AUSTRALIA...Judge blocks 14-year-old girl's arranged marriage
source: http://www.news.com.au/national/judge-blocks-14-year-old-girls-arranged-marriage/story-e6frf...
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Just days before the girl's father planned to whisk her overseas to marry a man she has never met, the Family Court ordered she must stay.
The Melbourne teenager is one of a number of Australian girls forced into arranged marriages overseas each year.
Her plight came to light when child protection officers received a report in June that the then-13-year-old had been taken out of school ahead of her intended marriage.
In a landmark decision published on Monday, the Family Court barred the girl, who cannot be identified for legal reasons, from travelling abroad until she turns 18.
Federal Police were ordered to place the girl's name alongside the names of accused serious criminals and tax cheats on the official Watch List at departure points around the nation.
Her family, who are believed to be Muslims from the former Yugolsav Republic of Macedonia, has had to surrender the girl's passport and cannot apply for a new one.
According to court documents, the girl had been interviewed by two child protection workers at her home while her parents were at work.
One of the officers said the girl told them she had been engaged for a month to a 17-year-old boy from another country but did not know what she felt about marrying him because she had never met him and had only ever seen a photograph of him.
The officer said he formed the opinion the girl had not considered the prospect of having sex with her new husband or the possibility of being abused.
He said the girl indicated she had not discussed her feelings with her parents and did not know her mother's opinion of the marriage.
"It is my belief that it would not be in [the child's] best interests to travel . . . to be married as she is a child and she does not appear to understand the consequences of marriage," the officer's affidavit concluded.
"Furthermore she would be deprived of a school education and she may be at risk of sexual exploitation and emotional harm."
Islamic Council of Victoria vice-president Sherene Hassan said arranged child marriages were a perverse practice not mandated by Islam.
"According to Islamic law a woman must give her consent to marriage without any form of collusion," she said yesterday.
"Sadly there are some Muslims that fail to discern [the difference] between culture and religion."
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shiningarainbow
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alexandrek:
yeah man its really sad. im so glad the australian government stopped this, imagine, the government doing good stuff like saving children like this. let's hope she and all other kids in her situation will be ok and get control of their own lives after this. i feel for the sisters of the world, the women and girls. i feel so lucky to be a man because though we have it hard it seems girls and women have it so much harder usually. bless them. anyway peace to you stay well.
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shiningarainbow
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5ka
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I'm glad, I wonder if families know the dangers of having their children do this?
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5ka
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toyotabedzrock
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5ka:
Unfortunately cultural practices often override good judgment.
It is a very basic human instinct to resist change. Change even good change creates stress so we all have some routine or pattern of thinking that we resist changing.
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toyotabedzrock
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shiningarainbow
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toyotabedzrock:
yes its realllly sad. i hope she gets adopted into a better family or something.
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shiningarainbow
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Vierotchka
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My concern is that her family could easily arrange for and/or buy a Macedonian or Albanian passport for her to bypass this measure.
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Vierotchka
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Stacia_Weatherford
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Well arranged marriages has been happening before Christ and is still happening today sadly :( But I do wonder how old the was to be husband.
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Stacia_Weatherford
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Vierotchka
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Stacia_Weatherford:
If you'd read the whole article, you'd have noted that she was to marry a 17 year-old boy.
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Vierotchka
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Stacia_Weatherford
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Vierotchka:
Well I didnt so I asked!!! I read enough to know what's going on!!
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Stacia_Weatherford
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Vierotchka
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Stacia_Weatherford:
So you're so lazy that you expect others to do your reading for you?
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Vierotchka
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ThresholdBroken
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God Damn Al-murta
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ThresholdBroken
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Progresshiv
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Great posting, Eden. Arranged marriages for the very young are particularly disturbing. Kids aren't fully formed, physically, emotionally, or intellectually, and it becomes a form of slavery.
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Progresshiv
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artemis6
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Thank goodness !
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artemis6
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TheForeteller
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It is absolutely disgusting, but luckily they weren't P.C. strapped about it and did the right thing.
A group in the Netherlands disgust me as well because they wanted to lower the age of consent to 12yrs old.
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TheForeteller
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donkeyfly69
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TheForeteller:
this really doesn't have anything to do with being p.c.
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donkeyfly69
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Fr_Gregory
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Refreshing to hear the young woman is being protected.
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Fr_Gregory
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eden49
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Einsam_Data_Old:
...hey, that occurred to me also...recriminations on not obeying...but, we have agencies Down Under, that if you are frightened or being threatened in any way as a minor, you can either ring a hotline or go to the nearest police station...also, to be taken out of school at that age is illegal...
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eden49
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RRRPirate
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WTG!!! Glad to see someone stopped this from happening!
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RRRPirate
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FtheBULLSHT
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Love it! Good job Australia.
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FtheBULLSHT
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UtopianSky
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So what's going to stop the boy's parents from bringing him to Australia to complete the arranged marriage?
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UtopianSky
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eden49
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UtopianSky:
...well, I suppose there is nothing the Govt. can do if the boy & family enter on a visitor's visa...but she is underage, and 18 is the legal age for marriage down here...plus if he enters on a visitor's visa, and considering the court order, I imagine there would be close scrutiny on any application for permission to marry, presented to a magistrate, with her name involved...
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eden49
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remanns
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Not bad ethics,....for one of those "rogue" colonies ! ( heh ) +^d
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remanns
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eden49
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remanns:
lol...most of us descend from a lot of rogues...bloody bread snatchers from the "old dart"...
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eden49
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littlwarrior
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Go australia, lock that girl down, should just take her away and kick the parents out of the country though.
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littlwarrior
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KSirys
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littlwarrior:
NO... not yet... let her live with her parents until 18 and then kick the parents out... Send them back to their country. Any family thinking it's ok to sell or force your kids into something, should be stripped from their kids and sent packing to another Island...
We need people to understand this is not the 1800's, children have rights too!!
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KSirys
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cztheday
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The prospect of a girl of any age being forced into an arranged marriage is appalling. But I am also concerned about how she will be treated now that she is being forced to remain. Will her family (father) consider her to be a liability now? I realize that there may not be very much that can be done through the legal system until a complaint of abuse is made and verified. But this seems like one of those cases in which somebody should be keeping an eye open for signs of neglect or abuse.
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cztheday
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Almibry
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Thanks for the post Eden. +^'d
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Almibry
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eden49
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Almibry:
...you're welcome, darlin'...
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eden49
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KSirys
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Got to give kudos to Australia and the Islamic Council of Victoria for standing up for what is right! We need more of that around the world!
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KSirys
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KSirys:
+^d
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remanns
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KSirys:
wow..perhaps the first time something that came out of your without somehow tying this to christians..
i give you a vote up...
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ayipis
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KSirys
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ayipis:
I respectfully decline your vote and now ask you to GET THE FUCK OUT BITCH...
Have a great day sir! - 1 year ago
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KSirys
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KSirys
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remanns:
Thank you Remanns!
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KSirys
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ayipis:
no one cares what you think HAHA
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hombre76
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TheForeteller
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hombre76:
I do. So do yours : )
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TheForeteller
