Calif. high court upholds gay marriage ban
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The California Supreme Court handed down its decision in a series of lawsuits seeking to overturn November's Proposition 8. Gay-rights advocates maintain the ballot measure so dramatically revised the state constitution's equal protection clause that it needed the Legislature's approval before it could be put to voters.
The seven-member court upheld the initiative as a constitutional expression of the electorate's will, but also decided to sustain the marriages of an estimated 18,000 gay couples who wed before the measure passed with 52 percent of the vote.
Source: MSNBC
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RCS
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This truly should not be a surprise. State supreme courts have almost always affirmed these ballot measures. It would have been nice if California had done otherwise, but all the precedents across the country pointed to this conclusion.
The one good thing about this ruling is that the 18,000 thousand same-sex marriages already performed will be preserved. Over time, they should serve as a platform to campaign once again for full marriage equality for all Californians.
Though this one was lost, there is another important battle going on right now on the other side of the country for marriage rights for all. That is the one in New York, and it can still be won.
In fact, Megan McCain just wrote a letter to her fellow Republicans in New York state in which she fully and completely endorsed gay marriage.
http://current.com/items/90125553_senator-john-mccains-daughter-megan-urges-gop-...
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RCS
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TheEmpireGuy
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And you all thought Christianity was dieing, HA!
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TheEmpireGuy
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Liberal_Extinction
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Left wingers upset because the will of the people is upheld? Yep no left wing fascists around here anywhere...
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Liberal_Extinction
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superfinet
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Marriage is a silly religious institution. Why, oh why would anyone wish to get married? "Traditional Marriage"
let the breeders keep it. . . think of something more out of the box - 2 years ago
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superfinet
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in4itsover
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who cares, let people do what they want
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in4itsover
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dabne
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This is NOT "Mob Rule."
Was the election of Obama "Mob Rule?"
Please, do not pretend that our system is "Mob Rule," that is ridiculous.
Do you want the courts to decide everything? We might as well go back to having a King as well. Just leave the people out of it, they are not educated enough to make proper decisions. Let's let the sophisticated courts decide everything. Get a clue.
I also hate it when people complain about so called "Religious Values" mixing with Government policy.
Values are values and the religious part is like saying "Gay values" "Black values" "White values." Values are values.
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dabne
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dabne:
this is the most idiotic response i've heard all day.
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randallr01
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dabne
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dabne:
Yet no explanation as to why?
Look, if you want a few elected people in the corrupt courts to overturn everything the people decide then that's your take. I'd argue for a long debate about the issues at hand and let the people of the land resolve the issues with a fair voting process. Laws are never permanent and issues never go away. But don't take away the rights of the common man.
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dabne
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sickinjersey
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Why would any sane individual want to enter into a contract that is layed out by the government?If marriage was to cure illness i would die first.
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Humdrum
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Anyone spouting off "the people have spoken" should feel free to go back to the jungle and be ruled by the largest male with the biggest muscles. We live in a civilized society, ruled by an advanced system meant to protect us from mob rule/ rule of the "strong." There have been more than enough posts here illustrating the fact that our government is not run by the mob, none of which have been answered, much less successfully argued against.
Don't bring religion into it, because it is not a religious issue. It is a legal one. No one will force Christian churches to marry gay people, just like no one is stopping pagan marriage ceremonies between two people of the same sex now. First amendment, remember? Christianity doesn't own the word "marriage," and neither do heterosexuals. Those that think otherwise are fooling themselves. Take a lesson from your lord and savior and "live and let live." Prove that you're not a bunch of brazen hypocrites.
And don't start with that "slippery slope" bullsh*t, because you'll just make yourself sound like a complete dolt who doesn't know the meaning of the words "consenting adult [human being]." Embrace your bigotry. Announce it. Don't be a pussy.
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Humdrum
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Humdrum:
Well fucking said... What you said makes me want to tackle someone.
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UrbanGypsy
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dabne
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Humdrum:
Do you want the courts to decide everything? Should we the people, the "mob rule" not be allowed to participate in shaping our way of life?
I'm not arguing for or against prop 8 but I certainly put more credibility in the people than I do the corrupt judicial system.
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dabne
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Humdrum:
I want the courts to do their job.
Those who voted for Prop 8 were not voting to "shape their way of life." They were voting to deny a minority equal rights. We may all be Americans, but the beauty of this country is the fact that we don't all have to behave the same exact way, so long as no one else's rights are denied by us doing so.
