemn hitler's soul to eternal damnation. his actions YES are condemnable, but all we can observe of others is their behaviors - i never met hitlers 'soul' - how could i condemn it to hell, if there is one?

      i dont know how he was raised - maybe we should then condemn his parents, or the neighborhood he grew up in, or the bully who beat him up in first grade?

      a persons soul is beyond our knowing - therefore we cannot judge it - that is up to God, if there is one.

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • SPECIALIST:

      I guess I can understand what you are saying, but it's different for me because I do not believe in a soul. I don't think there is some separate piece of Hitler which escapes condemning. However if there is a soul, how could it not be tainted with the actions of it's bodily container? It would seem to me that if there is a hell, Hitler is exactly the type of person who would be on the guest list!

    • 2 years ago
  • SPECIALIST
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      SPECIALIST  
    • SPECIALIST:

      i agree completely - see my next post!
      but we cannot know. i consider myself agnostic - i have no 'proof' that there is or is not a god, heaven, hell, soul, etc...if there is one, god has chosen not to reveal;

      i guess i think all people are agnostic....even the pope.

      god is beyond our knowing.....

    • 2 years ago
  • krush_productions
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      krush_productions  
    • Organized religion is based on judgments, thats all they do is judge. As a non believer I find it funny to watch people bicker and root for their religion. The "my god is better than your god" is my personal favorite.

      To progress as a species, we're going to have to put religion in the back seat. Religion has harmed this planet more that it's done it good. Wars have been fought in the name of it, children have been taken from their homes and put in religious schools simply because the tribe they came from didn't believe in a christian god. Muslims repress the women of their culture in the name of religion.

      Fuck, put religion aside and see that we all bleed red, we all look the same, we all are humans.

    • 2 years ago
  • SHAWN_RITTIMAN
  • SPECIALIST
  • TheEmpireGuy
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      TheEmpireGuy  
    • krush_productions:

      "my god is better than your god", thats what Christians call the "holier than thou" aspect.

      All religions try to do anything with the best of intentions and i beg of you, do not label all religions or Christians as the same. As humans we can never do things 100% right and we are always flawed, no matter what god you worship or if you have a god at all, you are correct, we are ALL still Human in nature.

    • 2 years ago
  • SPECIALIST
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      SPECIALIST  
    • sue4e3 - you hit the nail on the head. Empathy means understanding on a higher level. I believe that all people are good, but their actions may not be so good - their values may be clouded by past experiences, or simply different than mine. Peoples actions are primarily driven by emotions - people sometimes 'lash out' for the wrong reasons, or at the wrong target - i cannot see clear to judge someone for an error.
      Jesus said 'forgive' not 'punish' or 'condemn'. I am down with that.
      I admit people must make judgment calls and discriminate on the basis of what they know; this helps us avoid things like dangerous wild animals, dangerous wild humans etc...true, some must be 'caged' to prevent harm to others - the term 'judge' in this context is being used as 'condemn to hell', and that is simply beyond all human understanding - unless you too have been resurrected....

    • 2 years ago
  • current89
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      current89  
    • SPECIALIST:

      Not to be a jackass but Jesus said a lot of things.

      "If a man not abide in me, he is cast forth as a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire and burned”-John 15:6.

      "Do not think that I have come to bring peace upon the earth. I have come to bring not peace but the sword."-Matthew 10: 34-36

      "Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels" (Matthew 25:41)

      “God deems it just to repay with affliction those who afflict you…when the Lord Jesus is revealed from heaven with his mighty angels in flaming fire, inflicting vengeance upon those who do not know God…"-2 Thessalonians 1:6-9 says

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • SPECIALIST:

      "true, some must be 'caged' to prevent harm to others - the term 'judge' in this context is being used as 'condemn to hell', and that is simply beyond all human understanding - unless you too have been resurrected...." I'm confused by this, can you elaborate?

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • Honestly, and with as little offense as you can take, I think anyone who has said you "never judge someone" in this post is a liar. When you hear about child rapists, you don't judge them? Murderers? War mongers? Hilter? You haven't made a judgment on Hitler? C'mon.

