How to handle a breakup without looking desperate
source: http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/breakup/content.php?ART=handlingbreakup
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1. Don't initiate contact for at least two weeks
2. If you feel you must say something to them; go buy a journal and write [it] down
3. Wish them well with whatever future may be in store for them.
Sounds pretty good so far! Read on...
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tanay2035
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Lets chew upon the following factors in dealing with a breakup:
Think whether you were right for each other. It may have looked right, but you must have neglected some of the main points, which became the deciding factor for your relationship. Instead of being critical, be rational. A break up means there was something wrong with the relationship. Therefore, scrutinize your relationship like an outsider and know why things turned that way. This will make acceptance easier.
Don’t feel shameful if you are the dumped one. Give yourself the pleasure of small holidays and pamper yourself as much as you can. Go out with friends and explore happiness. However, for the first few weeks, avoid going on a date. Let this break-up be a learning curve for you. Let yourself heal first and then start flirting endlessly.
Realize that it is over. The relationship is now finished and there is no use of talking about it. You need to move on. There is no use clutching old memories, when they won’t do anything good. Don’t hate your ex, keep the positive memories with you, and chuck all the negative emotions in the sea.
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tanay2035
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critter
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I'd like to skip a few of these steps...
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critter
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localsly
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critter:
This is one nice video for me, i feel normal again. and single : (
- 3 years ago
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localsly