If it doesn't affect your life, then why do you care?
For the sake of a word?
Again I say, the word "marriage" is not exclusive to Judeo-Christianity. The concept of "marriage" is not exclusively what popular Christianity says it is.
This is a legal discussion, not a theological one. The legal definition is/ should be pretty simple - a legal contract between consenting adults. - 2 years ago
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Frank81
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Land of the free, i think not. When it comes down to it this here is a human rights issuse. Republicans & these religouis groups only belive in there rights & there freedoms. They also think that everyone should think just like them.
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fernandoago:
such compassion...
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fernandoago:
Pathetic.
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Humdrum
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fernandoago:
Do us all a favor and don't spill your half finished chromosomes into any of those ragged prostitutes you see to quell your misdirected rage. Freak.
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corndog67
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When the No on 8 people get enough votes to change things by a majority of the legal voters, it'll change. What the fuck is so hard to understand about that. As the population ages, more young people, who you have to admit are more openminded about such things, will vote for gay marriage and it will change. Right now, it's not there yet. Sniveling, calling bigotry, unfairness, and everything else that is being said will not help anybodies cause. According to different sources, between 1% and 10% of the population is homosexual. Personally, I think it's closer to the low end. It really won't make any difference in the lives of most people one way or the other. Why the big stink about it now?
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spanky07:
haha, clever.
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thornman
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Prop 8 will be overturned the next time the voters head to the office. Why? Last time, nearly 80% of African Americans said YES to Prop 8, while every other race was basically split much more closely, with most 51% NO to Prop 8. The effect of African Americans was so great because so many of them were at the polls not to vote on Prop 8, but to vote for the first dark-skinned pesidential nominee. Next year there won't be as much of an influx of African Americans due the lack of hype about the election. So hopefully this will allow equality for the state of california.
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UrbanGypsy
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thornman:
Interesting and insightful observation!
But then that would mean that the ban would come back AGAIN, when Obama's next election comes up...
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thornman:
Oh, so in your liberal mind justice is only served when the blacks don't show up to the polls. So they aren't equal citizens deserving of their right to vote their opinion if it doesn't agree with your opinion, nice. Let's not forget your obamessiah likely wouldn't have been elected if it weren't for the masses voting for his skin color. Who's using the black people now you piece of shit?
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Liberal_Extinction
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WesternBudda
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at the end of the day what bad can come out of letting gay people get married, its just people with there traditions trying to hold to somthing from the past because there frietend of change.
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WesternBudda
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igordy [removed]
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Not sure - is one born gay or not? I thought one is born asexual to be quite honest with you. Definitely a boy or a girl (save for the ultra-small percentage of non-gender specific babies). So at some point, one chooses, leans, prefers the opposite or same sex partners. I've heard gays describe their choice was due to missing a parent, parental abuse, drug dependencies, etc. Riddle me this - why can gay men speak normally when they so choose - and at other times, they speak like "queens"? No insult intended...
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igordy:
where did you get your information, can you cite it? because i call bullshit on that one. Your comments have been consistently incomplete, incoherent, and once had nothing to do with what was being said in response to your previous comment (the harvey milk comment). Children are born with low amounts of testosterone and estrogen and contact with humans, as those things start to form, children will then start to materialize an attraction to either the same or opposite sex, usually around the age of 8-13. Those who suffer from addiction and perform homosexual acts to obtain drugs are not thinking about the attraction that he/she has for the other person, they do these act explicitly for the attraction of the drug. So that reason you listed is fallacy. What does it matter to you the way that someone speaks. Many people have lisps, many people say like or uhmm too much, and some say their words abbreviated. we have to right to say what we want and how we want. you have the right to make incredibly retarded comments like you do, and i have the right to rebut.
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igordy:
@igordy - don't you remember when you chose to like girls? Or are you one of those that never had to think about it?
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Two law professors today told CNN that the California Supreme Court's hands where tied because of the Prop 8 was voted in as legislation. However, they also point out, (which is really more important) that they believe that the Supreme court deliberately left the door open for an appeal that they can not hear. In other words, by allowing the 18,000 same sex marriages to stand, it stands on a ruling they made. The Prop 8 was legislative and not made by them. Hence their ruling stands and the only way that it can be appealed is by going to the U.S. Supreme Court. This is going to be interesting. The risk there is that the US. Supreme Court can overturn the 18,000 same sex marriages. Thoughts?
