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"For Kurdish girls, a painful ancient ritual ... the widespread practice of female circumcision in Iraq's North highlights the plight of women in a region often seen as more socially progressive.

Sheelan Anwar Omer, a shy 7-year-old Kurdish girl, bounded into her neighbor's house with an ear-to-ear smile, looking for the party her mother had promised.

There was no celebration. Instead, a local woman quickly locked a rusty red door behind Sheelan, who looked bewildered when her mother ordered the girl to remove her underpants. Sheelan began to whimper, then tremble, while the women pushed apart her legs and a midwife raised a stainless-steel razor blade in the air. "I do this in the name of Allah!" she intoned.

As the midwife sliced off part of Sheelan's genitals, the girl let out a high-pitched wail heard throughout the neighborhood. As she carried the sobbing child back home, Sheelan's mother smiled with pride."

How can such horror be justified or explained?
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  • Joel_Simantov
  • straw2berry89
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      straw2berry89  
    • When I first heard of FGM (female genital mutilation), I cried. How could such a horrible practice be about? How could people in those regions believe something such as this is just and right in order to perserve religion and society?

    • 3 years ago
  • jubal
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      jubal  
    • Wake up people FGM is about cutting off the clitoris so the girl has no sexual feelings. That is the majority of female circumcisions are about.

      Cutting off the CLITORIS!!!!! It is the same as cutting off the penis and castrating a boy.

      WAKE UP!!!!!

    • 3 years ago
  • aswift1
  • camisalami
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      camisalami  
    • I wish the women would see their potential to be able to change tradition. The article stated that men don't have such a great role in the practice so i don't understand why a mother can't realize how illogical the tradition is and keep it from spreading to her daughter.

    • 3 years ago
  • travelindave
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      travelindave  
    • wow such barbaric things still in this world and i guess that it will never change. Why cant the world take responcibility and stop all the crap. Just clamp down.We are just regressing, so sad but the world is asleep.

    • 3 years ago
  • hydrokat
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      hydrokat  
    • Uhm Okay: I really don't want rail but I just want to interject something here. In the old testaments We See God giving the instructions to the People. These Instructions were valid at the time. I don't remember reading anything about Women being Circumcised but for Men the practice was for Health purposes. Simply put that infection could be a problem. Of course God did not explain this. Now We understand that, and I don't remember it anyway. Since Jesus died on the Cross, We have entered into a New Covenant and these practices are no longer necessary. I have never heard of Christians in America practicing this on Young Girls. Let's try not to generalize here. It is not at all common. Since Jews do not believe in Christ as the Messiah, they still perform the male circumcision. I believe that for Girls this is Barbaric and in no way would I ever consider this for My Girls. I notice that there is a lot of generalizing and fooling around with gray areas. Some of these statements show glaringly of Your lack of Education in Biblical matters. It is also not necessary for You to attack individuals for theirs either. The constant barrage of attacks on Religion here is really quite evident and unacceptable. No one is attacking You for Your specific beliefs, and Your attempts of appearing "Intelligent" and forward thinking show glaringly just the opposite. In fact, practically every entry or response You make, has some form of attack on Men or Religion attached to it. This appears to be some form of obsession on Your part, and seeing this I can no longer accept Your Opinions stated here as being unbiased. I'm sure if I railed against Hetrophobia and constantly attacked Female Mysogeny etc. etc. I would receive untold attacks from (and you know who You are) everyone who disagrees. Will You boycott My Birthday? Will You attack My Spelling or perhaps My Grammer? I do not trust Organized Religion for it's all or nothing attitude any more than Yours. I do not agree nor propose any acceptance of radical Islam or even its rituals. But I do not attack them for it. They have a Right to their practices in their own Country. Be thankful it is not required here. Even the Articles You submit are geared tword preaching and disseminating Your Personal Agenda rather than presenting the News as it is. The Bullying and name calling is repulsive and Personally I won't even read Your articles or respond because of this. I get all the News on the Internet that I need thank You. I do not condone Male Bashing any more than Female Bashing. I'm thinking that it is a Maturity Issue here. But maybe not. Either way I could "give a shit" at Your Response really.

