Nervous young men ‘being forced’ to take Viagra

Any young man today that engages in unprotected sex with a woman who has not been medically cleared of STD's and HIV is out of his fucking mind. Sex lasts a while but many STD's last a lifetime sometimes a shorter lifetime than would be normally longer. Viagra may help with a hard erection but it won't save your life.

Maybe somewhere inside of these men they realize the danger of the new 'freedom' college age women are expressing with the 'hookup' revolution. This is not biologically correct and is fighting against nature. Additionally, these women who express their newfound 'freedom' haven't given up their right to return and find these boys should a child happen to be made during the process. These women offer no guarantee that this night won't wind up making the young man unable to have children, arthritic, forever marked with herpes or dead from AIDS. All of this might go through this young man's mind when presented with this type of situation. Add a little beer to the situation and I think even a 19 year old boy should have some reservations that may need Viagara to overcome. Nervousness and doubt can even overpower Viagara, I once saw a porn star's boyfriend take 3 Viagaras over a 2 1/2 hour period and he wound up getting sick in the parking lot and never was able to finish filming a 10 minute clip. She was a veteran, he just started dating her and he wasn't used to this sort of open expression by a woman. It's NORMAL for a man to have trouble with women behaving in this way.

The sad thing, bethopea, is that the roles are reversing but that's not good in Nature, not even in humans who somehow think they're above the laws of nature.

Why put up with this crap and have to deal with all the financial and potential health problems? Given all of the comments I have read here, it seems much safer to have homosexual sex than deal with all of this.

i dont know about you, but im going to ireland! whos with me? giggity giggity

more and more males are being born with their testicles still inside their body - there is a direct correlation with the amount of contraceptives recycled through the water supply. I can't help but wonder if these men and their failing libido has a similar cause - other than psychosomatic.

Awww. (BTW-Diabolical 44--here's from a Russian Redhead in the USA)
a--Poor lads...if it weren't for the Pharma involved I'd point out that women have been seeing therapists for decades--being blamed for not "just being ready" at male demand. Now that lubes are advertised & so easy to get--that's no longer an issue for ladettes. Whassamatter lads--can't take the heat?
b--Glad to see some of you are aware of the "feminizing" of men due to all the toxic crap around--including what you/we eat and breathe--now GET INTO THE STREETS TO CHANGE IT!
c--the Pharma thing is scary--no joke. I HAD a great friend, 32, married, 3 young daughters, diabetic from childhood, trusted his doctor. Few years ago when Viagra was just getting know, his MD gave him some. HE said "I'm not having a problem in that dept." Doc said "Try it just for kicks." Do you think that's why an otherwise healthy man who exercised, watched his weight, took good care,loved his girls and being a Dad-- just got up off the couch one day and dropped dead of a massive heart attack just before his 33rd b-day?
Drugs are DANGEROUS and you're all too programmed!

Seriously--this is a turn-around from when I was entering the world of the sexually active in the days of flower-children and "free love" and oh--about two more decades before women even felt "allowed" to ask for sex, ask men to be more versatile and taste and lick--but the one thing that's not changed--CLEARLY WE'RE STILL NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX-- BABY.

Maybe we should be. Not from a scared, whiny, complain-y, place--but just a real
"here's what people do and how, others do that, here's what some like, and really--intimacy is not like what you see in music video's and movies--that's a bunch of BS."
Come ON-lads AND ladettes--it's the 21st f***-in Century! Don't we know how to talk about natural human interaction in a loving and healthy way YET???

Inyteresting. I din't really believe all the psycho-babble, but still...interesting

Its truly sick how this article is treated as a joke....... This is a reality for many men, not just in this one country, but at least ONE professional has the decency to actually say this..... When a man cannot perform because of such types of abuse he is further stigmatized and ridiculed (as the comments to this post have proven)..... Reverse the genders and theres a rally cry to stop the abuse.....

the pic says it all

ladette (also less frequent laddette) /lædet/ noun (BrE, informal)
a young woman who behaves in a confident and noisy way, who drinks alcohol and may enjoy sport or other activities that are traditionally enjoyed by men.
Analysts believe the ladette phenomenon has been driven by increasing levels of financial independence among young women.

He is likely to break sometinng walking around with that!

it's all those damned redheads in Ireland. red headed women are crazy! haha

I've been objectified. But it wasn't my pecker she were after, it were me paycheck.

Guys need to learn to go down on women more. You don't need your dick to get a woman off and it puts 'that' part of sex off a bit so that guys can have some time to get warmed up to the situation.

Since I am getting a ridiculous volume of angry comments about men being objectified blaa blaa blaa. . .
(A) Guys, if you don't want to jump in the sack with a women right away, don't. If YOU want something that will be more than just a f*ck, then you'll have to work it out.
(B) Over the years, I have heard so many guys say how the idea of a woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Well, you got your wish so suck it up!

its much easier to come up with any other reason than the aspect of how men are treated and objectified, isnt it??

Maybe thats what 20 year olds tell the doctor when they want to use viagra for recreational sex...

If a 20 year old guy has a problem with that sort of thing it probably means he may have a serious physical illness or condition that needs to be addressed.

