Super Bowl ads show depressed men
Super Bowl advertisers know the aphorism: "I'm just watching it for the commercials" so they premiere their most entertaining commercials. Those ad slots are expensive, so every aspect is calculated. Research has gone into finding out what consumers will relate to. Jezebel catalogued some of those commercials that portray "pathetic men."
The most provocative commercial was for The Dodge Charger.
On-screen we see the stoic faces of four dejected men. An assertive male voice lists a series of requests he has acquiesced to.
- "I will eat some fruit as part of my breakfast."
- "I will say yes when you want me to say yes."
- "I will listen to your opinion of my friends."
- "I will carry your lip balm"
- "I will watch your vampire TV shows with you."
Finally he says: "Because I do this, I will drive the car I want to drive." We hear the vrooming of an engine, and we see the all new 2010 Dodge Charger racing down the highway, with the text and voiceover: "MAN'S LAST STAND."
This is the most depressing commercial I've ever seen. The ad portrays men as victims to their wives. A dystopian view that men have been emasculated by feminism. This ad suggests that the only we can reclaim masculinity is to purchase a fast car. I don't think the advertisers are intentional sexists, trying to exclusively portray their view of women. They've researched this and are targeting a dissatisfied demographic of passive-aggressive men, who are in codependent relationships. Men who feel they can't be "men" because they can't do what they want to.
This suffocating version of pathetic masculinity cannot simply be fixed through commodity fetishism. Buying a car, only distracts from perpetual disappointment. Nor can things get better for men if they revert to a patriarchal Archie Bunker version of masculinity correct themes.
This fundamental depression, is complicated and there is no easy way to resolve it.
Ironically while we're waiting for a solution, we can distract ourselves from this sadness, by watching hilarious commercials.
infoMania's Conor Knighton says this is his favorite Super Bowl ad. Stay tuned for this week's episode where they'll cover Super Bowl commercials in a much funnier way.
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bailey78
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All I can say about the Ads this year is they were over rated and way over priced. All the hype that goes into the event is all BS just another marketing scam that gets a billion dollors just for being.
- 3 years ago
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bailey78
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kitteneater
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I don't understand...why would you be in a relationship with a woman you didn't like? Or rather, why would you compromise yourself so much in a relationship, that your only escape was a gas-guzzling car? This isn't an issue particular to men. It pertains to all of society. Don't get married to get married. Don't date to date.
- 3 years ago
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kitteneater
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MotherForTruth
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kitteneater:
Love is blind, when he realizes he is in unhealthy relationship there is a family home, children, and responsibilities. If he will go thru divorce he will lose the home, children, all of the assets will go to his ex-wife and lawyers… So he chooses cool car instead and try to forget his troubles.
- 3 years ago
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MotherForTruth
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remanns
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Cult of bearing up.
- 3 years ago
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remanns
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Almibry
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remanns:
Yeah
- 3 years ago
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Almibry
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ItsNaYo
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oh geeze its just a stupid commercial with guys bitching about stupid shit they "put up with" because they love their wives. man's last stand. ha yeah because when it comes down to it, your all pussy whipped
- 3 years ago
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ItsNaYo
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remanns
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ItsNaYo:
If there wasn't SOME truth to that,.......this sort of pitch would have no resonance an fall flat. Advertising is almost always simplistic, one sided, etc etc.
- 3 years ago
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remanns
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bailey78
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ItsNaYo:
I like being pussy whipped It takes a lot of stress out of the marrage.
- 3 years ago
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bailey78
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noxidereus
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I hate commercials. Watching them reminds me how stupid and superficial we have become.
- 3 years ago
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noxidereus
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JoeJohnson
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I totally agree with everyone that said this has been over analyzed. What if the whole point of this ad (and after all it is an ad right?) was to not "forget your dinosaur"? If the commercial really got to you on a deeper level then maybe you shouldn't be watching so much tv.... just a thought.
- 3 years ago
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JoeJohnson
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Lucretia_Gross
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Yea, my hubby and I were discussing just how sexist this ad is. It even suggests that the bullshit he puts up with at work is all for her too and therefore he is sacrificing his life so she can have a better one...? Because she doesn't have a job? It's just hard to decide where the insinuation stops.
