What it Means When A Spouse Says It's Ok to Sleep Around
source: http://www.karmaair.com/Images/Podcasts/BS12-15-07.mp3
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Many of the men that I interviewed for my book, "Having an Affair?" (and one, whom I was involved with personally) shockingly told me that their wives did in fact know that they were having an affair, and, or, sex with other women in general.
I was truly shocked at first, thinking "these wives deserve their men to cheat on them with attitudes like that." I went on to investigate it further in chapter three of my book - "How and Why Married Men Stray," and why their wives stay!!
One guy told me he had confronted his wife of 10 years to tell her he was not getting enough sex. They had talked about it many times apparently. He suggested they go to marriage counseling but she'd said - "to save time, money, AND our marriage, I give you permission to go get your sex with other women, as long as you are discreet about it!" He was dumbfounded and said he felt totally rejected as a man. He didn't know what he was supposed to do, or how he should feel.
NOTE: Once he got over the hurt and anger, he did of course go straight out and have an affair!
Obviously this wife had largely opted out of their relationship, neither interested in romance or passion with him, nor wanting to find out where it had gone and how to get it back. Interestingly enough though, she didn?t want to lose the life, nor partnership, she had with him. So she gave him her blessing to seek sex elsewhere, as long as she wasn't involved.
For wives who do this - it might seem like a viable solution - but it is a huge slap in the face for any man who wants his marriage to succeed! Can you imagine how you'd feel? I will be examining this topic more deeply, this week. I wonder how many fake marriages exist like this, especially here in Hollywood?
In this episode, I welcome stories from mistresses who have been involved, or is involved with a guy who has been given 'an unlimited access pass to other women' by the wife that he married.
Source: KarmaAir.com
Full Epsidode: http://www.karmaair.com/ShowBlog.aspx?episodeid=580
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razer
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the major down-side to marriage is having to have sex with the same person for the rest of your life. and since sex is only a small part of a relationship, i think that (discreetly) sleeping with other people is a wonderful idea. right now i have a wonderful woman who is ready to marry me, but does not want to put up with my insatiable lust for beautiful women. i gotta have a new one every once in a while. my ideal marriage would have a guaranteed vacation built in where every one or two years, we each go off on our own destination and do whatever it is we please. of course, be safe and come back home and ask no questions.
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razer