    • 2 years ago
  • current89
  • DeliaTheArtist
  • sue4e3
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      sue4e3  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      before you call me a liar you would have to know the things I have survived (all of wich has made me stronger and wiser and I am greatful).The closest I come to judging is making personal decisions based on past experiences.as far as hitler ,I was asked one time in high school if I could go back and kill him as a baby would I ? my first response was yes . now that I am older and wiser my answer is no . not because he is not evil in my opinion , but becuase an incident of that magnitude (death ,life and living it ) had to play out the ripples of that puddle were to great for any one person to decide.We do not have an inkling.who was living and dieing and what they were taking from it to make our world what it is or isn't today.you have to be careful if your gonna sit on a throne

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      So you do not judge Hitler for the death he caused? All of your speculation doesn't change the fact that millions of people died, right? One successful assassination could have saved millions of lives; that is the type of judgment calls we are talking about. I don't think it "had to play out" the way it did.

      You do not judge child molesters, serial killers, habitual wife beaters? You don't think to yourself "Wow, that's wrong! That person has done very bad things!" That is a judgment that I am not ashamed to say I make.

      Without judgment, how can we successfully run society? We have to be able to draw lines and have consequences for behavior and actions that are harmful to society and other people.

    • 2 years ago
  • ras_menelik
  • TheEmpireGuy
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      TheEmpireGuy  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      It all happens for a reason, a reason that humans could never comprehend. Some live and some die, we have no say in it and i would never want that responsibility to begin with.

      As for me, I would never want to screw around with history in any way.

      if we know something bad is to happen ahead of time, then, by all means, try and stop it.

    • 2 years ago
  • lucidstone
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      lucidstone  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      I'm sorry, but the whole "everything happens for a reason" is a complete cop out and a complete suspension of basic logical thought on the premise of "faith".

      It may be a nice warm blanket to curl up to in a scary world, but it's complete crap.

      A slow torturous death to good, loving, peaceful people doesn't happen for a "divine reason". It happens because some sick s.o.b. figured he could get his jollies and get away with it, and often does.

    • 2 years ago
  • TheEmpireGuy
  • lucidstone
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      lucidstone  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      "It all happens for a reason, a reason that humans could never comprehend."

      If you aren't referencing "god's plan" then what the hell are you talking about? If it is in fact "god's plan" or some mystical equivalent that you are talking about, then they would in fact be "divine reasons".

      If so, I would then divert you back to my explanation of how such a world-view is devoid of rational thought and is in fact complete crap.

      However,

      "I just said reason, it all happens for some reason, good or bad."

      If you are implying that you were referencing mortal reasons that have both good and bad origins, then these are things that humans CAN comprehend and the statement,

      " . . . a reason that humans could never comprehend.",

      is false and misleading.

      So tell me . . . are you simply inarticulate, or do you not understand what you are saying?

    • 2 years ago
  • TheEmpireGuy
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      TheEmpireGuy  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      It would seem that many people on this site are stuck on "rationality", or i should say, what YOU believe to be rational thought.

      Everyone is entitled to their own belief systems.

      Everything does happen for a reason and there is never such thing as coincidence or chance. Most, if not all, of those reasons can not be comprehended by humans and, if it makes you happy, could be divine reasons or just a simple chain of events that stems from one event. That chain can go so far and have many turnarounds or twists that you or I can't possibly begin to comprehend where it all started.

      I am not here to please your mind or sugar coat it for you so you can feel happy about yourself. I posted this to gain perspective on the Christian faith and you, my friend, have shown me a perspective harsh logic and low self-esteem. You seem to have a dislike for people who do not have YOUR rationality, I can say this because of what you have typed here. I judged upon what I can see and what I saw was your clear lack of faith. You seem like the person that only believe what they see or what they are told. Very close-mined.

      Don't get me wrong, you seem like a nice guy and all, but your logic has led you to a stale thought system of the world around you.

      Please tell me you can see the wonders of our world and the Universe beyond it, how can that be an accident? In logic, the odds are against it, you can relate to that, right?

      What is so wrong with a belief in a higher power? If I'm right, well good for me and bad for you. If your right, nothing for either of us.

      I believe something and I shouldn't be harassed for it.

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • Judging "people" and judging their beliefs are different to me. For example, I am NOT going to tolerate or respect the point of view that homosexuality is a sin, a crime, or any other such nonsense. I judge that viewpoint as wrong and harmful to society. Does that mean that the person who thinks this way is inherently bad and wrong as well? Not necessarily. Am I judging someONE by judging their viewpoint? I don't think so.

      The problem is a lot of religious people have no desire to separate their beliefs from who they are as a person. I find that people who have faith in god typically put god before everything else, giving their faith the highest significance in their life. When this is the case, conversation and debate becomes difficult because that type of believer will always take a judgment on their opinion as a personal attack. Some religious people don't think of their religious beliefs as "opinions" at all, but rather as absolute truths.