- 3 years ago
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Lucretia_Gross
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sk0j0
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and then I will divorce you for buying a charger :D
- 3 years ago
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sk0j0
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maThmatik
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i swear to god the guy with the beard is the dude from everyday. the guy who takes a picture of himself everday from youtube.
- 3 years ago
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maThmatik
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jubal
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What a great deconstruction of these horrible commercials.
- 3 years ago
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jubal
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esserius
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*anger about commercial* *writes something to show world anger* *desperate attempt at attention*
- 3 years ago
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esserius
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ahappymintleaf
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esserius:
Your statement really seems to be missing the point. If you are equating critical analysis of popular media with attention mongering then I'm not sure what you would argue is worth considering. If you don't like it then vote it down or create a more constructive argument against it. Or least don't copy and paste the same message over and over again.
It's really frightening to think that companies conduct research and probably have focus groups, that say THIS resonates with them. blaming others for their own feelings of entrapment. and then with the consumerism! Our culture has not raised us to be independent, sympathetic and compromising creatures. But it's okay, because it provides enough useless shit as a substitute for authentic pleasure.
- 3 years ago
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ahappymintleaf
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Lucretia_Gross
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ahappymintleaf:
Here here!! :D
- 3 years ago
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Lucretia_Gross
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remanns
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ahappymintleaf:
But its NOT "frightening" ;thats what marketing IS. And it will always be with us!
Doesn't make the message"TRUE" just because its the pitch used at a particular moment to a certain demographic, so arguing about the "trueness" of a pitch if pointless from anything but an abstract intellectual standpoint. It is not a grounds for charges of P.C. heresy. In the words of my niece; "Take a chill pill". - 3 years ago
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remanns
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jcamille
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the Doritos commercial with the little kid was the best one
- 3 years ago
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jcamille
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Almibry
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I have a vaj and these commercials emasculated me. I find those cars unbelievably sexy. Have you ever seen them fixed up as a police cruiser with the ram in front? rrraow
I think that these fictional men have more problems getting an erection then placating their fictional wives. Can you say mid-life-crisis? Since when is that cool? - 3 years ago
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Almibry
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MotherForTruth
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Almibry:
You summed it up exactly. Women are becoming masculine and men are becoming more feminine. It appears that many women are happy about it but men are not so much.
- 3 years ago
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MotherForTruth
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Almibry
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MotherForTruth:
Not at all. In fact, while I consider myself to be balanced with both my masculine and feminine sides I wouldn't mind a boyfriend who'll go caveman on me... Not that we have any evidence concerning the behavior patterns of our caveman ancestors, you know the stereotype. Not that I want him to be a caveman... Nice and balanced with caveman tendencies in the sack, perhaps?
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Almibry
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Lucretia_Gross
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Almibry:
I agree! Plus, a girl would be way hotter driving that car than some balding, hairy series of lumps. (No offense guys of Current!) ;oP
- 3 years ago
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Lucretia_Gross
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Jason_Munro
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Thats because men grow up to play an adult version of house with their significant other. It's also such a rat race out there it doesn't leave much time for much else. Men still like to play when their older, and have toys. Everything has got to be just right otherwise, and having kids and an awesome wife can take president.
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Jason_Munro
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bd593
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And this pretty much sums it up...
- 3 years ago
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bd593
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common_sense_please
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Honestly every commercial during the Super Bowl this year was idiotic, demeaning, and just plain stupid. That and it makes me sad that this is the type of posts/commentary our culture has had to resort to in order to get people talking about gender bias and stereotypes. But even more sadly by calling for an intelligent, honest, open, academically researched debate around the real issue I will be labeled as clueless or ignorant or plain not understanding the purpose of the post. :(
- 3 years ago
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common_sense_please
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ChunkyCheezes [removed]
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common_sense_please:
You were labeled as clueless and ignorant before you commented on this post.
- 3 years ago
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ChunkyCheezes [removed]
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Confucius
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ChunkyCheezes:
all of your posts suck
- 3 years ago
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Confucius
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402Chicago
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i feel they're over-analyzing it...
- 3 years ago
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402Chicago
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Ricky84
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this ad at all. If anything I find fault in the overbearing and rigid analysis of what it actually means. There are plenty of men out in the world (me included) that aren’t big fans of traditional gender roles but that being said it don’t think it’s necessarily or as implied always a sign of weakness when a man or woman chooses to only commit to a relationship that doesn’t conform the their ideal.
