Florida Woman's Rape Called A "Pre-Existing Condition" By Insurance Companies
source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/10/21/insurance-companies-rape-_n_328708.html
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In 2002, Chris Turner, a health insurance agent from Tampa, Florida, was drugged and raped during a business trip. When she conferred with a doctor after her assault, Turner was prescribed preventative anti-HIV drugs, and she later entered counseling to help deal with the residual psychological effects of her rape.
A few months later, when Turner was forced to buy new insurance on the individual market, she suspected, based on her knowledge of the approval process, that she may no longer qualify for coverage. She called a series of insurance underwriters and asked them about a hypothetical client who had been raped, and every insurer she called had the same response: "Nope, we won't take her." Turner's treatment for her rape, it turns out, constituted a pre-existing condition that the companies said would disqualify her from coverage.
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lionessgrrl
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OH EM EFF GEE!!!!!!! heinous, heinous, heinous.
and i have to call bullshit on rikcrome, because i can't believe someone could actually be that much of an asshole. i just can't believe its possible. he's gotta be a troll. - 2 years ago
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lionessgrrl
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royulery
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you can't beat them at their game, no way. only 1 thing will work, and you know what i'm gonna say. stop buying insurance. anything else, anything is just noise and fury that signifies nothing.
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royulery
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sk8bs55
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Unbelievable.
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sk8bs55
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djms
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People can change this. The National Women's Law Center (NWLC) is working on this. Contact your congressman and change this. These things should make everyone angry and want to stand up and change how these companies are run. If they can't do it themselves then they need to be regulated! The web site is : http://www.awomanisnotapreexistingcondition.com/
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djms
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extracrazykiwi2008
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That is just plain wrong!
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extracrazykiwi2008
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madsamsamsam
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hahahahaaha and you yanks complain wen he try's 2 set up an nhs..... im glad i got my health car curved 4 life.
stupid yanks lol
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madsamsamsam
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lukerbrewer
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that's a fucking outrage!
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lukerbrewer
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J_Jammer [removed]
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To add to the humor of this to me....there are a lot of stories coming out about health care as if they are brand new.
Everyone has an agenda...even though the proposals still leave people without insurance.
What they create won't save this woman or the thousands of other stories. It's not a cure all...and it's so funny people present it as such.
Agendas are not heartfelt when that's all one uses to motivate themselves.
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J_Jammer [removed]
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ZeldaMasterZapp
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I got shot and the insurance companies said it was an preexisting complication, because I'm black and it was bound to happen anyway. They said if there was anyway I could prove that I wasn't black during the time of the shooting, that i would be granted assistance...
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ZeldaMasterZapp
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royulery
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ZeldaMasterZapp:
this hurts to hear it, iv'e got black nephews and i love them dearly and they get stopped all the time for DWB. it burns me
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royulery
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J_Jammer [removed]
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This so terrible it's funny.
Anyway where is superhero save the day Obama?
He should pay for her insurance. He has the money he stole over the weekend to make a better America.
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J_Jammer [removed]
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jubal
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This brings to mind a story I saw on CNN this morning. Guardian Insurance internal memo reported on the air referring to patients who require a lot of care as DOGS.
DOGS. People are not DOGS.
What is striking is that this is probably very characteristic of most health insurers today. They consider anyone who pays premiums and never gets sick as ANGELS while those that actually use their benefits as DOGS.
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jubal
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blazedNconfused
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fkn outrageous!
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blazedNconfused
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asherp
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That's capitalism.
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asherp
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mharlan14
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wow, our current healthcare system is sick
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mharlan14
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scion
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http://www.hulu.com/watch/102391/the-daily-show-with-jon-stewart-rape-nuts
this is how our government works.
I honest hate being alive over this.
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scion
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Logos51891
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I said it once, and I'll say it again: There's a special circle in hell reserved for Insurance company employees.
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Logos51891
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JuJubeez
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Logos51891:
Lol.. I can only hope!
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JuJubeez
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nata0204
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this is so wrong! america is the only country that doesnt take care of its own citizens! nobody should eveer be denied medical needs health insurance should be free!!
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nata0204
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jmsbnsn
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Pretty messed up
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jmsbnsn
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xJasper
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America is so forwards and so backwards at exactly the same time.
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xJasper
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cyanide7
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what the hell?
