US Politics Group Featured Member - Ihatethemall
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These interviews are intended to garner a greater appreciation and understanding of your fellow Currenteers.
Q.Tell us a bit about yourself so your fellow users can gain a greater appreciation for you and your comments.
A. Born and raised in Chicago, quit school at age 15. Was driving trucks long haul at age 16. By 18 I had my own truck. by 19 I had lost it and everything else to a crack addiction. A few months later I met my future wife. She got me through the rest of my recovery from Crack addiction. a year or so later we left Chicago to get away from the city. Pulled myself up by my bootstraps and got myself going again. Didnt ask anyone for help other than my wife. She stuck by me. God bless her. we both drove trucks long haul together until we moved to Vegas in the late 90's where I started driving locally for a comapny based in Vegas. By 2002 I had bought another truck and had my own trailer and authority from the federal government to operate a trucking company. A few months later I bought another truck and another trailer and hired a driver for it. 2003 discovered Crystal meth. 2004 lost everything again to dope. one truck and 3 trailers and my house gone. Couldnt make the payments. Wife gave me 2 options, divorce or leave Vegas and get clean. Left Vegas broke and homeless except for the truck, it was paid for. Lived in it for 2 years while I got yet again back on my feet. It worked, I now own a truck again and I have a farm to boot. Been clean off all dope since thanksgiving 2004.
I am currently living 30 miles or so south of Dubuque Iowa and have a paid for place in Hannah North Dakota.
The only reason I am telling you all about this is to show that if you want to succeed it can be done. I have been as broke as the next guy and maybe worse. I never put my hand out and asked anyone for help other than my wife. God bless her.
New devolpments in my life as of 1-08-10. I am a foreman with a railroad, have been for 2 years. That is in addition to the farming and part time trucking. I was laidoff 1-08-10. My choices are to either go to the coalfields of WYO, Shreveport LA or quit the railroad all together and go back to trucking full time. Some folks here knew I worked for the railroad but I didnt make it common knowledge.
Wish me luck.
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Ihatethemall
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mojojuju:
Nice to meet you too mojojuju
- 2 years ago
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Ihatethemall
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edbr
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nice job current89 and ihatethemall.
these featured member interviews offer important insight into what life experiences helped form a fellow commenter's viewpoints and opinions. i'm really enjoying these.
ihatethemall, our opinions may differ on various topics, but i have a strong admiration for someone who can overcome a drug addiction twice, WITH help, much less without. not to mention creating your own business requires quite a bit of persistence too. congrats on being featured, and you have my best wishes that you find good work.
- 2 years ago
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edbr
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Ihatethemall
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edbr:
Thank you very much. I couldnt have done it without my wife. She is everything to me. If it werent for her standing by me I would be in prison or dead. Especially after the last bout with the meth.
- 2 years ago
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Ihatethemall
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cztheday
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Impressive. There is much on which we disagree, but rare is the individual who pulls clear of addiction to one substance let alone two that many years apart. I am not sure I would agree with an earlier comment that he was "ashamed" to ask for help (unless he said that and my eyes skipped over it) so much as he simply wanted to be able to look back on his life and know that he and his wife made their own lives "for better or worse" as the vows go. Very, very seldom does "help" come without strings, for one thing.
I am sure he has already looked into this, but unemployment is particularly low in his beloved North Dakota (I too have been impressed with that state and nearly everyone I have met there) as compared to the rest of the country -- though it is pretty low here in Montana as well. Fargo is the biggest "city," but my guess is that he would have better luck in Bismarck, Minot, Dickenson or Williston.
He obviously has a low opinion of Chicago politicians. I don't know much about them, but I wonder whether he would count his relative as an exception...and if so whether he thinks that was one of the reasons besides taking on an incumbent for why he was unsuccessful.
One of the things I found interesting was the fact that while his politics and mine are pretty far apart along the political spectrum, we both identified the economic recovery as the number one issue facing America. While his view in this regard may, admittedly, be more representative of his end of the political spectrum than is mine...I simply concur with him that it is very difficult for people to focus on other issues when they are in danger of losing their homes and/or if they or their children aren't getting enough to eat.
If we feel that way about one of the richest countries on earth, perhaps it isn't all that difficult to understand why the so-called third world countries find it difficult to become quite as engaged as first-world countries about some of the social and environmental issues that get so much play in our media.