I for instance would love to date a girl that drank/smoked/cursed like a sailor, listened only to eighties hardcore, that had a job in video games, who was a world class fishermen, target shooter and boxer. She would also have a gigantic ass and a waist no wider than a broomstick. So does the fact that I might I settle down with a girl lacking some or all of those qualities actually constitute a weakness or does that mean I might possess the strength of foresight and humility to admit that that girl probably doesn’t exist and that it’s possible that I could come to enjoy the company of someone outside my imaginary ideal?
- 3 years ago
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Ricky84
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remanns
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Ricky84:
clap clap clap clap clap clap (+^d)
- 3 years ago
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remanns
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ibrake4rappers13
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I AM THOR!
- 3 years ago
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ibrake4rappers13
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Ellen2010
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rickm8,
OMG... better start seeing from the inside. You are in power of Your life. Any great counselor can help you. Best of Luck! - 3 years ago
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Ellen2010
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zack
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It's like man suffrage. oh woo is me, my wife has to make me do stuff and I have to work too, but i still have a masculine car. It pissed me off. I did like the Dove for men, Showing a man threw stages of his life, which was also a bit suffrage esq. and in the end he has accomplished all of these amazing things and now he can clean his skin with the same passion. It did sort of sell to a different part of life, it sort of grabbed at, not our insecurities, but something different it almost made use feel ok with being mediocre cause we'll always have the soap the car and the women.
- 3 years ago
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zack
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Almibry
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zack:
I can't believe no one's replied to this. You left yourself wide open but I'll refrain because in you're icon you're staring intently off in the middle distance somewhere and I'm sure my petty insults wouldn't reach you.
- 3 years ago
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Almibry
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zack
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Almibry:
What could you insult me with? this is just my opinion of some dumb advertising shit. you can go your way and I can go my way. I hope as Americans we could find some thing better to argue about. if not then they've won and were all fucked.
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zack
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Almibry
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zack:
There were some good set ups but mainly, I just wanted to mess with you. Sorry if I pissed you off.
- 3 years ago
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Almibry
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Terrorist
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zack:
Yeah, and when small children call me a poop head it really gets on my nerves. What a bunch of dicks, Dodge are.
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Terrorist
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Almibry
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zack:
You do know that "suffrage" is a movement to earn the right to vote, don't you? So what exactly do you mean? Do you want the right to cry in movies? Go ahead, it's dark in there anyway. I know, you must want the right to help your lady with the dishes without being insulted by your buddies right? Because you can already vote... In case you didn't know.
- 3 years ago
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Almibry
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artemis6
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I cannot believe how many people are so weak minded to buy the ideas commercials put forth as REALITY . THEY ARE SELLING STUFF . It is their job to make out how unhappy you will be , until you give them money . Then they will TELL you , you NEED something else ..... It never ends . These . are . LIES .
- 3 years ago
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artemis6
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rickm8
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I believe men have been emasculated by wives for a while, this is nothing new. Do you think that our generation is the first to call a wife or girlfriend the 'ball and chain', or talk about being 'whipped' because they won't let us do what men do to have fun? This is nothing new, men lose a lot of dignity when they make the commitment, from their peers and to themselves. While it may not be true, it's been interpreted in this way for a while. Get over it, women make mens lives something they don't want, but we have to do it.
- 3 years ago
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rickm8
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MotherForTruth
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rickm8:
It is sad but true. Finally we will hear men speak up. And maybe it's time for men's studies.
- 3 years ago
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MotherForTruth
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Almibry
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rickm8:
Did you know that the demographic with the highest rate of suicide is among divorced and widowed men? Men like to bitch and moan and claim that they don't want to be tied down but women do a lot for their partners, so when they're gone, men get all depressed and shoot themselves. If I had to guess it would be because the kind of woman who (if I were a man) I would marry would chain me down and whip me (precisely what you're complaining about). Who'd want to live without that?
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Almibry
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artemis6
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MotherForTruth:
Men's studies have been going on for a long time . Look up Robert Bly , Michel Gurian , the wonder of boys . That is a good start . Every mother should be concerned about proper mentoring of her sons . This is what creates powerful masculine identity .
