Culture | December 16, 2008 | 73 comments

Getting drunk stumbles out of style

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Newser suggests that getting drunk is getting out of fashion on the New York party scene.

"People just don't get sloshed anymore because it’s not stylish", posts Susan Cheever in the New York Times. But could getting drunk becoming unfashionable help to lower levels of alcohol addiction? (read link for more discussion)

What do you think?
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73 comments // Getting drunk stumbles out of style

  • cantspascua
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      cantspascua  
    • Of course it is not cool to get drunk when in public and private circles especially when your mixed drinks and hard liqueur can cost you more than 5 dollars a drink except when it comes to beer then you look like a cheap drunk.

    • 3 years ago
  • mattbrawn
  • kuruption
  • SDLN
  • kennyJ
  • nessie00
  • IMMININT
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      IMMININT  
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    • Has yet to do me any harm...

      I prefer a few shots of it when I go out to the clubs, definitely better than getting bloated on beer.

    • 3 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
  • samonster34
  • pinkerbelle
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      pinkerbelle  
    • this is good. As a bartender, I've always wondered what the hell was so cool about getting sloshed?!...you end up looking like an idiot or puking everywhere, so why do it?!

    • 3 years ago
  • honusurf
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      honusurf  
    • Sour diesel Blueberry Diesel, Grape Diesel oh my! I always make a fool out of myself when I get too sloshed- I'm cutting back. Drinking without weed and weeding without drinking don't mix? Don't forget the hangover?;(

    • 3 years ago
  • JohnA
  • unimatrix0
  • Adumbration
  • Chango2000
  • Adumbration
  • tmoodySC
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      tmoodySC  
    • in retrospect, drinking to get drunk is not needed, a few drinks, some shots, and most importantly connecting with friends in a relaxed atmosphere is what i call partying. Everybody gets to choose how they deal with alcohol, it is a reflection of how you live your life in a sense.

    • 3 years ago
  • IVXX_TOON
  • gozerian
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • Hunnter,

      Not everyone drinks like that. Drinking is quite fun. It certainly is a "social lubricant"- not that you CAN'T have fun without drinking, just that things are usually MORE fun when you ARE drinking. My typical night is something like this:

      Invite friends over
      Play drinking games (Circle of Death, Asshole, etc)
      Talk about interesting things
      Play video games (which we drink to)
      Watch silly Youtube videos on my giant ass TV (there is a great powerhour with old tv theme songs)
      End up in a discussion about the universe, god, humanity, or something else where all of a sudden everyone is a genius because we're all wasted
      Pass Out
      Wake up and laugh at the funny, good times we had

      Does that sound depressing?

    • 3 years ago
  • ChrisWT
  • Hunnter
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      Hunnter  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      Not really, if you can remember them.
      Having good times that you can't remember is wasted time IMO.
      Speaking of your discussions, it would be wasted time discussing such a thing if none of it was really remembered.

      People do things much worse, and thats more of the point of this.
      And that is generally in the majority of cases, sadly.

    • 3 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • DeliaTheArtist:

      Not everyone forgets everything when they get drunk! Plus, you and your friends recall different events the other may have forgotten. Yes, sometimes people get BLACKOUT drunk and that is when your memory is gone, but most people don't get blackout drunk every time they drink.

    • 3 years ago
  • IMMININT
  • missmydog
  • Hunnter
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      Hunnter  
    • I honestly don't understand why people get drunk out their face to the point of puking.
      To be honest, it sounds like the most stupid thing, ever.
      Running face first into a wall seems more appealing.

      Typical night:
      Get smashed
      RAAAAVE
      Wake up, not remember a thing and have an awful sickening feeling / sore head, whatever.
      My, that sounds like a *fantastic* life to me.
      What is the point? When you're sitting there, old (fat chance), no life to remember, sounds incredibly depressing to me...

      Why do you do what you do? (actual question here, i'd love to know)
      Why can't people have fun without drink? (or even drugs?)
      I can have fun without it, more-or-less always have.
      It seems people are too nervous and thoughtful of their interactions these days.

    • 3 years ago
  • bigloutech
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      bigloutech  
    • who is this "newser" anyway? NY is a land of drinking and getting wasted. our bars are open til 4am for a reason! don't believe the hype...drink up my friends.

    • 3 years ago
  • DeliaTheArtist
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      DeliaTheArtist  
    • Didn't y'all know? Pills are the new stylish thing in New York. Have been for some time. Since they make me quite ill, I'll stick to booze, weed and mushrooms, thank you very much.

    • 3 years ago
  • blocka
  • Chango2000
  • Cicada_Song
  • derk
  • ash_theory
  • ash_theory
  • vzeek
  • Leonidis
  • damnneargenius
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      damnneargenius  
    • Leonidis:

      Although I'd have to agree with the argument of green over liquid dangerousness in a behavioral context, being high can lead to some pretty...wait, no, you're right.