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Of all the states that allow same sex marriage, you would think California would be one of them.
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Simply put, anyone who is against equal rights on the basis of orientation is a bigot. Full stop. There is NO justification at all and any claims to the contrary are foolish and laughably stupid on their face.
Those who don't like being called a bigot should stop being a bigot.
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fucking iowa, but not california, beautiful.
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4saken
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Put some damn logic and reason behind the laws, this is one law that doesn't have it.
Merely a mass of emotionally appealing people looking to mythological texts to justify their distaste for another.
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randallr01
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Why did I have to be born in the 1980s?
Why couldn't I be born much, much later, into a society that accepts me?
Why must I fight for my rights? I shouldn't have to defend who I am...
I'm sad.
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randallr01:
Don't be sad.
You're here because you're part of the solution.
Years from now, when you're explaining marriage and family to your grand kids, they would be totally psyched that you were here for this part of the revolution.
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seanalyn
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anyone else want to join me in protesting getting married in California until everyone can get married? My boyfriend and I have begun talking about marriage and will probably do so within the next few years. But I just wouldnt feel right getting married in California knowing my friends cannot get married here.
Guess I should start looking into honeymoon spots in Iowa!
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Upholding the will of the people is, in most cases, the way to go, but when the majorirty becomes tyrannical, as in this case, we have the court system. Unfortunatly, they made the wrong descision.
The majority isn't always right.
Which is why we live in a Republic and not a democracy and anyone who tells you otherwise is beyond being wrong.
It's not a Deomocracy, it's not a Democratic/Republic, it's a Republic.
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TheEmpireGuy:
More accurately a representative democracy as opposed to a direct democracy...
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What people need to realize is that Prop 8 only won by a slim, tiny majority of a few percent, so don't be so quick to say "the people have spoken" or something like that.
People need to stop calling California the most liberal state in the Union. It's not. We passed Prop 8 and elected a damn actor to be our governor.
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FallenMorgan:
As always, I love what you have to say, FallenMorgan. Bravo.
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FallenMorgan:
Hehe, sounds like someone lives in California :)
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This means that YES, the vote of the people really does mean something, and the will of the people should never be dismissed or ridiculed. Those who would say "Well, we don't care what the voters say!" are self centered bigots, and are willing to ignore the majority belief, claiming their view is morally superior. So there really is common sense in California. But this is California, after all, so eventually gay marriage will be the law of the land- and when this happens, freedom of religion will cease to exist.
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unclecharlie:
Equality is always morally superior to oppression.
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unclecharlie:
i'm waiting for the day that you cease to exist ; )
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unclecharlie:
So...if the majority of the people on Current think you should go play in traffic...
"the will of the people should never be dismissed or ridiculed."
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Humanity really is disappointing sometimes. Why do we insist on treating other people like shit?
It all starts with the religions. They're poison.
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atainder:
agreed. poison disguised as honey.
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seanalyn
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hurray for upholding discrimination! :/
I thought the government and specifically the supreme courts were supposed to protect the rights of the minority from oppression from the majority. Guess all those politics classes I took were just a load.
Remember at one point the majority voted for segregation...should we have upheld that?
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seanalyn:
'Guess all those politics classes I took were just a load."
You know those liberal professors, defending the rights of human beings, supporting the constitution. Who needs em?
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WTF Cali? I thought you were supposed to be cutting edge and trend setting? Right now you're getting outdone by the East Coast...
If Homosexual people want to get married, I say they have the right to be as miserable as everyone else...
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This crusade is nothing more than just a exercise is futility aimed nothing more than just to fuel the bitterness the gay movement have against religion.
Give up on that crusade and take on a civil union...it is not as revengefull as "winning over religious intolerance" but it fulfills the original reasons why this fight started.
Come on guys, a civil union is better. it does not have that relgious ties and its something that you can call your own..lets all go home and enjoy life..
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GodsnLiberals:
Incorrect. Civil Unions do not satisfy the demand for equality because it is not recognized by every state in our union, as is traditional marriage. If you are a patriot and believe in the Constitution, you cannot agree with this ruling. And the assertion that homosexuals are against religion is simply ridiculous and unfounded personal opinion. It just so happens that this display of intolerance is coming from religious people, for the most part. I wonder if you would have the same opinion if this ruling was against another social group.
