VIctims of Sexual Violence

That is very brave of this girl to put that history out and alert everyone about that bastard, I hope somebody catch him and give him a taste.

I've heard that in jail make this kind of rapers and abusers their bitches. He doesn't deserve less.

Thank you for sharing this with us. It's so important that people are aware of these risks.

This is an important topic to cover. The pod ends abruptly, and it doesn't seem like the story is finished.

Right on! It's great that she's putting this out there.

he reason Mr. Whelan has started this court process is because he has asked me to move in with him to his new home and I have declined, therefore he can't accept the rejection.

I would like to request that the visits continue to be supervised by Mr. and Mrs. Patrick Day(13 Sage Rd. Toms River) and that William be more responsible with the schedule my parents have opened up for him.
There have been numerous times when he has told them he would be here on Saturday morning and he has not showed up. Also they wait around for him to show or to call but he never even calls them to tell he isn't going to show up.
Mr. and Mrs. Day(my mom and dad) have opened up two days a week for him to visit but he rarely even shows up for one day a week. During this visit I(Kelly Day) am generally at work. Unless William has showed up late for the visit during the time that I am getting home from work. He purposefully shows up late or outside of scheduled times just so that i will have to accidentally run into him. He has not been able to get over me not wanting anything to do with him.
If he really wants to have more time with his daughter then why isn't he trying to get it now? My parents have been very patient and kind to him.
During his visits they have witnessed William spending more time talking to other people at the park than paying attention to Maya. Also William often spends much of his time talking about me and making up lies about me to my mom. My family has been kind to him despite his hostility and hurtful accusations. This is why they question his stability. They have also told him he can bring his new Russian girlfriend for the visit. She has not made it down for any of the visits with Maya so I find it unusual that she would be considered appropriate to act as a supervisor. She has shown no interest in Maya.
Even though he has changed girlfriends several times in last year. The day before he told us his fiancee was pregnant he was asking if I would want to come live with him in his new house. These are seriously disturbing behavior patterns coming from a man who has 3 children from 3 different women(that we know of). Due to William's unstable relationship in past with females I believe it would be difficult for a pregnant girlfriend to be an appropriate supervisor of a 3 year old.
It is plain to see that Mr. Whelan has not learned about the mistakes of his past. It is scary to see that a sex offender is going around getting so many girls pregnant. I wonder why he wants to have so many children? Another reason we question his honesty with regards to Maya is that he has lied to the courts about his income.
I personally do not want his financial support at all, however, I find it interesting that he has told the courts he lives at very low income level. Yet he has been able to pay for 2 new cars in the last year. He has also recently financed a new condo to live in and purchased several things for it. This seems to create a discrepancy in the income he is claiming to make. I do not care about money but I do care when someone is lying to me and my first and only child(Maya Day).
I only bring up this financial information to reveal the true nature and personality of this entity Mr.Whelan.

He has also lied to me about Maya's half brother and the nature of his medical problems. These are all serious matters for him to continue lying about. All of these lies could potentially impact Maya's future.
I would also like to clarify that several times in his statement he has entitled me as "Mrs. Day". "Mrs. Day" is actually my mom's title. My name is Kelly Day. I am not married and therefore I am not "Mrs." I just do not want the courts to mistake his false statements about me as me being my mom.
Another correction to his original court statement is: I was also never diagnosed by any Doctor as having bipolar or Schizophrenia (I believe those are two different diseases). I do not know why Mr. Whelan is claiming I have either one of those illnesses. It sounds like he is suffering from hallucinations during the writing of his statement.
I was diagnosed 1 year ago as having Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from dealing with Mr. Whelan's constant abuse and stalking me.
For Mr. Whelan to have to create so many false statements shows that he is a desperate man and he does not care who he hurts along the way. When he is insulting me after I have taken care of Maya so well it is very hurtful to Maya as well. The last three years Maya has turned out to be such a good girl. Thanks to my parents and sister's helping me with her. I have been attending school part time and also working so without my family's help it would not have been the same. I feel that by my choosing to leave Mr. Whelan during my pregnancy was the smartest thing I could have done. Otherwise Maya might not have grown up so beautifully if I had stayed with such a manipulative man. Maya is a beautiful child and I have only wanted the best for her. I have dropped all the plans in my life just to make sure she has a wonderful life and it hurts me to hear how ungrateful Mr.Whelan has been.


Kelly Day
OmShaantih@mac.com