      All in all herb seems like a much less dangerous drug than alcohol from what I've seen.

      Instead of losing perception of reality and sleeping with strangers, you'd just laugh your ass off at them instead.

    • 3 years ago
  • Betico
  • diabolical44
  • IMMININT
  • diabolical44
  • des10
  • dawnM55
  • IMMININT
    • 0
      IMMININT  
    • Time repeats...

      Look at Top 40 Rap and NuDisco music... It's mimicking the electro-funk and danceability of hiphop/pop in the 80s... we'll be hitting the 90s again soon which was a much more chilled out era in that particular style of music...

      It's about time people pull their heads out of their ass and start getting deep again...

    • 3 years ago
  • GoldenAvatar
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      GoldenAvatar  
    • The only reason I ever got drunk was because it was so cool. Whew! I'm glad that's over with. Now I can find the next cool thing and go do it completely sober. Thank you, New York, for continuing to let me know what I should do and not do to be cool!

    • 3 years ago
  • damnneargenius
  • diabolical44
  • arcticspirit
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      arcticspirit  
    • Depends on where you are in the world as well.
      I don't like getting sloshed, but my boyfriend likes me as sloshed as possible... evidently I'm entertaining ? I hate to imagine in what way. Then again my x boss said the same thing after a trip to FLA a few years ago. He saw me in a totally different way, and for the better somehow. uh. ??

    • 3 years ago
  • honusurf
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      honusurf  
    • arcticspirit:

      That is what I used to tell myself too- everybody likes me better when I'm sloshed, thus I get sloshed and do even crazier things like rap and act silly entertaining drunk. It's an endless cycle of booze and lies! You are you not the alcohol!

    • 3 years ago
  • interstate420
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      interstate420  
    • Well drinking may go out of style for a wile but who cares when you drink like I do .Alone and in a dark closet! So whos with me, lets go to NY city and ill bring a university's worth of drunk college girls, and a bunch more booze. Then we'll party hard. That should do the trick, should knock em back to the stone ages.

    • 3 years ago
  • honusurf
  • notoriousBRE
  • marpunk
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      marpunk  
    • I'm happy I don't go to those "parties", seems more like being lame, self-righteous and arrogant walked into style once again, unfortunately.

    • 3 years ago
  • DrPhiloneous
  • diabolical44
  • fcervera
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      fcervera  
    • I doubt it's going out of style... Most likely has to do with age. Younger people drink a lot more than older people as they enter the party scene.

      The new experience, and age, contribute to getting drunk. As you get older its no longer cool, or fun, to pass out in the corner and puke on yourself.

      This was my experience.

    • 3 years ago
  • clarity_kat
  • nazbags
  • unphiltered
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      unphiltered  
    • Maybe they're gettin plenty of that Sour Diesel going around to not care about drinking to excess... they've found water helps cottonmouth more.

    • 3 years ago
  • Sierradactyl
  • OncleLogan
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      OncleLogan  
    • It’s so true! I still love getting drunk and everyone complains on how "not stylish" I am the next day..
      Now I would get worried about what IS fashionable these days: BLOW. Every one I know is getting high on cocaine every weekend. it wasn't like that just 2 years ago.. this is becoming a problem.

    • 3 years ago
  • smizzle1
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      smizzle1  
    • OncleLogan:

      the same thing happened in my town. I had a baby and was out of the scene for a while, and now everyone is doing it every weekend, like its just now included in the Friday evening for them.

    • 3 years ago
  • chemicalbros
  • BenDorries
  • joshuaheller
  • enjoydivision
  • Jeffnfun631
  • jogglef
  • RCS
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      RCS  
    • Have you ever! I guess that the next thing will be to make it unacceptable to watch "Thin Man" movies or any other old film in which people are stylish and often have a drink in their hands. Certainly, it will be totally non-progressive and politically incorrect to attend any party such as the one described by Noel Coward in his song "Marvelous Party."

      First Verse:

      I went to a marvelous party
      With Nounou and Nada and Nell,
      It was in the fresh air
      And we went as we were
      And we stayed as we were
      Which was Hell.
      Poor Grace started singing at midnight
      And didn't stop singing till four;
      We knew the excitement was bound to begin
      When Laura got blind on Dubonnet and gin
      And scratched her veneer with a Cartier pin,
      I couldn't have liked it more.

      So, I guess it is no more getting blind on Dubonnet and gin--in a later verse, Lulu gets fried on Chianti--or anything else for that matter. Unredeemed sybarite that I am, I still rather enjoy going to an affair that makes you say several days later, "I couldn't have liked it more."

    • 3 years ago
  • sgirgis72
  • Scott_Bromley
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