      We HAVE to make judgments in this world. Humans dictate their morals, not god. Morals are relative dependent on time, culture, history, etc- but some things are worth standing for (or against.) Personally I think that organized religion does more harm than good in this world. As an atheist, I don't judge someone for believing in god, but I am aware of how it can changes their perspective and viewpoints dependent on what god they believe in and what religion they most identify with.

      "We can disagree without being disagreeable".

    • 2 years ago
  • current89
  • TheEmpireGuy
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      TheEmpireGuy  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      For some people, putting there god or their faith before all else is what they believe is right or they believe it is what their god would want then to do.

      As for myself, I believe my faith in God or my "salvation" is an absolute truth. If I did not then what faith could i possibly have if I don't consider it to be the truth.

      Whether or not we HAVE to make judgments in this world or not, I can't answer.

      It is good that we dictate our own morals and make our own choices for if we did not then we would nothing more than mere robots.

      Most organized religion, while having the best of intentions, does do more harm than good, you are correct on that.

      A belief in God or a god does change peoples perspectives, but that change is not always the same for everyone nor is it always for the best.

      if people would just accept other people and their beliefs then the world would be a lot more peaceful.

      People should live THEIR lives by THEIR standards and no one should get to say otherwise.

      Thank You for commenting and bringing these points up.

    • 2 years ago
  • sue4e3
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      sue4e3  
    • the word your looking for is empathy .If you can see everyone clearly you wouldn't judge .If you can see why something or someone is the way it is it blurs your ability to decide what is right and wrong .At the very least you usually decide that the judgment was up to a higher power and not envy him or her it.I'm very glad I'm not the one driving this boat .I don't dare judge people because the ripples you make always find you.( personal choices for myself sure) seeing things this way can be very painful sometimes.

    • 2 years ago
  • SPECIALIST
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      SPECIALIST  
    • Do Unto Others as THEY would have you do unto THEM.

      Suppose I believe it is the highest holy honor and a guarantee of eternal salvation to be sacrificed to the Crocodile God?
      Would you have me do unto you as I would have you do unto me?

    • 2 years ago
  • current89
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      current89  
    • First off, I don't think it's right to judge a person solely on the fact that they're a Christan. However, I disagree with the quote "Do not judge so that you will not be judged." It's okay to judge a person based on their fundamental beliefs. Judging a person is only bad when you don't have significant and proper and truthful information about said person. And by proper I mean, an understanding of the person's general actions, ethics, and speech. Will the understanding be subjective, of course.

      Additionally, if we shouldn't judge people that means we shouldn't prosecute them for crimes. It's wholly foolish to say we can have a society without some standard by which we judge others.

      That's why we must strive for a rational system in which we judge people "by the content of their character." And yes I'm quoting MLK Jr. when I say that.

    • 2 years ago
  • SPECIALIST
  • current89
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      current89  
    • current89:

      I'm an atheist. I don't have a god. Additionally, if we shouldn't judge people that means we should'nt prosecute them for crimes. It's wholly foolish to say we can have a society without some standard by which we judge others. In fact, I dare say you've judged me already based on one comment. You've already insinuated certain things about me without taking the time to ask me questions that don't have a biased attitude.

    • 2 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • current89:

      "It's wholly foolish to say we can have a society without some standard by which we judge others." Exactly. We have to make some judgments about what is "right" and "wrong" for humanity and society. Call me crazy, but I'd rather come to those conclusions with the newest, most relevant information and a more global perspective than based solely on 'holy scriptures' and 'god's will'.

    • 2 years ago
  • sue4e3
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      sue4e3  
    • current89:

      I'm sorry if something I said led you to believe I judged you .I know nothing about you to judge.crime should always be sought out by our justice system but I do not believe it perfect that is also why I do not believe in capitol punishment . And for the record I have alot to answer for when I meet my maker .

    • 2 years ago
  • current89
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  • Highr0ller
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      Highr0ller [removed]  
    • If we respect others, and ourselves, we will all move forward harmoniously. A lot of pontificating has gone on since 9/11

      The true Christian is not the one walking down the street with a fat bible under his arm on a Sunday morning.

      Guess we are all sinners..........but I personally believe in ONE GOD no matter what way you choose to worship.

    • 2 years ago
  • Highr0ller
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      Highr0ller [removed]  
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