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cyanide7
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michail77
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Hopefully the insurance companies are burying themselves with these stories. First the baby that's "too fat" then the baby that's too skinny, now rape victims.
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michail77
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Richard_Dennis
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After Health Care reform we need insurance reform.
What a disappointing commentary on the Insurance industry in America. - 2 years ago
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Richard_Dennis
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mjseydel
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This is truly America.
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mjseydel
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SUBurbanKICKback
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This is absolutely disgusting! I'm not a fan of the 'public option' however I fully support a complete overhaul of the insurance industry by the government... they have been far too free with picking and choosing; we need some governmental intervention to protect the public from these companies.
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SUBurbanKICKback
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Progresshiv
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In medical insurance companies, the willingness to commit calculated cruelty and blatant theft are apparently prerequisites for employment. Someone should drag these bastards out of their offices and make them sit in crowded emergency rooms until they catch something significant.
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Progresshiv
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Chuck_st_chuck
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WOW!!!
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amilynn
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I have heard Canada's health care system used in fear, as a solid example of why public health care is BAD BAD BAD and I never really understood it. Growing up in Canada has given me access to all the (primarily mental) healthcare I need which has basically saved my life. Of course I could never get this care in the states because I have a pre-existing condition that would make for about 90% of the health care I would need in the foreseeable future.
I couldn't be prouder of my country. Human health should not be a means to make a profit.
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amilynn
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Newcastle81
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amilynn:
Same for the UK most of my friends in US refer to the NHS uk healthcare as outdated but we have the worlds most advanced cancer care units & child cancer wards going. But with no greedy insurance companies sucking up profits, but as they say "We pay for the best".
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Newcastle81
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KSirys
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Where's the government on something like this? they rather find new ways to fund wars, but nothing to protect their own!! Nice government we have!
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KSirys
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Chique
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KSirys:
That would be the insurance reform that the insurance companies and lobbyists are trying to quash. See our administration's answer at link.
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Chique
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Newcastle81
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How can these companies still operate under anti-discrimination laws, more so how can you all as citizen's of the country they bleed dry for profit stand by & do nothing!?. This woman as with everyone who has ever been raped (female & male as some post state) do require both medical & pyhcological help for any length of time to coldy place it down as a "Pre-existing medical condition" is just pure cold hearted.
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Newcastle81
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Shmel
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Actually, this shouldn't be considered a preexisting condition as long as she has a certificate of creditable coverage from her previous employer. I agree this is majorly heinous and my recent experience with personal insurance coverage only fuels my support of a public option.
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Shmel
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notyourbabiesdaddy
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Rick rome is fucking with you or is in a fraternity . She has to be told why they are excluding her and she can still file a claim under the americans with disabilities act for PTSD. Capitalism isn't the problem unfair closed markets allow this , we rape other counties because they aren't capitalists and now they are getting hard and looking to get some of that power back ( hate the use of rape to describe the economy but those were the words used)
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notyourbabiesdaddy
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soundmn777
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"Milk" all sorts of services? jesus rickrome.. Like she's looking forward to it, or capitalizing somehow. You're really F'd in the head man. lol
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soundmn777
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FoosMaster
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Like I keep saying; "It's about the MONEY!!!"
Private insurance wants to keep their Billions.
They deny anything they possibly can in order to protect their profits.
They pay for the political campaigns of the politicians that support them.
They pay lobbyists to promote their agenda.
The lobbyists pay politicians to do their bidding.
They pay for commercials that tell lies over and over again until people believe them. "If you tell a lie often enough people will begin to believe it" - Sigmund Freud
They pay promoters to organize protests.
They pay reporters to report on their views.
It’s about the MONEY!!!
It’s about GREED!!! - 2 years ago
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FoosMaster
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Chique
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FoosMaster:
Ironically this is a health insurance agent . . . maybe she'll turn this around and be a huge voice for change.
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Chique
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sugarlilly
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geez. poor woman! this poor country!
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sugarlilly
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maizein
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Don't be mad people. The American Capitalist system has been raping Third World Countries for decades.
It was inevitable that it would eventually turn into their own people.
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maizein
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MirrorLake
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Insurance companies don't appear to know anything about health... or humanity, for that matter.