    • 3 years ago
  • aswift1
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      aswift1  
    • I've read all kinds of stories about FGM on this site and I understand the cultural relativity and all that, but the truth is... it's all about controlling. That is wrong, I don't care if you're islamic or the freaking Pope. Think about it for a second before you spew forth what you learned in today's cultural anthro class... you call anyone who objects to FGM judgemental, yet you just judged them for having an opinion.

      Think about it.

    • 3 years ago
  • quixotic12
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      quixotic12  
    • This strikes me as yet another example of a traditional or tribal practice incorporated into and justified by a mainstream religion.

      These girls are never asked whether they would like to continue on being Muslim at all, or whether or not they would like to be circumcised. They are forced into it. Then they do not even receive the benefit of anesthetics during the procedure, or any kinds of disinfectants. Many girls end up with infections that leave them infertile. This practice is completely unethical and constitutes torture.

    • 3 years ago
  • mhembree09
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      mhembree09  
    • i would love to take respect cultural relativism on this one, but these women are being robbed of any expression of their sexuality, which is an extension of individuality.

      i feel bad for them, and i hope those that refuse can escape this fate.

    • 3 years ago
  • jubal
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      jubal  
    • Sorry folks, but I strongly protest circumcision in all forms. This is done mostly by either fearful or lazy parents who don't want to get their hands dirty cleaning their children's genitals properly.

      Cutting off a girls clitoris and stitching up the girls vaginal opening are not hygienic practices, they are barbaric. I don't buy the cultural sensitivity thing when it comes to this.

    • 3 years ago
  • Nozlo
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      Nozlo  
    • What has not been mentioned so far is the trauma of giving birth for a woman who has been circumcised. When the labia have been removed and the two sides then sewn together leaving a tiny hole it is painful enough to have sex but when during childbirth it can only be imagined what has to take place.

      Let's go back to the beginning here. The reason for this practice is so that the girl can be married. This means that a man will not marry the girl if she is not circumcised. Will a potential wife refuse to marry a man if he is not circumcised - no, because in these cultures she is not consulted in the matter. Therefore this is another male biaised ritual which only appears in those cultures and societies where men are dominant and women have no rights at all.

      It is not our place to judge other cultures but we can express outrage at what we see as a barbaric and to some a morally abhorrent prractice. Neither do we in the west have any right whatsoever to say what should and should not happen in other societies. But we can attempt to respectfully educate those who are doing something under the impression that it is wholesome when it is the opposite. That is how the transmission of AIDS has been reduced in some African countries by government education programmes to get over the male desire for unprotected sex.

      Progress will be very slow but this despicable tradition will one day be history.

    • 3 years ago
  • 02
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      02  
    • The whole reason the west is having a problem with Islam at all - is that their men are deathly afraid that the women will decide they can go do whatever they wish - like they see in the west.
      Then they'd have to figure out something else to do for a living - cause their females would just take off for higher ground.
      They'd have to grow up, get smart, - make money and learn how to please a woman.
      That is the real problem.

    • 3 years ago
  • planetstupid
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      planetstupid  
    • she's SEVEN, she has an ear-to-ear smile, looking for the party her mother had promised only to have her little clit hacked off and her whole world scarred for life.

      GREAT JOB ALLAH! you freakin RULE! no, really.

      how DARE anyone try to defend the rights of an innocent 7 year old? the nerve.

    • 3 years ago
  • Vierotchka
  • Vierotchka
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      Vierotchka  
    • Female circumcision does not make sex painful for women (see my post six posts above) except in the case of infibulation in which a woman is cut open by her husband, and the majority of males are circumcised when they are seven years old or adults. There are five types or degrees of female circumcision, ranging from a nick in the hood to removing the labia and stitching up the flesh. As I explained above, the clitoris cannot be cut off, only the glans of the clitoris can be cut off, leaving over 90% of the clitoris intact. I am profoundly against genital mutilation - both male and female - but I also find that there is great ignorance of the facts, hence my explanations.

