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Purity Balls? First came dinner, then the covenant, then dancing.

Purity Balls are attended by fathers and their daughters to show the father's support for their daughters to remain abstinent until marriage. Unlike other Purity Balls, at this one the fathers take an oath not the daughters. The fathers promise “before God to cover my daughter as her authority and protection in the area of purity.” The fathers also sign a purity pledge.

Studies suggest that a close relationship between a father and daughter can reduce risk of sexual activity at a young age, and prevent teen pregnancy.


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43 responses // Dancing for abstinence

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    Hehehehehe...purity balls...hehehehehe

    Scott_Bromley
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    area of purity?

    wtf

    lmao

    do what you can i guess...

    jade_azul16
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    The image choice is hilarious.
    And kind of gross.

    Humdrum
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    MY BALLS ARE QUITE PURE. . . whoops. had the caps on. . .

    CarlosIsDown
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    Sweet Zombie Jesus, who the hell's idea was it that sex was immoral and impure? Whoever did must have been extremely vindictive after never getting laid and dying at the age of 40.

    Dmitri_Molotov
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    Lol, the dads must've been abstinent for a long time... 64 y/o with a 17 y/o daughter?

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    I don't think my dad would have lasted 5 minutes at this without laughing hysterically. But at least the parents are involved and it is a way to open up a discussion.

    clarity_kat
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    Looks like a prom for dads and daughters.

    BetterWatching
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    balls... haha...
    c'mon. Too easy!

    ILiveonaClock
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    there's just something a little bit creepy about fathers looking after their daughter's virginity. Saudi Arabia, anyone?

    H3ADLINE
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    Um, it looks like that teen is on her knees before her father. That's disturbing.

    Why all this ceremony crap? Just talk to your kids for heaven's sake.

    LarzNero
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    These purity balls are just as effective at preventing teenagers from having sex as the purity rings are, which is another way to say that they do diddly-squat.

    CCashman
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    "Yes, Daddy. Please feel free to treat my like chattel. It's in no way demeaning to my rights as a young adult."

    renbyrd
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    After years of so called comprehensive sex education pushing Condoms, 26 % of women between 14-19 years old have STDs.

    As of March 2008, America had 991 202 cases of aids so far.

    Studies show that fathers are a great influence in the life of their daughters.

    What are you laughing at ?

    Those who just believe in a piece of Latex for your children, please join the statistics.

    Insurance companies should increase insurance rates for those who have Stds.

    National Healthcare without responsible behaviour is one more way to bring America to bankruptcy

    I am waiting for Obama to show real leadership of change.

    Obamination
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    I wounder how many of those fathers waited until marriage?

    devo64
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    Its not like abstinence isn't a choice. Not every one in this morally bankrupted country is a sexual monster. I respect a woman who abstains far greater then the new entry on the weekly conquest list.

    rayblasdel
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    I dunno i hate balls in all forms for any occasion..the food is never good and the conversation makes me feel stiff, much less a ball for my damn virginity. wtf do people talk about during these things???? someone make a pod!

    keeshii768
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    'Freak' dancing would be rather awkward at one of these.

    Dasai
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    I am speechless.

    jubal
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    Condom use & safe sex practice by teens who have taken "purity" vows (and broken them) is dangerously low.

    I feel like we're just banging our heads up against the wall here with these culture wars. It's clear from listening to both sides that we are actually arguing for many of the same outcomes: reducing disease and unwanted pregnancies (often ending in abortion).

    helicopterson
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    What cracks me up about this is I view it as bordering between influencing your children and making their decisions for them. To have sex (unless it is rape, which is a very bad thing) is a choice. Your child will at some point make that choice. Hopefully your child will be smart about it, maybe wait until marriage, maybe not. If not, then hopefully he/she will wear a condom.

    Anyhow, teaching abstinence is a good thing to teach as an option; however, just teaching abstinence is freakin' retarded. Kids do rebellious things, and to think that your kid will adhere to abstinence because you approve of it is just plain stupid. Your kids should know that abstinence until their adult years is a better choice, but they should also know how to safely have sex in the instance that teenage hormones override that abstinence pledge that they might have taken. Remember, a horny teenager is not a stupid teenager, it is just a teenager that might give into his/her urges and at that point he/she should know how to do so in a manner that is as safe as possible.

    Varex_Sythe
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    Of course, just teaching abstinence (whatever you mean by that ) is not enough by itself. Human beings have emotion, intellect and will. We have a body and a spirit.

    In any case, it starts with the parent life example. Empty words and latex are like a russian roulette game.

    It is the same thing with loosing weight, drinking, drug use, homosexuality, pornography etc...there is more to it.

    Yes I know that teenagers have free will. The condom nation culture is a disaster. Craziness is hoping for change while doing the same thing.

    This country is in a huge denial. We prefer a message of hopelessness while we are chanting nothing is impossible

    We fall for fake changes while we keep burning the CD of our life.

    We celebrate those who talk well like idols while rejecting every virtue.

    The 3 Fs: Fun, F@#k and Freedom without responsibilities is all America has left......because "it is my rights. I deserve it...remember " Love is love "

    WOW !!!!

    If you do not have confidence in yourself, do not waste your time insulting me. Start with you.

    Obama says that if his daughters make a mistake, he will not punish them with a child. This is the man that want to rule America. He should work on himself and his family and come back later. Then I will listen to him.

    Do not talk about change, Obama, change yourself first.

    Giving a marriage licence to an homosexual couple is the same as giving a car to a drunk driver.

    Obama has changed his platform on marriage. No one noticed it. He will change with the wind.

    He is just another opportunist politician

    Obamination
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    What does Obama have to do with the Purity Ball? You are just another opportunist internet user.

    I can respect what these girls are doing. I hope they aren't bullied into it by their parents, but there we go.

    I'd also like to see a Purity But if you DO Decide to Have Sex, Always Use a Condom and Ensure You Trust the Person you are With Ball.

    AceHardchester
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    If you’re going to remain abstinent do it for yourself, not for God or your father.

    VigorousAlloy
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    haha, well said AHchester.

    Yes, Obama has nothing to do with this.

    I think it's good that at least they have a father that cares enough to encourgage them with their kids decision. (Most dads just nod and say "yeah that's great.." and continue what their doing..)
    I think most of us can agree it looks corny, but what ever. If it's something the kid is forced into well then that's a different story entirely.
    But if you want to save it till marriage...then go for it.

    Joydejavu17
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