So the pendulum has swung the other way. Now women are sex-craving, demeaning, sexist jerks, and men are allowing themselves to be objectified.

Have fun being little more than a flesh dildo, guys. That's not my scene. I'm not a piece of meat, I'm a human being, and if a woman doesn't like that, tough.

Objectification and sexism is stupid and dehumanizing.

Biologically, women are capable of going at it more than men are. In my later 30's now and I can only manage about 4x a day tops.

I have seen women get angry about it. Which just makes things worse as a guy doesn't want to do it with an angry and frustrated woman. Hate to stereotype but have you seen how anrgy Irish women can get? Nothing has a temper like an Irish woman.

Sometime you just got to give a guy a rest once in a while, no need for drugs.

Holy shat that was one ugly stankin wench. Had to pop 5 viagra to git er up.
Kept mah eyes closed the whole time. She's a two bagger fer sure.

And this is a bad thing? They left out the part where they drink too damned much to perform in the first place.

It's a shame it's taken this long for Current to finally feature one of MotherForTruth's articles on the front page, and it's also disappointing that it chose an article that is relatively tame. MotherForTruth has certainly posted more significant and telling articles, but apparently they're too "radical" (in their honesty) for society to handle. *sigh*

What is happening to the culture of youth today? Why are we allowing the degradation of our sexual morals? Why dont the men of Ireland step up and say: "Hey sluts, you'll get your hanky-panky when I feel like it." Or better yet, "Oh, you want to do it? And We barely know each other? Later, whore." I say they turn it around and demand instantaneous blow jobs upon meeting a woman. I think the men are more to blame than the women here.

To think that sexual pleasure is not determinate on mental fullfilment based on gender is ignorant..... Either gender would react to abuse or undue pressure and wind up having a lower libido.... Of course all of these cases are circumstantial, but overall we must stop ignoring the abuse of men......

They're not being forced. They are choosing to take it. When did sex become the olympics and require doping to compete?

Please, stop masturbating so much.

Just had a thought, alcohol reduces the ability to get aroused, maybe Ireland ought to legalize weed, have smoke cafe's and we'll all be on our way to Ireland.
Shit they'd love me my last name is mcmahon and I'm American

This is only one psycho-therapists opinion. Are these men "being-forced" or are they just unable to get aroused when the women and or men want them to? I wouldn't say these people are being forced. I would think that copulation requires some intimacy and foreplay, not instant gratification. These people who are demanding sex right then and there, should learn some patience, some self-restraint, and some respect for the other person who wants a more fulfilling experience.

~Ashton~
Copyright 2009

This has to do with advertising campaigns. If you see something like this enough, and you have an issue with self-esteem, as many do, this makes it seem right and proper.
Blame the pharmacutical companies and the phenomenal amount of money spent on researching the right techniques to get peolpe to buy into the advertisments they see.

Sounds like Ireland is the place to be :D

It is interesting to see the opinions, judgments, and scrutiny these men are being placed under. Bluntly, if the gender rolls were reversed? This would be considered sexual, emotional, and possibly physical abuse. "If she wasn't able to perform INSTANTLY and immediately on his demand? There would be problems". I simply changed the gender rolls from a few lines of this article. I believe the article would headline would read this, "Raped women beaten by men demand for sex".

Natural order is an intact family that loves, grows, protects, and stands together. Chemistry is what makes the internal alarms go off as for being horny when with someone.

Us males can be visually stimulated. But so can females. For the act of intimacy, man or woman, it takes time. Even if males can have an erection just thinking about sex. Women too get aroused thinking about it. A male or female aught NEVER be criticized for an inability to perform immediately, instantly, and on demand.

Not to mention the risks involved.... pregnancy(means the man is owned financially for life on her demand), STDs, HIV, and AIDs. Physical and emotional abuse. Psychological problems involved here.

It seems like the Craigslist phenomena is catching on everywhere. I wonder how anonymous the girls would want to stay should an accidental pregnancy occur? Oh, that's right, abortion is just like a day at the mall for some of these ladies. This is about both. The boys can't help it because fluoride in the water and BPA in plastics are the cause of the feminine tendencies in men these days. The women are violating the natural, scientific, design of the female of the species. Sorry to refer to us as animals but that's what we are. Biologically, the women are behaving as if they have too many hormones at too early an age. Oh, they get that from the food, too. This is happening because of chemicals introduced into our lives to slow the population growth.

Boo, hiss! The need for Viagra is not in this age group altho' it's been told they are the largest group of users here in the good ol' USA!

Dudes need to do their kegels.

Oh noes, the women are out to get us. Bad, evil nasty women.

Except that's not the case. The story here is actually about idiotic men, and has nothing to do with women at all.

In my opinion, if a 20-year-old has problems achieving and maintaining an erection, then we should allow natural selection to occur and let him stay limp. There are already too many timid, feminine men in the world.

If a19 year old has a problem getting a hard on he has much deeper problems to deal with. Viagra is not the answer. Young people in the U.S. are willing to pay 10 bucks a hit for viagra. Sick puppies indeed.