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GodsnLiberals:
I wasn't aware marriage was a religious exercise, since you can go to Vegas and get married by an Elvis impersonator...
In addition, if this is a religious issue then why are we VOTING in political venues for it's legalization? I mean, are the eyes of the Lord also the eyes of our government?
You're reaching for a reason to discredit this movement, because you(like the Californians who voted against gay marriage) are afraid of change. Let gay people get married... It's not going to stop half the straight couples that get divorced within 5 years of marriage, and it won't tarnish or destroy the "sanctity" of marriage. That has already been destroyed by America's divorce rate.
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Thats a shame...
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chmk
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Ughh lame.
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this is interesting because it appears that a lot of viewers believe that it is an easy task to make the decision to keep the ban. Sure, socially, it is a step backwards. But I dont think the judges, with all their knowledge and experience regarding ethics, are sitting around considering how can I make gay people mad. A lot of the responces seem like personal attacks. Unfortunately, in this weird pseudo-democracy, this is how the people feel, ignorant or not.
What's more, all this leads me to think is that people have too much time on their hands; concerned with who else is getting married. It doesn't follow that, if you understand history, ethics, and other fields of academia that may shed light on this subject that you would want to ban gay marriage. it's along the lines of people who say more by what they are not saying, then by what they are.
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I don't like it when other people have the right to decide what someone else can and cannot do. Its scary and when and where will it stop?
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HAHAHA! Voters Win and the 1% LOSE!
NEXT STORY...... - 2 years ago
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powerhungry:
If you love mob rule so much, perhaps you should go back to living in the jungle.
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powerhungry:
HAHA! That response made it all that much better. Because its not what you want, its mob rule? HAHA...Debate with logic and not emotion othewise it makes you look uneducated.
Example:
Gay marriage is not an equal rights issue. Saying gays have fewer rights than non-gays is like saying marijuana being illegal is an ‘equal rights' issue because people who like smoking tobacco can do so legally, but people who like smoking marijuana cant. Smoking tobacco is legal for everyone, and smoking marijuana is illegal for everyone across the board—it doesn’t make a difference if you happen to only prefer one or the other. One can still argue that marijuana should be legal, of course (or tobacco shouldn’t be), but not on an ‘equal rights’ basis, without demonstrating how the law actually treats people with different smoking preferences differently.
For it to be an equal rights violation would mean that me as a heterosexual male CAN marry another man but a homosexual man cannot marry another man. I have the same rights as they do and they have the same rights as I do. They can marry the opposite sex just like I can and cannot marry the same sex just like I can't. - 2 years ago
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powerhungry:
Careful powerhungry, they're radical leftists, logic rarely prevails when debating them...
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This is absurd. So basically, this is rubber stamping that it's ok to give partial citizenship to our homosexual brethren. Who pay taxes, fight wars, fix cars, etc, like everyone else, but because of their lifestyle they do not receive the full rights of citizenship under our Constitution. As we have seen in the past, civil rights can not be left up to the whim of the body politic which has proven time and time again, that they are not able to do what is good for our country. This in not American. This ruling is completely perpendicular to fundamental ideas of what America is.
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Sad.
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@nafsidan - clear thinking. "forcefully applied to every state in the union" - that's the matra of today's government. And for that, I hate liberal democrats.
As to gay marriage - the people of Cali voted - like it or not - that's democracy at work. Except in your case - if you don't agree with the outcome - then it's the "tyranny of the majority", biggotry, intolerance, etc. WTF? Cali is one open fucking minded state - and they voted to preserve the sanctity of marriage. Y'all have some options - accept it, move to Iowa or fight it until you inundate everyone so much that they will let you have it - but let me warn you - once you get it, you will not be happy either. You're community leaders will trumpet another "worthy" cause - like to teach 'gayness' in public schools or something like that. - 2 years ago
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igordy:
teaching 'gayness'? How does one teach heterosexuality? Seriously, please get in touch with reality and understand that its not possible to do this.
In the immortal word of Harvey Milk:
"I was raised by heterosexual parents, taught by heterosexual teachers in a fiercely heterosexual society. So why then am I a homosexual? ...if it were true that children mimic their teachers, we'd have a hell of a lot more nuns running around." - 2 years ago
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igordy:
Which says what to you? By your great teacher Milk? He is no one to me - so quoting him doesn't really "reverbate" here... Sorry...