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royulery
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her preexisting condition is genetic, xx chromosomes. poor thing, we should stamp out xx chromosome syndrome, it's a terrible condition that even starts wars. people with this condition tend to wear make up, watch opera and have no trouser trout. what is worse is their lack of sports trivia and large, firm, fleshy, bouncy, d mounds on the chest, (no two sets are alike). these mounds are called mommy bags and washing them for a sufferer is highly appreciated, though it gives them a high fever and difficulty breathing.
there is help! prosthetic trouser trout, however that is not covered by insurance. - 2 years ago
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royulery
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Nephwrack
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dammit what really burns my @$$ about stories like these is that they never make the front page because of cartels like fox news. if more people knew about these practices we wouldn't have these ridiculous teabaggers running around protesting for insurance interests.
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Nephwrack
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CarolineS
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For how long do you think insurance companies will be allowed to carry this on? until people stop complaining and actually doing something about it, the price of healthcare in America gives me nightmares, and I don't even live there!
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CarolineS
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dv627univ
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That is the typical response anyone and everyone is going to get from insurance companies and or their "legal advisors" in order to get out of paying for anything and everything......
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dv627univ
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fun_size
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No to healthcare reform. This is OBVIOUSLY the best way to do things!
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fun_size
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JuJubeez
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These are the things that need fixing! how can a person who is trying to do the right thing be penalized for it. Disgusting. rickrome is just saying out loud what insurance companies have saying for years.... Behind closed doors.
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JuJubeez
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Raven6
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It's incredible how many people are stupid enough believe that insurance companies are the best option.
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Raven6
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Saladin
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If this is the kind of system we have to support to keep things private, maybe it's time for the private option to be abolished.
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Saladin
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Saladin
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Saladin:
Well since you're denying care to rape victims, I'd say you're antisocial fuckhead anyway who doesn't even deserve the label citizen.
Go on, be a good consumer like you've been constructed to be, with no accountability to the suffering of your fellow man.
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Saladin
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Saladin
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Saladin:
How can you even consider yourself an American if you don't give a fuck about other Americans?
Boo hoo, I told you something that's true whether you believe in it or not.
Under your oblivious consumer identity, you passively accept the denied claims of rape victims because you're too whiny about taxes to care about your fellow man.
It doesn't matter that you don't like that, you don't want to change it! So what the fuck does it matter since clearly something you're willing to live with. Obviously, a rape victim getting denied her claim is less important to you than the OUTRAGE over an unhealthy person wasting ten dollars out of your yearly paycheck to ensure that his health problems don't KILL him.
God, who are you gonna bitch about next? Are coal miners and metal smelters entitled to the hazards and possible deaths of their careers? Oh, what a bunch of irresponsible jackasses!
Live in Somalia if you don't want to pay taxes, otherwise, you signed a social contract by living here buddy.
This is a civilization, not your house. You have obligations here.
Maybe getting stabbed and that being called a precondition might open your eyes up to that.
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Saladin
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Saladin
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Saladin:
No, I'm not going to join the cult of Ayn Rand.
You DON'T take care of yourself, you DIDN'T make it on your own.
Considering the woman got a 20,000 dollar loan from her relatives that she never paid back, she's the biggest fucking hypocrite of all.
Your "argument" is not an argument at all. It's a demonstrably false statement to say you take care of yourself (you work a wage job supported by the infrastructure of civilization) and it's not an objective truth that looking for out for yourself is moral, that's your subjective opinion.
I don't want to live in a society in which a bunch of crooks con their way to the top and then call it "their right" because they're "winners." They're not even productive, they just have money.
And then they design a society like the 1870's with child labor, slave wages, murderous working conditions and 14 hour work days.
Where's the "incentive" to work in that world?
Have fun when no one wants to run the machines of your luxury.
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Saladin
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The whole concept of pre-existing conditions is wrong; whether it's cancer, domestic abuse, or rape. In a for-profit system they are all great excuses to leave sick people in the cold. We need to stop thinking that everything in America has to have a profit margin. We are humans, we deserve respect and care in our time of need, and in the "greatest" and wealthiest country in the world, we shouldn't have to tell the unfortunate that they are unworthy of medical treatment. IMHO, the "greatest" country in the world is the one where you can count on your fellow countrymen\women in your time of need.
