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The 9 Jobs Most Conducive to Infidelity

"The tragic killing of "good guy" Steve McNair by his jealous 20-year-old mistress has highlighted what most of us... more

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Should You Tell A Friend Her Husband Is Cheating?

There aren't enough awkward turtles in the world to cover for this situation. "The first time I met my now-close... more

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Choosing Battlestar Galactica Over A Boyfriend

An online dating veteran quits after falling in love with the TV show "Battlestar Galactica."

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The Number One Reason Why He Didn't Call You Back

Been left hanging and you're not sure why? Author Rachel Greenwald interviewed 1000 men about why they don't call... more

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A Guys' Take On Choosing Date Movies

Five guys from different relationship stages discuss the dilemma of choosing movies/TV shows both will like. "A lot of... more

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Gavin Degraw’s brother is a bad date

You’d think that being in the band of your (semi)famous younger brother, he would toss you a few girls, right? Well... more

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Discussing Politics on a Date with a Girl

How would you like to talk about politics on a date with a girl? These two try, a discussion about discussing politics.

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Ask-A-Guy - Does He Want My Friend?

She rejected him once. Does that mean he can go after her friend?

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You're Driving Me Crazy!

So often it's the pettiest problems that tear couples apart. How small irritants become big issues—and what to do about... more

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5 Tips To Boost Your Love Life

1. Abundance, or wealth-consciousness.
Anaїs Nin once said, "We do not see the world as it is; we see the world as we are." Thus you have the choice to see the world with a lens of wealth-consciousness or poverty-consciousness. Do you see scarcity, lack and limitation around you, or wealth, possibility and abundance?
The mindset you choose bears directly upon the success of your love life (and your success in general). Scarcity-consciousness - e.g. "all the good ones are taken" - begets neediness, and neediness is not attractive.
Big-heartedness and self-sufficiency, on the other hand, work much better. Even the Bible has something to say about that: "For he that hath, to him shall be given: and he that hath not, from him shall be taken away even that which he hath."
Seems kind of mean, but it's just the way of the world: wealth begets wealth. So even if you don't have a companion, act as if there is an unlimited supply of what you want available to you already.
And you know what? There is. Because even if only one thousandth of one percent of the 6.5 billion people in this world are cool enough to be eligible for your companionship, that's, oh, 65,000 folks. That's enough dates to tide you over for a whole month.
2. Enlightened self-interest.

This one has three words in it. 'Enlightened' means that you make decisions by considering the long-term consequences of your actions. Short-sighted decisions - e.g. "I know he's a bad boy, but it'll be so much fun" - usually end in tears and/or heartbreak.
'Self' means that your welfare takes priority, just like in the pre-flight announcement where they say put on your own oxygen mask first, then help others in the case of an emergency. To be able to take care of anyone else, you need to take care of you first. Simple, totally non-negotiable, and often neglected.
'Interest' means that you're signing up for your fulfillment and joy, not your pain. If a relationship is making you miserable and unhappy - like that of my friend Holly who was being put down and punched up by the man she was supporting financially - consider ending it. Because fulfillment is a feeling, not a person. So if you're not getting fulfilling feelings in a relationship, chances are you're with the wrong person.
3. The Be-Do-Have paradigm (vs. Have-Do-Be).
Many people think like this: "If I have a great partner, then I can do the things that people with partners do, and then I can be happy." That's actually the dog wagging the tail. The proper sequence is: "If I am a happy, self-sufficient, generous and charming person, then I will have a great life and do things that feel good and make me attractive, and then, as a pleasant side-effect, will have fabulous companions who are naturally attracted to my life."
Successful change begins at the level of identity and belief, so first, be the kind of person you want to be. From the right beliefs will flow the right actions, or te (the middle word from Tao Te Ching) naturally and effortlessly, from which will come right results.
4. Yin-Yang (Feminine-Masculine) Polarity
The Taoists say that two poles are necessary for energy to flow: the receptive or feminine yin and the projecting or masculine yang. We see this in nature: water runs from high to low; electricity flows between cathode and anode; magnetic force goes between north and south poles.
This is especially true of human relations. Without polarity, relationships fall flat, whether in heterosexual or same-sex couples: someone has to wear the pants.
As a man, if you take on too much yin, you risk turning into an indecisive wimp, which is not necessarily appealing to women. Having an open heart is great; just remember to keep your spine also.
As a woman, if you take on too much yang, you risk turning into a facsimile of a guy, which may be admirable but not necessarily attractive. Strength is great, but remember that femininity is what draws in the masculine.
5. Get out of your own way.1. Abundance, or wealth-consciousness. Anaїs Nin once said, "We do not see the world as it is; we see the world as we... more