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igordy:
Ha, my oh my where to start. Let's talk history. The marginalization of Black Americans was once the majority's opinion as well. Just because a majority has a particular opinion does not make it right. This is brought into crystal clear focus by the majorities opinion of the previous presidential administration. We see how that ended up. In terms of decisions that affect the entire body politic, I would say sure, the people need a voice. But in this particular case, where people's personal and often inaccurate views of another person's lifestyle, a lifestyle they do not share I might add, are the basis for making a decision that curtails their rights which are supposed to be guaranteed by our constitution is simply not right. The California legislature dropped the ball on this one plain and simple. If you are an American patriot and believe the virtues of equality laid down in our constitution, you cannot agree with this. It's just that simple.
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igordy:
Gordy, you refute the author but not the statement - why? I'm not asking you to judge the person I'm quoting, but to assess the voracity of what he said. If you can really teach gayness, then how would you say the people of the 40s, 50s and 60s (and earlier/later) were 'taught gayness' in a "fiercely heterosexual society" as Mr Milk so eloquently stated?
What it says to me is that being gay is not a lifestyle choice, but something one is born into, and cannot change. Most of America agrees with me on that point. Alienating a group of people because of the way the are at birth, something they cannot change, sounds highly unethical and unamerican, does it not? We covered that with women's suffrage, the civil rights movement, etc. - 2 years ago
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remember people ths was voted on by the people and this country is run by those people i have no problem with gay marriage but the people in cali apprently do
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i can see not allowing gay couples to marry in a religious institution if it's "against" what the religion teaches at "true" or "right"...but the state is supposed to be separate.
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I think anyone who wants to be legally united to someone else for whatever reason should be allowed to do so, but my question about this particular case is how can an amendment to a constitution be unconstitutional? That's kind of a paradox. Other than that, go ahead and marry or civil unionate whomever you like. Don't bother me none.
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marklemagne:
Actually, constitutionality wasn't the issue being decided by the court. The actual question being decided was whether Prop 8 constitute an amendment to the constitution, which can be passed by a majority, or a revision to the constitution, which needs to have the approval of the legislature. The basis for it being considered a revision was that it would restrict the rights of one segment of the population.
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The founders warned us of tyranny of the majority, and here it is at work, the courts were meant to balance that out, but it seems they didn't have the guts to oppose the irrational will of the people.
"All, too, will bear in mind this sacred principle, that though the will of the majority is in all cases to prevail, that will to be rightful must be reasonable; that the minority possess their equal rights, which equal law must protect, and to violate would be oppression. "-Thomas Jefferson
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The equality movement most likely won today. The issue will now be going federal, and same-sex marriage rights will have a chance to blanket the entire US rather that just the state of California.
Under the federal constitution, citizens have the right to enter contracts, and they are ensured the freedom of religion. Since marriage is a legal and religious contract, the supreme court should rule that same-sex marriages are legal, and will be forcefully applied to every state in the union.
The real winners today are those in favor of a strong central government, and the real losers are state's rights advocates. California just gave away the right for states to decide who can and cannot get married in any state. Equality in marriage is going to happen one way or another, but at what cost?
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Nafsidan:
Like your opinion, long term thinking, but for the short term it's painful for those who will not be allowed to marry.
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Californians who voted no on prop 9 roll call!
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Disgusting! It's 2009! We still haven't learned to coexist, tolerate or accept one another?!!? This and all prejudice is the bane of civilization. As this old-world stupidity runs rampant,... civil rights die, progress is stunted and tensions run dangerously high. Is unity too much to ask for?
WE DISGUST ME
- 2 years ago
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PajamaDan
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igordy [removed]
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Hahaha - this is so cool!!! I know ya'll going to "flame" me for this post - "flame" me - that's appropriate too! I am not a religious nut, nor am I a homophobe or a gay-basher. But why can't you all understand that we live in a democracy - people voted to keep MARRIAGE as a traditional institution - a legal union between a man and a woman. Even in the leftie-liberal state of Cali - the majority of people are for keeping marriage multi-sexed - if there's such a word. That's all there is to it. You, the gay people, are allowed to do anything and everything - which is fine - you are just as human as any heterosexual and just as a citizen. But at least for now, the whole concept of marriage is understood to be a heterosexual union - it's really quite simple!