In any event, I am very glad that through this interview I was able to get to know ihatethemall a little better. On occasion he may have said a few things about me that were difficult to hear...and it is possible that sometimes I held my tongue/keyboard with some difficulty. But of course, I had no idea of his background or the source of his perspective. I admire his independence and his grit. I wish him and his wife the very best of luck and hope he finds the kind of work he wants soon. I will be watching for jobs here in Montana...in case he is willing to "slum" over to this side of the tracks. ; )
- 2 years ago
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cztheday
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Incredulous
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cztheday:
"If we feel that way about one of the richest countries on earth, perhaps it isn't all that difficult to understand why the so-called third world countries find it difficult to become quite as engaged as first-world countries about some of the social and environmental issues that get so much play in our media."
Excellent insight, great comment!
- 2 years ago
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Incredulous
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cztheday:
As usual, cztheday thanks for your comment. I couldn't get past 'he lost his job' to say anything but 'I'm sorry'. So, I'll just say, 'ditto to your comment'. Me too.
- 2 years ago
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Conniepae
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Ihatethemall
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cztheday:
There are exceptions to every rule as you well know CZ but when it comes to my real dad he is as crooked as the next one. He would not be a exception to the rule. I love him because he is my father but as a politician he is no differant than the rest.
I will be heading your way. Going to go to the coalfiends of WYO this week to look at their shop. Then its off to Lake Charles LA to see their shop. Its a choice between the freezing cold or the heat and humidity.
Thanks CZ, Maybe if I end up out in WYO we can meet up for a cup of coffee somewhere in MT. Id make the trip.
- 2 years ago
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Ihatethemall
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cztheday:
Ah, I was afraid that might be the case re: your father. As I said in another recent post, I have watched with great sadness as the political system has ground up many good people. My experience here in Montana is that they leave their farm/ranch fields or small businesses at the urging of their neighbors and are able to maintain their integrity for a term or two at the state legislature.
But as they become more covetous of holding onto that seat or rising higher in state or national politics, they begin to have to make certain compromises, both as to their positions on issues and as to what they are willing to do to bring in the money they need -- or THINK they need -- to continue. That seems to exert a gravitational-like pull on individuals whose agendas are...um...less pure than might be ideal. Then the snowball begins to roll downhill.
Unlike most people seem to think, however, this is not a process by which a good man or woman suddenly becomes evil. It is more gradual than that, and IMHO Congress is full of people whose halos are tarnished to very different degrees.
In any event, I wish you luck in both WY and LA (though I am rooting for WY, of course). I earned my way through college managing catering crews that did major events like the annual summer picnics for the big WY coal companies in Northeastern Wyoming. Nowadays, I tend to spend most of my time in WY over on the western side in the Tetons (Jackson Hole in particular) or in Yellowstone Park (in fact, that is where my wife and I spent our honeymoon -- mostly in the car -- back when we were so poor we could barely pay attention). But I have clients who have been plowing fiber optic cable all over the Crow Indian Reservation and would be honored to meet you for a cuppa joe anywhere down there in SE MT or NE WY...or anywhere else in either state for that matter.
Be well, my friend...and give my regards to your lovely wife -- you obviously made one really good decision in THAT regard...CZ
- 2 years ago
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cztheday
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cztheday:
I am a Massachusetts native and I lived in the outskirts of Miles City from summer '07 to May '08.
Living there greatly heightened my appreciation of the Earth. Alot of the people there, though a little strange in their own rite, were the most decent collection of people in one place.
About employment, while it is true that the unemployment rate is low, the only jobs in town were retail and food service though in the country you could make a bundle doing ranch work.
- 2 years ago
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deadpool
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afitzgerald
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Great post!
(I'm ashamed to admit it, but all this time I thought his name was "I Hate The Mall". Which makes absolutely no sense if I'd actually thought about it.)
- 2 years ago
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afitzgerald
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Argon18
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afitzgerald:
That was gone into extensively during the DeliaVSihatethemall debate since it follows that if he hates them all then why would malls be left out?
- 2 years ago
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Argon18
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afitzgerald:
I thought the same thing but I hate the mall anyways so it made perfect sense to me go figure lol
- 2 years ago
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maasanova
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xiola
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afitzgerald:
I totally hate the mall. Avoid it like the freakin' plague.
- 2 years ago
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xiola
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afitzgerald:
I originally thought it was i hate the mall too. I saw him correct someone and I was a little disappointed. I hate the mall too. :)
- 2 years ago
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EdJoyProductions
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Argon18
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afitzgerald:
I'm not sure what some people have against malls but maybe they have never been in the right one?
http://web.archive.org/web/20080112061658/http://members.aol.com/MVNick/oldmill....
One of my favorites was The Old Mill in Mountain View since the landscaping was so beautiful and it had some great stores there.