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WakeUpPeople
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WakeUpPeople:
@occhipij
then lets change the law on corporations. corporate personhood allows a corp no moral obligation and shields their members against many law suits. its horrible. to say that something is just because the system is made that way is to forget that we can change things for the better, and assumes that the system is doing us as HUMANs a service.
the system sure is killing our planet, killing species and ruining lives, at the benefit of a few stockholders in powerful positions. we should not have to sacrifice our happiness and true community wealth for contrived dollar based capital. - 2 years ago
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masterzip
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for profit industries working their magic...
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FishaHouse777
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Our government needs to enforce insurance companies to keep their promises through another amendment of our constitution. Seriously they won't ever stop to try and swindle their patients out of reimbursement until the government steps in.
When someone is raped they need psychological evaluation for suicidal thoughts, abandonment issues, and depression and also treatment for diseases from the rape. Sometimes people in traumatic events like rape get over it, but then relapse into depression down the road from a similar event. That's why these insurance companies are supposed to step up and help them pay off these...poor girl
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FishaHouse777
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scion
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FishaHouse777:
Please don't ask our government to do that. Just pass a bill in Congress.
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scion
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FishaHouse777:
Great point, our government would f*ck it up somehow
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FishaHouse777
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rickrome
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Div: You do understand, however, that this is a pre-existing condition. The woman was raped before adjusting her insurance. I know it's a sick-sounding policy, but the nature of this condition, I'm sorry to say, is prone to abuses due to the fact that "getting over it" is extremely subjective, and in a lot of cases unmeasurable. It's a red flag to insurance companies.
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rickrome
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rickrome:
Ok, rickrome, I see what you're saying. It is, in the most basic sense, a "preexisting condition." Still is a terrible policy though..
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div
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rickrome:
Insurance is a group of people pooling money together to help each other cover anything if something happens we can't afford in a lump sum. The Insurance company, essentially a bank and broker, makes a profit by investing the money they are holding. Like a bank loans out money based the number of depositors it has, and the ammount of money deposited.
If I were a policy holder with this company that turned this woman down for coverage, I would take my business elsewhere. The way they reated her was a disgusting inhuman manner. ANY company that puts profits before humanity will not get my business.
The idea that PROFITS are the most important thing is EXACTLY what is wrong with the world.
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hammywill
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rickrome:
I agree with both rickrome and hammywill. It's understandable that these insurance companies are just saving their asses from paying for a lifetime of psychological evaluation, but we the people or our government need to step up and not allow this to happen because its immoral and unethical, and I wouldn't want it to happen to me for sure. If National Health Care was instituted this wouldn't be happening.
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FishaHouse777
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rickrome:
I'm gonna toss in my hat and say that I pretty much am on the same page as rickrome here. Although it sounds horrible, it is logically sound and a valid and levelheaded argument.
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rickrome:
It would be great to just be able to take your business elsewhere if you don't like what an insurance company does. However, if you are one of the fortunate folks to have a pre-existing condition (I myself have Lupus and Epilepsy, lucky me), you are trapped with a company because no one else will take you. And that means that if you're in a job you hate but need the insurance, you're stuck in that, too.
It's not just a matter of taking your business elsewhere for everyone. Its more complicated than that.
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etienna
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rickrome:
"the nature of this condition, I'm sorry to say, is prone to abuses due to the fact that "getting over it" is extremely subjective, and in a lot of cases unmeasurable."
of the insurance policies i've held in the past, there was a set amount of psychologist's appointments one could have in a year. one policy 6, another 12... after that, you pay the full amount instead of a copay. they put a limit on it. could a policy with a clear-cut limit still be abused by someone who suddenly needs to see a psychologist on a bi-weekly or even weekly basis for a few months?
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rickrome:
I was speaking hypothetically ETIENNA...More speaking to the idea of how we should change the way we think and do business.
BIRDIEBALL: Human beings do not function strictly on logic alone. To operate a system based purely on logic is actually illogical as you are removing a piece of the equation. The human emotion aspect plays a role, and it is equally as important as the logical aspect.