BTW - there will never be more gays than straights - the society will die if this ever happens. Two hetero parents - 1 or more children. 2 homo parents - 0 children (naturally born). I am not counting the test tube baby births by the lesbians here.
So flame away - that's what you're good at, isn't it? You have all the equalities in our society - queer shows and movies, queer dancers and athletes, queer politicians and even religious leaders. Settle down and appreciate the freedoms - it is a lot worse for your ilk in societies of many of less-democratic nations - Russia, Saudi Arabia, Iran, etc. I suppose it could be better is some ultra-liberal socialist European countries - but there, it's temporary - as these countries fall into the Islamic fold - which is just a matter of time, they will severely reverse their policies on gays - and your ilk will be hunted and persecuted there in time. No, that is not what I want - I am personally OK with your choice of sexuality - but I'd prefer if you kept it to yourself, instead of trumpeting "gay pride" all over the world. Kind of - not in my face, please... Or is that too much to ask for? - 2 years ago
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MissAmanda
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igordy:
the population will never die out.
ever. no matter how many gay couples there are.
why don't test tube babies and adopted children count towards the human population?
oh wait, they do.
- 2 years ago
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bombastinator
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igordy:
you left out the big one. Bigot. Please substitute "slavery' or "suffrage" and see how it reads. Inequality is inequality.
- 2 years ago
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igordy:
Amanda - they represent such a small percentage - the test-tube babies - that they really don't count! As to the adopted children - they don't count twice, do they? Once they were born to a hetero couple, they are counted once. Once they are adopted by gay parents - that's not an automatic "two"!!! Your logic is gay and it is flawed!
As to mankind dying out, you need to follow my link above and spend 5 minutes watching the video - to further your understanding on the subject of demographics. The video is not anti-gay - but deals with another subject - much more grave than the right of gays to marry... - 2 years ago
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alicynx
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igordy:
Okie, no bashing here but I do want to correct you on several assumptions you've made.
Firstly, the concept of only heterosexual marriage as being 'traditional' is false, (and I'm making the assumption that traditional here means a time-honored ritual) since going back in history most major societies endorsed the sacred union of two people of the same sex. Hell, there's even a Pope that got married to a man.Secondly, since when is it acceptable to have the majority vote on civil rights issues - especially on a state-by-state basis? Where would we be in some states if this were the case 40 years ago? It isn't up to the majority to decide exclusionary practices by the government, when we're talking not about lifestyle choices but protected minorities.
The concept of marriage has only recently been branded as heterosexual only, and that is really only restricted to strongly Islamic countries and the US; what does that say about this country? The United States is founded on the ideology of individual freedom, provided it does not harm others or society at large - same-sex marriage does neither.
Why should the freedom of a minority be abridged, when it has no impact whatsoever on you but has a great impact on them? If their 'civil union' isn't recognized by the hospital they're at, a partner can be prohibited from making decisions for a sick loved one; they may even be unable to visit them at important stages. They may be forced from their homes if relatives who disapproved of their union contest a will when one partner dies. They can be denied parental rights in custody disputes. It is far more than just a word.
Also, the ability to marry is not 'in your face' at all. It again refers to the way people can live their lives with the person they love - legally, and protected just like heterosexual couples. It directly relates to how people live in their own homes, and it has no impact in any way on heterosexual marriage. If it would be tearing at the moral fabric of marriage, I think it can be proven unequivocally that heterosexuals do a fine job of that themselves, with a 50%+ divorce rate.
Given these arguments in favor of the repeal, what are your thoughts?
- 2 years ago
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alicynx
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TheEmpireGuy
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igordy:
Way to get flamed, man.
- 2 years ago
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igordy:
Those are serious arguments. Honestly, I haven't looked at this situation from the viewpoint you presented. There are still a few "buts" in my mind though. Like what's next - as special agendas never stop. Like what implications this would have for America on a global scale - like a "big picture" view. Some implications might not even be seen or haven't been considered yet, as they might not be evident. Most states already have domestic partnership laws - in which cases this wouldn't be enough? Are some of those examples you cite fully correct or do they play up on one's false sense of justice, pity, etc?
Good post though - and wow - no insults?!? Unlike Parez Hilton - hahaha... - 2 years ago
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Raveway
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igordy:
The problem with your argument is that you are somehow convinced that gay people are different. The only difference is that we all watch different porn.