    • 3 years ago
  • cant_think_of_a_name
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      cant_think_of_a_name  
    • This has been an ongoing issue all over the world. The major differences between male and female circumcision is the age and how it's preformed. In so many cases young girls are cut with blunt objects that are not sterile in the midst of their youth, causing so much trauma. In contrast males are circumcised mostly when they're first born unable to remember with proper medical equipment and medicine.
      Many female circumcisions happens in countries where women are not seen as equal and are controlled by male society. They have this done to make sex painful so that they remain faithful to their husbands. (Which many times are arranged marriages that they have no say in) It's not just the clitoris that is cut off but also the labia can be stitched up to make the opening of the vagina the size of a pencil. Not all countries practice the same ritual or for the same reasons but either way it's immoral and a violation of their bodies.

    • 3 years ago
  • Vierotchka
  • Vierotchka
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      Vierotchka  
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    • There is no way that the whole of the clitoris can be removed, since over 90% of it lies inside the body. Only the glans can be removed - and I strongly disapprove of any part of it being removed.

    • 3 years ago
  • mojojuju
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      mojojuju  
    • Vierotchka:

      Yeah I'd hope that people would just leave the "parts" alone.

      Many of these "rituals" of mutilation are said to please God, but I'd just assume that God would want the bits and pieces left where they are.

      Funny that God always wants to do something about the genitals. God's not asking too many people to cut off their noses.

    • 3 years ago
  • Vierotchka
  • SDLN
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      SDLN  
    • I've been a long time opponent of male circumcision (of which I am a victim :( ), but female circumcision seems so much more brutal. It seems like it'd be the equivalent of cutting the head off of the penis! Of course, I'm not basing this view on any medical research, just my own sexual experience. I couldn't imagine getting down with a chick minus the clitoris. I wouldn't know what to do!

    • 3 years ago
  • Vierotchka
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      Vierotchka  
    • SDLN:

      Male circumcision is also genital mutilation. There are more nerve endings in the foreskin than in the glans and the rest of the penis. A circumcised male has lost 60% of sexual pleasure.

    • 3 years ago
  • Vierotchka
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      Vierotchka  
    • "Lightfoot-Klein (1989) studied circumcised and infibulated females in Sudan, stating, "Contrary to expectations, nearly 90% of all women interviewed said that they experienced orgasm (climax) or had at various periods of their marriage experienced it. Frequency ranged from always to rarely." Lightfoot-Klein stated that the quality of orgasm varied from intense and prolonged, to weak or difficult to achieve.

      A study in 2007 found that in some infibulated women, some erectile tissue fundamental to producing pleasure had not been completely excised.[72] Defibulation of subjects revealed that a part of or the whole of the clitoris was underneath the scar of infibulation. The study found that sexual pleasure and orgasm are still possible after infibulation, and that they rely heavily on cultural influences — when mutilation is lived as a positive experience, orgasm is more likely. When FGC is experienced as traumatic, its frequency drops. The study suggested that FGC women who did not suffer from long-term health consequences and are in a good and fulfilling relationship may enjoy sex, and women who suffered from sexual dysfunction as a result of FGC have a right to sex therapy."

    • 3 years ago
  • Vierotchka
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      Vierotchka  
    • Nowhere in the Koran or the Hadith is female circumcision even mentioned, let alone prescribed. In many Muslim countries, the people are kept in ignorance of this and other truths through illiteracy. Female circumcision and excision is also practiced by Christians and by Animists in African and other countries.

    • 3 years ago
  • Yaemea
  • quixotic12
  • unimatrix0
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      unimatrix0  
    • @Nettle

      You offer an intelligent reply. Your argument depends on a radical cultural relativism - i.e. all cultures are equally good. And a culture where female circumcision, genital mutilation, is rampant; is a perfect test case.

      First, I wonder if there is any cultural practice you would object to? Child brides? Honor killings? Slavery?

      While I realize the potential for the proverbial slippery slope, I am willing to assert that female circumcision, like slavery or honor killings, is always wrong, period. I believe there are a few moral absolutes, absolutes which transcend culture.