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rickrome:
No one, especially Rickyrome who states that this woman's "condition" is unmeasurable can really say shit at all. The amount of trauma to this poor woman is measurable based on a professionals opinion (therapists etc.). Based on what she is going through and how hard her day-to-day life really is would all be known by this therapist. Some people commit suicide from these traumatic experiences. Or they end up murdering some poor guy they go on a date with because some tick in their head reminds them of that night. Ever see Monster? Its a real story that all stemmed from an early childhood rape. Perfect example of someone being untreated and what the results can lead to. So when your daddy/brother/uncle gets murdered because some woman is psychotic. You'll be saying how raped woman should be imprisoned next... go do us a favor and get burtally raped to the point where you have an std, and your face and body have permanent scars reminding you everyday you look in the mirror. For all we know, you guys work for the insurance company with all this inhuman shit.
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Daimyo
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rickrome:
The great thing about policies is that they can be changed. This one needs to be changed.
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rickrome:
There is no room for cold logistics within the warmth of human compassion amidst personal tragedy.
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rickrome, that's astoundingly unbelievable.
The brain doesn't always "get move on, and get over" things. Ever talked to someone who's been in a war? Someone who's been raped? Attacked? In a severe, near fatal car accident?
People don't actually want to feel like shit all the time, and wouldn't do so by choice. Unless you've forgotten, insurance companies are actually supposed to pay for treatments to help people get over things like this.
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This makes me sick, this was not her fault and she is doing all the right things to "get over it" which includes therapy and anti HIV medication. God I hate insurance companies!
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rickrome
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What does this lady expect? She can be damaged psychololgical goods for years due to that one incident, and milk all sorts of services out of insurance companies that she wouldn't need if she'd just move on, and get over it.
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rickrome
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rickrome:
Have you been raped?
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rickrome:
"She can be damaged psychololgical goods for years due to that one incident, and milk all sorts of services out of insurance companies"
Wow, your compassion is mindblowing! You're just like Mother Theresa, aren't you?
With that statement your admitting that insurance companies put money before (and well before) people. It doesn't matter what she went through or how much support (economic support) she might need to overcome it. What she has suffered is meaningless to them simply because it is "bad for business".
Nice ethics.
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rickrome:
Epic fail.
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rickrome
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rickrome:
Mariana: Wow, you're just realizing now that insurance companies put profits over people? The doctors are the ones who took the hippocratic oath. The insurance companies control the money used for doctors to care for those in need. It's not that the woman isn't in need, but it's the amount of intangible psychological need that this woman could seek, without any real common-sense tether telling her when she's enjoyed enough free services. You can put a price on getting over it, and it's pretty expensive, especially when everybody seems to need to get over something these days
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rickrome:
FishaHouse: No, I haven't. But if I did, since I'm a male, I wouldn't get nearly the amount of sympathy, or coddling that female victims expect. It's a good thing insurance companies are consistent in their insensitivity. And besides, it's this "relapse into depression down the road" thing that irks insurance companies, and is quite expensive. Everybody wishes they could be reimbursed for remembering a bad day, but sometimes you just have to take what you've been given, and build from there.
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rickrome
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rickrome:
I thought you were being sarcastic at first, but now I see you're serious about this. Wow.
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rickrome:
I'm just simply stating that when you put money into an insurance company you expect them to cover you when you need help, whether its psychological or physical, i'm not saying that the insurance company can't have a pre-informed cap on the amount of money they loan you (which a lot do) but they must help you. Alot of insurance companies would back out of reimbursement over a rape like this.
But, even though morally wrong, I agree with you since she was re-filing for a new insurance company after the rape it is understandable that the insurance companies wouldn't endorse her to save their own asses. Just realize though that she does need help because rape (even if your a male being raped by a male rick) is extremely serious and will f*ck you up in the head for life no matter how strong you are, and if no other insurance company will endorse her who will? Maybe our government should show compassion and help people like this out in a National Health Care. - 2 years ago
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FishaHouse777
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rickrome:
Gosh. The lack of humanity coming from this guy is unreal.
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etienna
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rickrome:
i agree
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D_vondutch
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rickrome:
Um, excuse me...??? Have you ever been raped? I can tell by your pathetic, disgusting and heartless comment that you haven't. I suggest you THINK before you post such utter and complete nonsense.
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HauntedVisions
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veronaaa
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rickrome:
oh hell no.
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veronaaa
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rickrome:
move on and get over it? wow, your respect towards woman is now known and don't expect to be respected by anyone, any more!