Become more at peace with the world and realize that TWO ADULT HUMANS can fall in love whether you understand it or not. It doesn't matter what genitals they possess. Adult humans getting married. Simple. It's not a big scary institution destroying concept... it's just fucking fair.
- 2 years ago
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Frank81
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igordy:
Dude i agree with some of the things you say not all though.
- 2 years ago
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Frank81
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bombastinator
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Once upon a time our country was divided into slave states and free states in much this manner.
Seems this time around California is a slave state.
- 2 years ago
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bombastinator
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Blood13
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Heartbreaking.
- 2 years ago
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well cali is more than liberal cities with good wine, there's a lot of open heartland "country" here too. It'll pass though society always progresses on easier to swallow issues like this over time. Abortion, thats a tough one...
- 2 years ago
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Can the message to citizens be any more mixed up? They allow the existing gay marriages to stay but no new gay marriages. Personally I do not want same-sex marriage but I do want a consistent and coherent message from my governments. They can enjoy all the rights and benefits of marriage but call it a union. All marriages & unions should have annual renewals put in a contract anyway.
- 2 years ago
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uberdeft:
If you're completely okay with same-sex couples having the same exact rights that heterosexual couples have, then why cling to the naming convention? Why does there need to be a 'separate but equal' situation, unless you would like to reserve the right to future discrimination if the situation permits?
Seriously, if unions provide exactly the same rights as marriage, why make up a whole new name for it? What is so important to you about the word 'marriage' that it needs be become elitist and exclusionary?
- 2 years ago
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alicynx
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uberdeft:
What's so important to YOU about the word "marriage"?
- 2 years ago
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uberdeft:
To me, the use of one term eliminates the possibility of discrimination - when we (as a nation) designed the 'separate but equal' statutes for segregated schools, buses, and everything down to drinking fountains, it was found that people still violated the civil rights of people of color, by providing less than equal service to the separate services. The redefinition of marriage opens the door to the same sorts of discrimination.
As a heterosexual, I enjoy certain rights with regard to my partner; I am able to claim a 'domestic partnership' since we are not married, and get all of the rights homosexual couples are allotted; I have the extra option, however, of becoming legally married, which affords me more rights that homosexual couples can receive. In that light, the 'domestic partnership' that is supposed to afford same-sex couples the same rights as heterosexual marriage falls short. If they are married (with only one term encompassing all of the rights afforded to ALL couples), then this sort of discrimination is far more difficult to have occur. Does that make sense? I personally do not have any attachment to the word, but I do have a strong attachment to equal rights. By altering the definition of a legal term, we're wading into murky waters that can lead to the drowning of civil liberties, and NOBODY wants that. - 2 years ago
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uberdeft:
Forget Marriages, let's call it Loves. But I have witnessed predation to be in 'both their clans' right down to the modern video games kids play .. there are dandy-boy apples and lucky lad cakes while your minions yell out I'm going to tear you a new one. Too much, even for a great game. And is it Layla or Lola cartoon girl that now 'takes vacations' with girlfriends. Are they getting children to accept it or become it?
- 2 years ago
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uberdeft:
Uberdeft, I think that last comment is a little busted. It's not about teaching children to become something, it is not a taught concept, it is an innate attraction. It's about accepting them when they come to understand their sexuality. Maybe if you take a step back from your XBOX, you will find that compassion partially comes from the connections that you make with others not like yourself, and we all know very well you cannot experience those connections while your bloodshot eyeballs are glued to the tube.
- 2 years ago
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uberdeft:
Take one piece of one fact and think you have me circled up? And you have no valid argument so therefore make fun of me for playing xbox sometimes. I really don't play hardly at all so shut up and don't act like you know something, cause you don't.
- 2 years ago
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uberdeft:
Yeah I have an xbox and I "hardly play at all" too..
The point is, you're sexual orientation is not a choice. You can't coax a child to be homosexual.
- 2 years ago
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TopScruffy
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malathion
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being anti-gay is gay
- 2 years ago
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malathion
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I am deeply saddened that California will not be an equality state until 2010 when California voters will turn out to support Equality.
http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2009263752_webmarriagelocal26.ht...
- 2 years ago
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andyjoe
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If there's a silver lining, it's that there have been 18,000 same-sex marriages conducted in California confirmed as legal. That's a big step forward from a couple years ago.
Prop. 8 was a setback, but I believe it will go down in history as a temporary measure that simply delayed the inevitable.
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andyjoe