    • 3 years ago
  • Nettle
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      Nettle  
    • unimatrix0:

      No, cultural relativity is a concept that cultural norms and values derive their meaning within a specific social context. I simply believe that people don't take the time to look at someone else's way of living without taking off their culture-goggles.

      In ancient times (as well as not-so-ancient), sacrifices were often made to the gods in hopes of appeasing their temperaments. "Oh how, horrible," you might say, " They don't even know that they're gods aren't real! How silly of them."

      And then there's always the person who feels sorry for the sacrificee, imagining him/her to be kicking and screaming, "But I want to live!" all the way there. In reality, they saw it as a necessary part of life and were usually more than willing to be the honorable lamb of their group.

      You're right, there are some practices that I disagree with (such as genocide), but for the most part, I'm willing to look past my own beliefs and view a culture as separate from my own.

      P.S. Why don't you think male circumcision is just as bad? Is it because it's a common practice here and you're used to it, or is it because of a religion?

    • 3 years ago
  • unimatrix0
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      unimatrix0  
    • unimatrix0:

      I am glad to hear you would oppose genocide.

      "Cultural relativism is the view that all beliefs are equally valid and that truth itself is relative, depending on the situation, environment, and individual. Those who hold to cultural relativism hold that all religious, ethical, aesthetic, and political beliefs are completely relative to the individual within a cultural identity" - this notion of cultural relativism is philosophical as opposed to the notion you outline which is sociological.

      Most important, I do not believe you know what female circumcision actually entails. There is no analogy between male and female circumcision. Male circumcision is like a hair cut where as female circumcision is like an amputation. Indeed, it entails removing most if not all of the clitoris.

    • 3 years ago
  • Nettle
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      Nettle  
    • unimatrix0:

      Aha, I agree that cultural relativism can be seen that way, nice post.

      As for the circumcision, there are a few different types.

      Female; 1) a slight cut of the tip of the clitoris a size no bigger than a grain of rice, common in most middle eastern countries 2) The entire removal of the clitoris 3) the removal of the clitoris as well as the outer and inner lips and the two parts are then sewn back together until the girl is married, most common in Islamic African tribes (that makes me cringe)

      Male: 1) The removal of the tip of the foreskin 2) the removal of the entire foreskin 3) a slice through the foreskin extending down the entire length of the shaft
      * I got all of my information on this from my cultural anthropology class; I couldn't give you a solid source

      I can't tell if you're a guy or a girl, but I've been with a guy with a circumcision and a guy without and I should say that it was very significantly different (visually, I mean). I'd say it was more of a complete shave than a trim in terms of haircuts. I don't have a wang, so I can't pretend to have any idea what a circumcision really means to a man, but I don't think female circumcision is at all different from male circumcision.

    • 3 years ago
  • Vierotchka
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      Vierotchka  
    • unimatrix0:

      Male circumcision is also genital mutilation. There are more nerve endings in the foreskin than in the glans and the rest of the penis. A circumcised male has lost 60% of sexual pleasure.

    • 3 years ago
  • Ricky84
  • Vierotchka
  • Ricky84
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      Ricky84  
    • unimatrix0:

      There is plenty of medical evidence to prove and disprove that claim. So as it stands there is no definitive answer to the male circumcision issue. I do know that I live in a culture where circumcision is a cultural norm, and that circumcision can possibly hinder the contraction of HIV.

      So based upon the evidence and my own situation I’m not complaining.

    • 3 years ago
  • wiseguy84
  • WhiteNoise
  • Nettle
  • Dr_Dank_Thumb
  • Nettle
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      Nettle  
    • Ethnocentricity: 1. Sociology. the belief in the inherent superiority of one's own ethnic group or culture. 2. a tendency to view alien groups or cultures from the perspective of one's own.

      Congratulations you two! You've just judged an entire culture based on your own views. Nice.

      Female circumcision is a part of their culture in the same way male circumcision is a part of ours. The only reason people view it in such a negative, tragic light is because we don't make females cut off their busy parts here. You can argue with me about how female circumcisions are useless and part of a "brainwashing" religion, but that doesn't matter. What matters is what THEY think. If that girl doesn't get the operation, she's unmarriageable and brings shame on her family. And just for the record, males have the same standard.