- 3 years ago
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artemis6
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TheDecemberists
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"This is the most depressing commercial I've ever seen. The ad portrays men as victims to their wives."
OR it was a form of humor... just sayin, you should lighten up a bit...
- 3 years ago
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TheDecemberists
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common_sense_please
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Seriously all the commercials pretty much sucked. I guess they assumed (and we all know what that means) that the Colts would crush the Saints so nobody would really watch the game live.
I mean the commercials were so terrible that in the end my personal favorite was not even a "real" commercial--it featured David Letterman complete with Colts jersey complaining about his lousy Super Bowl party to Oprah and Jay Leno commenting he just said that because he (Jay) was there.
- 3 years ago
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common_sense_please
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s_peak
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Commercials are mind pollution. Why are people forgetting this fact? Widespread ADD and schizophrenia (ADD can be a positive social evolution, though) have been linked to connecting information improperly in our heads using "flashes".
And actually... commercials are really quite unique in that they really can't offer you any unbiased, REAL information. Unlike a book, a walk through the park or a conversation... commercials are engineered to implant ideas and values in your head for no other reason than money. I consider it exploitation.Now it's even worse. They tell us that we're depressed... they tell men to keep their pimp hand strong or that saying yes to women makes you whipped... etc, filling us with psychosomatic garbage. Essentially they serve to make improper connections between things in our heads... like a brand icon supposedly connected to "quality" and "love"... and even worse... commercials teach us to want things we don't need. This creates endless waste... and as entropy builds in our world... we begin to drown in that waste... which is the state we're currently in.
Say no to mind control!
- 3 years ago
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s_peak
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nhbernier
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s_peak:
I really respect your speaking out about this. Sometimes it seems like no one sees the world for what it is anymore; or those that do despair into silence. Thank you for your strong, balanced, articulation.
- 3 years ago
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nhbernier
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Confucius
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nhbernier:
im one of them
- 3 years ago
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Confucius
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KiDD_opm
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The only reson ads like this are I'd to get men to alienate women from the real problems of there lives, go fast,get young
- 3 years ago
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KiDD_opm
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MotherForTruth
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KiDD_opm:
IMO, it’s the other way around, women have done a great job alienating men.
- 3 years ago
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MotherForTruth
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KiDD_opm
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The only reson ads like this are I'd to get men to alienate women from the real problems of there lives, go fast,get young
- 3 years ago
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KiDD_opm
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Dagum
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I am sure masculine rights activists are happy. You know, those insidious bastards with their masculine studies majors, that lobby congress and fight for their rights to behave like men and right not conform to societal expectations that they shave their balls, go to the tanning saloons, listen to Emo/hipster music and cut themselves.
- 3 years ago
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Dagum
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remanns
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Dagum:
Lame -vd. Sour grapes,...issues ( your self image perhaps? )
- 3 years ago
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remanns
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smurph25
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I hope Conor covers this Super Bowl ad, the game 'Dante's Inferno' looks great but I wouldn't pick their choice of song...
- 3 years ago
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smurph25
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UrbanGypsy
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Commercials sucked this time. I saw no funny ones at alll. The only one that made me laugh was the one about "Man's Last Stand"...
It was hilarious...
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UrbanGypsy
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remanns
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UrbanGypsy:
+^d I thought it was a little predictable,...but amusing.
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remanns
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flyingkick
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At .25 in the ad, is that Noah?
- 3 years ago
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flyingkick
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weakmassive
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flyingkick:
Yeah, that's Noah Kalina. He mentioned it over here:
http://blog.noahkalina.com/post/377089282/this-is-the-super-bowl-commercial-i-wa... - 3 years ago
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weakmassive
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Birdieball
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I wish more colleges offered Men in Society courses.
- 3 years ago
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Birdieball
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diabolical44
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masculinity has become a social faux pas in todays society. men are expected to shave all the hair off their bodies, be overly emotional, be overly sensitive, etc. etc...
sooner or later most women are going to realize that they'd rather have their men look and behave like actual men.
- 3 years ago
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diabolical44
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nhbernier
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diabolical44:
I hope one day men in this country are proud of themselves again. Whether they can find work in construction or not. I don't think women are the arbiters of man's self image.
I'm saying that perhaps the shame is coming from somewhere else.
- 3 years ago
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nhbernier