GIRL on GIRL ; OK by GUYS

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Girl with girl cheating OK, half of boyfriends say
By Basil Katz
NEW YORK | Fri Jan 28, 2011 2:05pm EST
NEW YORK (Reuters) - Half of men would forgive their female partner's infidelity, as long as it was with another woman, according to a new study on cheating.
Women, however, were less likely to forgive and forget if their boyfriend had been with another man, the University of Texas at Austin study showed.
Researchers asked 718 college students to imagine being in a long-term relationship and what their reactions would be to several different cheating scenarios.
They found that overall, 50 percent of men would likely continue a relationship with a woman who had a dalliance with another woman, while 22 percent said they could forgive betrayal with another man.
For women, the results were reversed. If their boyfriend cheated with another woman, 28 percent said they'd keep him around, but only 21 percent said they would if he cheated with another man.
Published this month in the journal "Personality and Individual Differences," the study concluded the participant's reactions were based on basic jealousy instincts.
"A robust jealousy mechanism is activated in men and women by different types of cues -- those that threaten paternity in men and those that threaten abandonment in women," said Jaime Confer, the study's lead author and a PhD candidate in evolutionary psychology.
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Nephwrack
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i've had many relationships with bi women and i was cheated on once, and it still felt like getting stabbed in the heart with an icepick. the reason? because she didn't bother to tell me. not that i wanted to be involved, (although i have been involved in ffm) but it was just the breach of trust. like i said, cheating is cheating.
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Nephwrack
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telcod
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And now for the rest of the story. How would women react to their male partner having an affair or sex with another man? I'm thinking that this might provide additional interesting information. Just thinking about those old college essays, compare and contrast.
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telcod
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Nephwrack
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telcod:
eggz fucking zactly.
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Nephwrack
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ozoneocean
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Cheating as regards sex doesn't matter so much to me, it's the relationship/friendship that's the important part.
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ozoneocean
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Nephwrack
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ozoneocean:
even if your partner went behind your back?
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Nephwrack
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CreditFigaro
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I think this makes a lot of sense. If my GF cheats on me with another woman, then fine by me. Even if she leaves me for another woman, it's much less humiliating than if she were to leave me for another man.
Besides, there's always a chance I'd be allowed to participate... that carries more weight than one might expect.
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CreditFigaro
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cantucwearebrothers
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I'm not sure how scientific this all is, but it makes complete sense.
A man can't and isn't competing with the person his partner is cheating with if she is a same sex partner. The game has changed then and he doesn't feel his relationship is threatened.
Aside from the fact that he likely hopes that his girlfriend will bring her home.
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cantucwearebrothers
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Nephwrack
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i dont agree at all. i think it's just as bad if a girl cheats with a girl, if my girl wants another girl in bed, i'd rather know about it.
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Nephwrack
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remanns
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Nephwrack:
Didn't exactly thrill me. I suppose the more casual the relationship is , the more, uhm,....flexible everyone can be.
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remanns
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Nephwrack
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remanns:
naa not with you, i dont agree with the notion of being ok with my girl cheating with another girl. :-) cheating is cheating.
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Nephwrack
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bailey78
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I don't want My Wife cheating with any one but ME. I will dress or act out anything She wants so long as it is US not them.
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bailey78
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I suppose its a "What,.....me worry" ? sort of thing.
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remanns
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i'd be more forgiving if she brought the girl home
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bundlebear
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bailey78
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bundlebear:
ya gotta earn them redwings some how.
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bailey78
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Nephwrack
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bundlebear:
gross, dude. gross.
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Nephwrack
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bailey78
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Nephwrack:
Gross is when your eating down at the Y and they have explosive diarea That is whats gross
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bailey78
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alexandrek [removed]
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bailey78
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alexandrek:
WHAT!
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bailey78
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bundlebear
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bailey78:
gross is when your eating cornflakes and finding out your brothers scab collection is missing
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bundlebear
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bailey78
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bundlebear:
Just one more reason for me not to eat cornflakes
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bailey78
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remanns
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In Austin, a young man is very likely to have the opportunity to form an opinion on the matter. Not that I would know. Nevermind.
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remanns
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remanns
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The University of Texas always has had an interesting psych program.
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remanns