      It is unethical for us to step into someone else's lives and say, "Hey you guys are stupid. The things you do and the reasons why you do them are stupid, so we're going to make you stop. Why? Because we're better than you are." It's wrong.

      The only way it would ever be appropriate for female circumcision to be stopped is if the women of said culture don't want it anymore; not us. If there's a movement of women who seek the end of the practice or at least cleaner instruments and the use of anesthetics, then power to them, but it is not our place to judge them.

    • 3 years ago
  • mojojuju
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      mojojuju  
    • Nettle:

      "The only way it would ever be appropriate for female circumcision to be stopped is if the women of said culture don't want it anymore"

      The article seems to indicate that the little girls don't like it very much. Does that count?

    • 3 years ago
  • Nettle
  • mojojuju
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      mojojuju  
    • Nettle:

      Hey yeah, no big deal. It's horrifyingly painful and all, but it's a rite of passage.

      I guess I'm just jealous as my boring American life doesn't have any of these horrifyingly painful rite of passages.

      That's why I'm going to start a horrifying rite of passage in my family in the name of Allah and the elders. It shall begin with my children.

      I will call it...

      THE BOILING OF THE HANDS

      The boiling of the hands occurs when a male child reaches the age of 10.

      Everybody knows that little boys get into all kinds of trouble before age 10 and which God/Allah does not approve.

      The only way to cleanse these hands is to boil them for 30 seconds.

      So, when a boy reaches 10 years of age, a pot of water is prepared on a Whirlpool brand electric stove. The boiling water is seasoned with candy and maybe some of the child's toys.

      And then, at the right moment, the child's hands are submerged into the boiling pot of water. Although he screams due to the excruciating pain, his father looks on with joy and pride as the cleansing of the young man's sins in the boiling water is favorable to Allah/God.

      And we shall do this to our children. This way, when another sees the burns on a man's hands, it will be known that the man's hands were cleaned of sin in a way that the higher power approves.

      And if you find the Boiling of The Hands ritual offensive or cruel, it is because you are ethnocentric.

    • 3 years ago
  • willyb
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      willyb  
    • Nettle:

      Why can't we judge them? I hear "don't judge me" all the time. Why not? They are mutilating little girls who obviously don't want it and for no real reason. By your argument child pornography would be fine as long as it was ingrained in a society. Sounds stupid to me. The "don't judge me" argument only works when it is something you do that doesn't affect anyone else. This doesn't qualify.

    • 3 years ago
  • aswift1
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      aswift1  
    • Nettle:

      what I want to know is why they make the little girls wait so long? boys are circumcized days after birth, and this girl was seven... i don't think it would be perceived to be quite as cruel if it were done the same way... just something to think about.

      as for the judgement factor... you seem to be the one in the know... tell me... it is okay for them to judge us and call us infidels, but we can't comment on something horrific like female circumcision without being called judgemental...? Seriously? come down off your high horse... go get circumcized.

    • 3 years ago
  • uponrooftops
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      uponrooftops  
    • Nettle:

      This practice is WRONG. male circumcision doesn't alter their genitals incapable of reaching orgasm. Female circumcision removes the clitoris, the organ responsible for female orgasm.
      What you don't understand is that this is demeaning women within their society by making them less than human. It tells them that their true purpose is as an object only: to carry out womanly tasks and not experience pleasure.
      NO, this is not ethnocentrism. This is unjust.

    • 3 years ago
  • wiseguy84
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      wiseguy84  
    • Nettle:

      I would have to say that this is very inhumane. I am not a woman, but I was circumcised as a newborn. However, I do not remember even being circumcised - but I do have various vague memories of my childhood after about 5 years of age. That said, I am certain that girls who are being subjected to this procedure at 7 years old are surely going to have issues forgetting memories of this deplorable event.

    • 3 years ago
  • pjacobs51
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      pjacobs51  
    • "This is the practice of the Kurdish people for as long as anyone can remember," said the mother, "We don't know why we do it, but we will never stop because Islam and our elders require it."

      Another example of religious brainwashing.

    • 3 years ago
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