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KSirys
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rickrome:
It's a bit harsh, but rickrome truly does have a point.
Trauma is only traumatic if you hold on to it.
It may not always be easy to just forget and move on, but you can't change the past. We don't use much of our brains and space and emotions cannot be wasted on useless or painful memories or experiences.
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think_free
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rickrome:
Wow! Were you trying to break a record for the most amount of responses to a stupid comment?
I think it is the term "milk" that really offends. Like rape victims enjoy going to therapy and choose not to repress a traumatic memory. Too bad this cuts into for profit insurance. If only she would realize there is a health insurance executive somewhere that will not get their bonus because she is incapable of "dealing" with this.
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BrushwithDeathToothpaste
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sidewaysclyde
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rickrome:
I know everyone has said this already. But your comment disgusts me. Get over it? I am coping with it would have been much easier if she had the proper support of healthcare facilities and insurance companies. But instead, healthcare is denied to her based on this "previous condition" which pepetuates it as a plight in her life to this day. Don't you get it? This -could- have helped her "get over it" (as you put it) but now because they will not accept her it remains a restrictive and defining force and continues to abuse her, after the fact. She can't get over if its a perpetual issue that prevents her from having a normal life.
- 2 years ago
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sidewaysclyde
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scion
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rickrome:
He be troll'en yo.
- 2 years ago
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scion
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micromermaid
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rickrome:
I think that the attitude toward rape recovery is a little off. Rape is an awful, horrible, disgraceful thing. But rape victims are not damaged goods. Nothing was taken from them permanently. They do indeed deserve support in moving on, but it is something that DOES need to be moved on from. A rape does not have to taint a victim's life forever.
On the other hand, rickrome, you are lacking a great deal of sensitivity and humanity. Insinuating that this woman is evilly taking advantage of her "condition" is a very disrespectful and hateful thing to assume.
- 2 years ago
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micromermaid
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tangibleparadox
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rickrome:
dude. an insensitive comment does not necessitate wishing such an evil act to happen to an individual. maybe ask the person to try and imagine being in the victim's shoes and imagine what it would be like to have to suffer such a traumatizing event, needing insurance to help you through the trauma and being denied... but calm down, seriously.
- 2 years ago
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tangibleparadox
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puella
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rickrome:
It's called sarcasm, irony, people. The man makes a good point.
- 2 years ago
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puella
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Prijedor
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rickrome:
I cant believe you said that
- 2 years ago
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Prijedor
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royulery
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rickrome:
rick i was d when i was 13 in the seminary. i really wanted to be a priest but because the priest was caught in the act, i was expelled. that left me broken hearted, guilty, dirty and with a terrible secret. i did overcome this experience by realizing it wasn't personal and although i was a victim, i was the only one who was responsible for recovery.
i tell this story because you obviously have not experienced violation of this magnitude, and i hope you never do. i think my story might allow you "to walk a mile in my moccasins" because i'm a guy. rick you stepped into quicksand and the only way out is to let go and apologize. it's not your fault, that you were not violated (a little confusing here i know, but bear with me) but you really shouldn't have said that.
my earlier post was an attempt at humor to defuse the backlash i feared coming for you. it's what i do; i play the clown so nobody sees " the elephant in the living room". o.k. so i didn't do a perfect job putting myself back together, so sue me, - 2 years ago
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royulery
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Dina_Yazdani
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rickrome:
Well she sure won't be able to get over it without financial aid from her insurance.
- 2 years ago
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Dina_Yazdani
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LadyDaze
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rickrome:
When you or anyone else claim that some is enjoying "free" services from their insurance provider you are forgeting one very important detail, insurance isn't free. Its past time we stopped the insurance companies from continuing their tradition of getting something in return for nothing, or they will drop us all the minute we stop being their cash cows, and since they are immune to anti-trust laws they will get away with it too.
- 2 years ago
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LadyDaze
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lifestudentno83
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rickrome:
What does this lady expect? That she would get the treatment she deserves, perhaps?
I suppose all rape victims should just "move on and get over it"... It's not like rape is life-changing or psychologically traumatic at all.
Perhaps you should re-think your statement to one that's not so insensitive to the delicate nature of sexual assault and rape victims.
- 2 years ago
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lifestudentno83
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Nettle
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Disgusting.
- 2 years ago
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Nettle