- 2 years ago
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Argon18
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afitzgerald:
I also hate the mall. There are, however, some politicians that I actually do like.
- 2 years ago
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asherp
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kennymotown
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Good job my trucking buddy!
- 2 years ago
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kennymotown
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Ihatethemall
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kennymotown:
Thank you much Kenny. Keep on truckin
- 2 years ago
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Ihatethemall
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Found_Avenue
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I think it's interesting that "never asking anyone for help" is considered a virtue within the context of your bio. Refusing to let anyone help you can be seen by some as a strength, others as a weakness. If you were not ashamed of asking for help, you could take advantage of unemployment insurance (as most of us feel comfortable doing after getting laid off, since the unemployment system was designed for this purpose, and you've already been paying into it every week), and this could allow you and your wife to continue to live well as you look for new work. Letting pride get in the way of your well-being is not a virtue, in my opinion.
It is impressive that you managed to kick two major drug habits without getting any help from anyone (except your wife, as you said). But maybe one day you'll realize that Help is not a four letter word. Without "help" in the form of scholarships and financial aid, I would have never gotten a college education. That is true for most American college graduates. I am proud that I was informed enough to take advantage of the grant and scholarship "help" that was available after putting in countless hours of research, essay writing, and interviewing with every grant foundation who would see me. I was determined to get the best education out there, and I did, even though my family could not afford it. I have a much better life thanks to the "help" that I received, and I thusly have the desire and means to help others - which is certainly not a bad thing in my book. If you believe asking for help is a sign of weakness, does that mean that you look down on people who DO ask for help, and therefore don't believe in helping others? Like you, I am also looking for work right now and trying to make ends meet, but I will always believe that helping a person in need is a GOOD thing...
- 2 years ago
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Found_Avenue
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Ihatethemall
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Found_Avenue:
I may have not made myself clear enough. Its my first interview ya know....lol
I did recieve some help from family. No one would have just hired me at 16 to drive trucks long haul I started with a family member. When I bought my first truck I got a loan from a family member. But all that help wouldnt have gotten me anywhere had I not put into what I did. Course in some ways I was my own worst enemy....drugs. But each time I was down I didnt let it get me down. I fought back and with a little help and the willingness to go the extra mile, to work 7 days a week when it was available, to drive a load over the holidays when others wanted to be somewhere, to work 2 jobs if I could. Its that type of extra that makes the help work out. I have no trouble helping others out when in need. I just want them to help themselves too.
- 2 years ago
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Ihatethemall
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Ares
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Found_Avenue:
If you've never done anything without any help, you don't understand why it's important to people to do things themselves. It's a point of character. If you don't get it, you don't get it.
- 2 years ago
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Ares
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Found_Avenue:
Ares, There is a difference between earning your own keep by creating the life you want to live through your own hard work, and living your life too proud to ever accept help...
People confuse "help" with "handouts." The point I was trying to make is that many people who crow so loudly about their independence, actually wouldn't be where they are today without accepting help. (Just like the people who are anti-public option but want to keep their own medicare, ignorant to the fact that they are already on the public option...).
A person who refuses financial aid for college because they are "too proud to accept help" is actually shooting himself in the foot in a sad, unfortunate way that will affect the rest of his life, and they will end up having a major disadvantage in this world.
- 2 years ago
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Found_Avenue
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Found_Avenue:
I believe ihatethemall meant that he went never begging, and with support from family, he did in fact pull himself up... that's called making it on your own, in my book...
- 2 years ago
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ahiguy
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xiola
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This interviewing idea is an interesting one. Well done, ihatethemall. So sorry to hear about your job, but I have no doubt you'll land on your feet. Good luck!
- 2 years ago
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xiola
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Ihatethemall
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xiola:
Thank you. I have no doubt about it either. I have no choice but to survive. The alternative isnt very pretty. Thanks again
- 2 years ago
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Ihatethemall
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Q. Finally, tell us about your Current group "anti-government" and why you started it.
A. I am anti government. I think the Federal government needs to stay out of states business, unless it interferes with interstate commerce they have no business telling states what laws they can and cant have concerning indivuduals rights or state soverignty. Take the states of Tenn and Montana. Those states decided that they shouldnt have to be under any federal regulations when it comes to things that are made in and sold in their state. The gun laws is what I am talking about. The federal government has no right to tell the people in a state that they cant make the laws they want to make that affects their own people if the people of that state have voted on it. Like the seatbelt laws. The federal government would have with held federal money, which is actually state money that was given to the feds, if they dont have seat belt laws. Who the heck do they think they are? Thats extortion.