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How To Reel Her In (Part 2)

You got her NUMBER. Now get HER! --- HOW TO REEL HER IN (Part 2)

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Pre-Stained Pants: Would You Pay for Skidmarks?

A Canadian (I've never understood their humour) entrepreneur is selling pre-stained underwear that he says are sure to be a... more

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Ask-A-Guy - What Do I Do Now?

Things seemed to be going well up until this. Now what???

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15 Tops Tips For Young Women

The top 15 tips women would love to step back in time and give to their younger selves.

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How To Reel Her In...

You got her phone number. Here's how to finish the job...

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What counts as 'sex'?

Define sex, because apparently there's some disagreement on what, exactly, counts as "having sex". Beyond the... more

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How To Have Casual Sex

Pop culture blog Pop Waffle gives Current a quirky, animated do's & don'ts on the subject of friends with benefits,... more

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Zen and the Art of Falling in Love

A look at how being zen can help you fall in love

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Astro Twins Predict Your Love Life

Identical twin sisters Tali and Ophira Edut-- known as The AstroTwins -- are professional astrologers with over 15 years... more

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Hot or not? Ladies less likely to agree

Thin and seductive, that's what men find attractive in women. But the ladies are less in agreement over what makes for a hot guy, new research finds.

The news is good for guys who might think they're not the hottest hunks. But it also means more competition for the hottest women, scientists say.

"Men agree a lot more about who they find attractive and unattractive than women agree about who they find attractive and unattractive," said study researcher Dustin Wood, assistant professor of psychology at Wake Forest University in North Carolina. The study included more than 1,300 heterosexual men, about 2,700 heterosexual women, about 125 homosexual men and about the same number of homosexual women. The average age of participants was about 28 years old, and ranged from 18 to more than 70.

Participants each rated nearly 100 photographs of either men or women, depending on the participant's gender and sexual orientation. They scored how attractive they found each photographed individual on a 10-point scale from "not at all" to "very" attractive.

Previously, the researchers had judged each of the photos for various factors of attractiveness, including how seductive, confident, thin, sensitive, stylish, curvaceous (women), muscular (men), traditional, masculine/feminine, classy, well-groomed, or upbeat the person in the image looked.
What men want
Despite another recent study that found modern men are more interested in intelligent, educated women than in decades past, in the new study men tended to base their attractiveness ratings on women's physical features, giving stellar marks to those who looked thin and seductive. Most of the men in the study also rated photographs of women who looked confident as more attractive.

What women want
Women showed some preference for thin, muscular men. But they also disagreed over the hotness factor of many men, with some women giving a guy high attractiveness ratings while others scored the same guy as not attractive at all.

Do men actually agree more on what makes a person attractive or was there something about the photos that caused men to rate them in certain ways? To figure this out, the researchers turned to the homosexual ratings. Sure enough, gay men showed a greater consensus about attractiveness levels of photos of men than did straight women of those same photos.

And straight men also showed more consensus than lesbians in terms of attractiveness ratings of the photos of women.

The results, published in the June issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, have implications for the dating scene.

For instance, with varying ideas of which men are attractive, women may face less competition from other women on the prowl. Men, on the other hand, might face stiff competition from other guys who all have eyes for the same handful of potential mates. Men, therefore, may need to invest more time and energy into attracting and guarding their mates from other potential suitors, the researchers said.

Oh, and they do: After eons of evolution, men are hardwired to overspend and max out credit cards to attract mates, a study last year concluded.Thin and seductive, that's what men find attractive in women. But the ladies are less in agreement over what makes for a hot... more