Community | June 16, 2009 | 25 comments

A Very Costly Kiss: Senior Denied Diploma

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For teens, there is no greater joy than graduating high school. Shaking off the shackles of education and claiming that hard-fought diploma is truly an epic day. Unfortunately, for several students at Bonny Eagle High School in Maine, their natural exuberance has led to some surprisingly serious problems.

On Friday night, when the senior class was waiting to graduate, excitement began to grow. Students bounced a large inflatable rubber duck. The noise level rose. And then came "the kiss." When called, one student walked on stage to receive his diploma and blew a kiss to his family. The school administrator, clearly not the sentimental sort, sent the student back to his seat ... sans diploma.

The seemingly harsh punishment has sent the Web all aflutter. Searches on "student denied diploma" and "bonny eagle high school" are both through the roof. Additionally, blogs and news papers are chiming in with opinions on whether or not the administration overreacted. The student's mother has given interviews and is quite upset at her son's treatment. According to an article from Fox News the outraged mother said, "A bow, a kiss to your mom is not misbehavior."

But the administrators feel they were just enforcing the rules that students agreed to. At a meeting following the debacle, school superintendent Suzanne Lukas said that "if a student doesn't adhere to the expectations, then the consequences are clearly spelled out."

This isn't the first time that rambunctious (dare we say "fun"?) behavior affected a graduation ceremony at Bonny Eagle. "Four years ago we had some issues with silly string and beach balls," said Lukas.
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25 comments // A Very Costly Kiss: Senior Denied Diploma

  • SHAWN_RITTIMAN
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  • anglcazn
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      anglcazn  
    • First, no hugs in schools. Now, no affection for our families? Are we trying to teach children that being an emotionless asshole is the way to, dare I say, happiness?

      Schools such as high school, middle school, etc. need to lighten the fuck up. What happened to the phrase, "Kids will be kids"?

    • 2 years ago
  • artemis6
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      artemis6  
    • Pettiness = evil . I hope my son blows me a kiss when he graduates . It was a beautiful way of saying "thank you " and sharing credit ... Most the parents I know work very hard and this small victory is , in no small part theirs as well . If that was really in the rules , they need to be modified .

    • 2 years ago
  • Gargaryun
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      Gargaryun  
    • I suggest horse-whipping the arrogant bitch (Suzanne Lukas), in order to teach Her just how important & powerful She REALLY is...

    • 2 years ago
  • FallenMorgan
  • Argon18
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      Argon18  
    • It is hard to believe that they would make such a fuss over blowing a kiss.

      I'd shudder to think what would happen if they had streakers like they had at my graduation, the principal's head probably would've exploded!

    • 2 years ago
  • ItsNaYo
  • MotherForTruth
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      MotherForTruth  
    • 23485768934756 These little moments build our children's character. Maybe the school administration at Bonny Eagle High School in Maine expected well tuned robots, instead they had happy and loving young man and women.

    • 2 years ago
  • 23485768934756
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      23485768934756  
    • The administration is trying to make this a dignified event for every one. These are behaviors that can escalate and demean the graduation. In addition they have a lot of graduates to run through the program and don’t have time for an individual ceremony from each student. He could have choose not to walk, and just get the diploma and move on. They will give him the diploma a few weeks late. I knew a guy one time that dropped out of high school and went straight to college. He graduated with a BS when he was 19 and became a doctor afterward.

    • 2 years ago
  • FallenMorgan
  • NotCaleb
  • kiltedandfree
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      kiltedandfree  
    • lol, unclecharlie, do you remember one of Obama's appointees is Muslim and he was quoted as saying the Shera law would fit in very well in America. Sounds like it is already here. People should get a sense of humor or this world is going to implode from wrinkles and gritchy old people. Probably the principal did this because he knew his time was about up and he would never be able to rule kids again, now he is going to be put out to pasture and be nothing more than some rotting flesh in a wheelchair. So he lashed out at the expression of love, which he has never had. The old principal will just go home and do the Kung Fu Carradine closet dance. How is that for being opinionated? Hmmm bwahahahaha

    • 2 years ago
  • unclecharlie
  • VoyagerFilms
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      VoyagerFilms  
    • School superintendent Suzanne Lukas has way more power than brains.

      The diploma wasn't issued for what the student accomplished on that day, but for years preceding that day.

      The graduation is only a ritualized ceremony, a sort of right of passage ceremony the diploma should not be dependent upon. What a joke!

      And to discipline the kid for blowing a kiss to his parents is a slap in the face of the parents. Way to much power in the hands of people who shouldn't have it.

      Unrealistic and unfair rules shouldn't be enforced.

    • 2 years ago
  • MotherForTruth
  • unclecharlie
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      unclecharlie  
    • This was wholly inappropriate behavior displayed by the would be graduate. Showing affection to members of your family should be punishable by death. Now, this is what I would say if this was Iraq, and I was a member of the Taliban. This, however, is the USA, and to discipline this kid for being affectionate to his family is pretty anti-American, as well as absurd! Those who punished this poor kid should be disciplined with at least a letter of reprimand, and ordered to give a full apology to this kid and his family.

    • 2 years ago
  • pjacobs51
  • MotherForTruth
  • MissAmanda
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      MissAmanda  
    • high school officials getting their last bit of jerk pointless behavior in before they don't have control over the kids anymore...

    • 2 years ago
  • therupperts
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      therupperts  
    • This is ridiculous. When I read the headline I thought he must have kissed the principle on stage or something. I was shocked that all he did was show affection to his own family.

    • 2 years ago
  • kiltedandfree
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      kiltedandfree  
    • therupperts:

      Exactly what I thought, I was looking for the student kissing one of the stooges on stage like an old teacher that everyone hates or something. But not a blown kiss to his mother. What has happened to this country?

    • 2 years ago
  • sushikillakid
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      sushikillakid  
    • what a way to ruin a great day...there is no do overs at your high school graduation and got humiliated in
      front of all his classmates...damn that hella sucks...

    • 2 years ago
  • twitterbot
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      twitterbot  
    • @clevertitania on twitter says "No effing way! RT @Gamdel: Liberal Political Correctness Gone Mad: Senior Denied High School Diploma Over a Kiss"

    • 2 years ago
  • twitterbot
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      twitterbot  
    • @ChadSimpson on twitter says "Aren't there more important things to get onto kids for than this? Much ado about nothing in my opinion."

    • 2 years ago
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