Medical Marijuana is a great example. How many times do the people of California need to approve Medical Marijuana before the feds leave them alone? They have no business telling the state of CA or any other state that they cant have medical marijuana. Thanks to Barack Obama he has helped somewhat in this problem.....finally when he said he would end raids on the pot clubs and as far as I know in the last few months they have ended.
Government officials are as corrupt as they come. How many didnt pay taxes that have been caught. Better question is how many havent been caught yet. They shove rules down our throats that they themselves seem to think they dont need to follow.
Lets not forget the fool who said..." the constitution is just a God Damn piece of paper"
Yeah it is just a piece of paper but its one I hold dear and is posted in my home and at my front door. Even if they wont, I will defend it to the death.
The government is the ultimate example of do as I say and not as I do.When it comes to politicians, I HATE THEM ALL.
In closing I would like to thank Current89 for wanting to interview me. I really do consider it an honor to be choosen by him.
- 2 years ago
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current89
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current89:
Ooooohhhhhh, and all this time I thought you hated "the mall..."
Which I also hate...
- 2 years ago
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asherp
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current89:
Hey that's not fair don't bring the mall into this.
But seriously, I think he originally hated the mall but when he started getting crap for it he changed it.
- 2 years ago
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Q. How do you feel about President Obama personally (regardless of his political views).
A. Then, rate President Obama's political performance on a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), explain your rating.
He is a Chicago politician. I give him a 2 and thats being kind.
I agree with many when they say that Barack Obama inherited the worst....everything.... in presidential history. economy, wars, etc. But that wont excuse the decisions he makes as he makes them if they turn out to be detramental to the country and its well being. I really dont think he hates this country like some say. I think his views on it may be differant from mine but he has children and I think he wants their future to be as bright as his was. I think his spending is out of control. I think he is as decietful as the last guy and as the next guy will be. I think he is failing the people who voted for him. He hasnt done near enough of what he promised on the campaign trail but as Nancy Pelosi was quoted as saying....." a lot of things were said on the campaign trail" Then laughed. Thanks we are now used to the politicians laughing at us. - 2 years ago
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Q. If you could appoint someone to the Presidency of the United States and another to the Vice-Presidency, who would you choose?
Thomas Jefferson and Benjiman Franklin
Q. Rank the domestic political issues listed below in order of importance from 1-6 (1 being the highest). Once you've finished ranking the issues, talk about the highest ranked issue.A.
LGBT rights.--6
Economic recovery.--1
Education reform.--3
Campaign finance reform.---5
Energy independence (how the US acquires its energy).---2---drill baby drill
Immigration reform.--4---just close the borders already
I think economic recovery has to be number one. Without a strong economy its hard to accomplish anything else. We all need money to do what we want to do and the government is no different.
I list campaign finance reform so low because like the other rules, they would find a way around it. We aren't going to stop politicians from getting their money. Its not going to happen.Q. Do you think religion should factor in when electing a politician?
A. NO-The only factor that should be considered is will they be good for the United States and DEFEND THE CONSTITUTION TO THE END. anything after that is secondary. I dont care what your religion is or if you have any. Religion should be kept out of politics and politics should be kept out of religion. - 2 years ago
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Interview continued.
Q. What sparked your interest in politics?
A. In the early 80's I had a step dad that was involved in politics. He was a local politician in Chicago. He decided to run for congress in Illinois. I got involved at that point. I went to rallies and dinners and what not. Met some pretty interesting people. He ended up losing but it was a very close race and he had an uphill battle all the way. He was going against someone who had held the office for a long time. I have been interested in politics ever since. My real dad is an elected official in the Chicagoland area. My step mother was. My mother works for a elected official. I know many of their "connections" and I have been interested in Chicago politics for going on 30 years now. I know many might not like to hear it but politicians that come out of Chicago are as crooked as they get. Theres a saying in Illinois politics, maybe its said about other areas too but the saying is....In Illinois we need to limit the politicians to 2 terms. 1 in office and 1 in prison. That saying is very true. I knew about Barack Obama long before he made it to the national scene.Q. Is their any one particular political issue that you're passionate about? If so, could you tell us about it and why you're interested in it?
A. Patriot act, radical executive orders and other legislation that is systematically taking over every aspect of our lives.To even think they should have the right to force me to buy something....health-care...and fine me if I don't is government intrusion to the Nth degree.
What part of "shall not be infringed upon" do they not understand? Protect your rights people, they are far to precious to let fall by the wayside. Our politicians swear an oath to uphold the constitution yet they seem to do everything in their power to undermine it. I am passionate about maintaining my rights. without them, you have nothing. - 2 years ago
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