Is There A Difference Between Bisexual And 'Mostly Straight' Guys?

Pansexuality ftw

There are gay men who do not like anal sex, its not a requirement for gay men to like that.

The gay or str8 question is more of an initial interview type question. And most people want to know that if the relationship does end it will not be with you running off with someone of a different sex, it causes more emotional harm when it happens.

It's a question about which sex you prefer basically. Most gay men could have sex with a women if they had to. I used to have a girlfriend for almost 4 years, but I identify as gay.

are you sure you don't play soccer?

I am being honest. I have no desire to make out with a dude.

What if you fell deeply in love with a woman who after 5 years of a great sexual relationship you decided to get married, but before she could go through with it, she told you she was born a man? Would you stay with that woman?

This question always gets people...

No. No, I don't.

But you do like playing with balls Right?

No I wouldn't, and here's why. For five years she's been deceiving me. What else is there she hasn't told me Trust has been broken. I would never be able to trust her again, and if I can't trust her, I can't marry her.

Are you one of those guys that's really afraid of doing anything that seems gay? Like accidentally touching a guy's hand or anything similar? or... afraid of losing your manly sexuality so much that anything socially plagued as remotely gay frightens you, like butthole play lol, even if your wife's doing it...?

Would you take it up the ass to be able to have sex with a fine ass woman, by said woman? Like in that episode of weeds? hahah

Depends on whether you think gayness is about having sex or about having relationships, dunnit?

Just remembered the analogy (no pun intended) I meant to use.. prison rape is done on men by men, right, but it's not necessary that the rapist be gay in order to buttrape another man.

There many reasons a person gets raped in prison most of the time it is to belittle and degrade the person.

I'm not sure but I think being gay means you like to be with the same sex person in all matters pertaining to life. I'm not sure but I do belive that what it is if I'm wrong please explane to me what it is.

No, you're right, it's not just about sex. I had just meant in terms of your comment "If you enjoy sticking your winky in some guys stinky then you are Gay. No two ways about it."

In my very roundabout way, I had meant that it's not exactly true that a man having sex with another man makes him gay, because the act of sex itself isn't a determining factor. Gay men having sex with women but not men doesn't make the less gay, so a straight guy who has sex with a man isn't necessarily gay. But you already knew that, I'm just nitpicking at your words... sorry!

*snicker* Yeah, no kidding, huh? I don't, for the record, but hey, to each their own. ;)

Come on now you know you take a peek now and then when a woman has the perfect titties. it's only human to do so.

Naw, if I want to see any, I just look down...

But honestly, I find boobs kind of boring. Nothing new to see, you know? But that's just me.

i must say you are the women I have come across that doesn't look at other women. Not in a Gay way but just in a curious way.

Aye.

Who are YOU to make an assessment of who THEY are?? You simply aren't qualified to label or judge anyone as being gay who claims to be otherwise.

If you don't know what it's like to be gay or bi or just plain open, then you have no room to comment on such things. You simply can't know.

If you want to make out with other guys, that's gay. Don't claim any qualifications, not judging anyone if that's what they want to do. I don't care if that's what they want to do, couldn't care less, do what you want, whatever, who am I to say. But, it's gay. That's the way it is. There is no gray area. Sorry.

I'm not sure about that. When I kiss girls, does that make me straight? Does my kissing a girl, even if I'm not into it, create a heterosexual action? I'm still gay if I kiss girls, and guys can still be straight if they kiss guys.

The very action is not gay or straight. The action just IS.

You are a bit behind in your thinking, sir.

^'d. Absolutely correct! And the straight, married man I've been fooling around with for the past few years agrees with you too.

"The action just IS."

Are you one of those guys that's really afraid of doing anything that seems gay? Like accidentally touching a guy's hand or anything similar? or... afraid of losing your manly sexuality so much that anything socially plagued as remotely gay frightens you, like butthole play lol, even if your wife's doing it...?

Would you take it up the ass to be able to have sex with a fine ass woman, by said woman? Like in that episode of weeds? hahah

I sort of agree, although earlier you quoted billy joe, which basically says we're all bisexual. Even though it might be true, don't you always prefer one sex over the other? But I guess I might be missing the point, in that people if given the chance, would do anything that sexually pleases them, no matter what sex? So I guess what I'm asking is... since you probably hang around more open people, can you really like both sexes equally?

I wouldn't say I'm afraid. I just have no desire to. It's not my thing, you know, it doesn't do anything for me, I'm not turned on by it, quite the opposite. Besides with my 'roids, butthole play could be a very messy experience.

You are a very smart person. What is your back ground? if I may ask.

Thanks!

I was just a gay kid in the south, who read a lot about human sexuality to find out what I was, and why I was what I was.

being Gay and comeing from the south you must be either tough or know how to run real far real fast

Neither- I just learned how to blend into the background.
I was a stealth-gay.

Well I'll be! Maybe i should have tried that. I was jumped for no reason at all just for being me. I do believe that it really sucked to be me in school between being used as a human punching bag or being told I was a retarded imbecile by the teachers. OOh how i miss those days kind of how england misses the black plague.

Yeah, what's up with that. I thought the story about corpses on cigarette packs was bad. I don't want to see that.

Brings out thr perv in you does it?

YES !

I agree!
And thanks toyotabedzrock!

I fancy women but if I was stuck on an island with out women I would find a nice young palm tree bore a hole in it and marry it. Long before haveing sex with a guy.

That's your problem: you believe relationships to be solely about sex.

well after being married for twentyone years i know better than that. I have had the same Guy friends for twentyfive years and I never think about haveing sex with them. So i don't believe I think with my dick as you suggest. But i know I'm not Gay.

Yet you still believe that it's all about sex.

This graph is silly and arbitrary.
Where did you get it?

Nope not at all.

It's Dr. Kinsey's graph.

It's based on actual human experience rather than verbal input.

As in, what people DO, not what they say.

So, it's kind of the opposite of arbitrary.

Wrong. You apparently don't know enough bisexuals to determine this common fallacy. You are equating bisexuality with sexual promiscuity. A Slut is a slut.

It was a joke.

and sluts are fun.

But it's not a joke because that negative stereotype plays out in the real world. I know because I have to deal with it.

And frankly I find it insulting to be equated with a slut.

lol!

Just a joke. No need to get your panties in a bunch.

Wow. I think the words you are choosing shows exactly the opposite. Panties in a bunch? Are you not being derogatory?

Who says girls aren't doing the same thing? Women are almost exactly the same way in their sexual "adventures" as men, its just more taboo on that end. I think we're starting to see a blur in the lines that define sexuality in men and women. In a world still ruled by men, though, the men might get more attention for it and determine who is allowed to experiment with other men. They hate to see gay men, but leasbians are hot, right? It really just boils down to men being less willing to accept their own sexuality.

You're wrong. People are changing and younger women are in tune with the trends of the younger generation. It's cool to find a man that's emotionally in-touch and passionate in bed.

Not really... that's like saying that you as a man would never want to be with a woman because there are so many other men she might be attracted to. If a woman loves you, she loves you, and it doesn't matter who else it's possible for her to love. Same goes for a guy. If a guy loves me, he loves me and that's really it.

Now thats good news. Maybe they will find a cure for it soon before they do something stupid