Is porn changing the way we kiss?

THAT'S WHY?!

I can see where this point of view is coming from... People have different sexual styles... Soft and sensual... sexy and passionate... rough and violent... While I prefer and enjoy a good amount of close mouth kissing and try to kiss as much as possible in the sack, there are a lot of people who base their behavior in the bed room off of what they see in porn... and i know that my sexual encounters do not involve pulling my partners face back to me with a finger in her mouth fish hook style and i know that I don't kiss like most of the porn i see... long story short... I can agree that there is a certain style of kissing that occurs in porn (pornkissing), but i don't think everyone would feel comfortable kissing in that style.

what kind of kissing is reptillian? I've never seen a lizard kiss ;-p if young guys are really imitation porn these days does that mean they're lasting longer?

another pose on current was The Porn Myth which was wicked awsome

and these types of posts, or rather facts/statistics/accusations make me upset. I really take pride in making kissing an experience people will remember. The mouth is not only full of nerve endings blah blah, but its face to face contact that is so special whether its a one night fuck or a long term relationship it should be something you love and can't get enough of. I guess if "porn kissing" is your thing, but I can't imagine it is. For anyone. Porn never gets me off. Or on. Or sideways.

It looks kinda like a snakes tongue darting in and out

looks like the midwest to me. And Chicago has a head!!!

Don't say we.

I read stuff like this and the movie I thought was a joke seems to be more of a reality....Idiocracy.

a lot of things have changed in society because of how open people have become...some things are best kept behind closed doors...
Yes men are becoming retarded because of porn i have to admit.

What the hell is the charm on that necklace!?! It looks like the Evil Ash from Evil Dead Army of Darkness! Any Bruce Campbell fans out there that would agree?

It makes a lot of sense, humans learn a lot of the things they do by their own mirror neurons from watching others perform the task.

I think it's all in how you look at it. Some people like the sexier "porn-kissing" as it's more erotic and gives more of a twist to the mood rather than the "traditional" french kissing. If you're not a fan of "porn-kissing", you're likely to be one of the women that just lie on their backs during sexual relations. How boring.

(I'm not against the traditional kissing, at all, it just doesn't happen during sex - That's when the "porn-kissing" comes into play.)

Nahh, a man will do what it takes to get a woman to cum. Period.

Is porn kissing the way to do it? Who knows, but if you want to be more desirable, learn how to kiss.

You can't learn how to fight from watching movies.

essentially "pornkissing" consists of only using tongue and much too much head no rotaion
no illusion of passion
very much just a formality or joke in a sense, but exists

Passionate kissing is just that. When you're overcome with desire, kissing turns to licking turns to biting....who knows? There is no more a right way to kiss than there is a right way to have sex. You just do what feels good, and hope you don't scare your partner away (or bore them into leaving, whichever is the case).

BTW, mhembree09: watch some porn, it's good for you!

all ive ever learned has been from crazy ass girls, im too scared to try any of those porno moves, unless she takes the initiative. girls spit and bite in my mouth and on my face and body. guess its too many gnarly hippies and punks, ha

Every one has a different style of kissing. Some people observe and learn way thay might enjoy "kissing". Some copy film, others make up their own, ans well maybe some people learn from porn. At least their learning...

Definitely changed what we kiss.LOL

I haven't kissed anyone in 2 years =[....... but I never enjoyed "porn kissing"

a little tongue was good enough.

Interesting article, but it's really just one person's opinion, she isn't really basing it on anything concrete and there are some holes.

The men who were studied didn't say if they watched porn or not, what kind, or how often- so we can't make any assumptions on whether or not porn affects their intimacy- there's no link.

Also, it was men's taste that created porn, not porn that created men's taste... obviously one had to come first. So her argument is a little circular.

Eh, I actually love to kiss and I'm a guy.

I voted this down.

This is a non story.

c'est la vie

Not the way I kiss.. it's always been exciting and ... uh... way too.. but .. well... Just naturally kiss that way. It's just pure passion, and really I get too lost in the action to even try to describe it...
But my guy always wants more and more.. even when I am happy with the affection level.
So for the article.. ::shrug:: I would suppose if you totally give yourself to the experience to the point you can't remember it enough to describe it to someone, and you haven't been drinking, maybe you have what's right for you? Idk.
I suck to blog for kissing.

That is... unless I'm trying to repel someone!!

Oh I haven't watched porn but from the way you guys describe the kissing, sounds counter productive.

I don't like it when girls maul you and shove their tongues in your mouth. I need to stop dating porn addicted girls I guess.

I like it all!!

if we had sex education classes in school then porn wouldn't be the primary form of sex ed for young men

I ask my fiance to kiss me more... sometimes I want that feeling back from when we first started dating... the butterflies, the rush of heat to my cheeks. do you think kissing is another evolutionary sexual behavior designed to keep a pair together?

If I had to choose between kissing and sex?
Kissing.
No competition there.

I like all types of kissing. True, it's not always nice to have a tongue shoved down your throat, but hey, sometimes it is. Talk to your partner, see what they like, see what you like, simple as that.

i am definitely not into the "porn kissing," but i also haven't seen any porn, so i wouldn't know what it is.

it is my experience that men like kissing less, though.
i think maybe they seem to like kissing because they know it usually leads to more, but then again, some guys probably actually do like it.

Porn kissing means kissing with the tongue but without the lips, according to the article. Kind of like a sword fight with the tongues...

I don't know about anyone here, but my kisses always involve the lips. Occasionaly, the more passionate kisses then involve a little bit of biting or nibling =)

And I have never ever "porn kissed" anyone or had anyone do the same to me during sex. My kisses have always involved lip action. It sounds like this article is making a big deal about something that isn't actually happening

What funny is that the article talks about how men don't like kissing...well that's news to me since I think my boyfriend likes kissing more than I do! Kissing is independent from sex in my opinion....I think sex can be just as passionate with kissing as without it because passion can involve much more than lip locking. Clutching someones arms, grabbing their neck and pulling them close, breathing into their ear....these are all very passionate actions.

Anyways, my favorite kiss is when you nibble on the upper or lower lip of your partner....veddy sexy ;)

This is true but I disagree with just one point. 70's porn was totally different than today. For instance, Alice in Wonderland, featuring Kristine DeBell as Alice. circa 1976.

gross, i hate "porn kissing"
There's something so gross about licking each other's tongues! It doesn't even feel good, why would anyone wanna do that?!

What the hell is that picture of?

And yeah...believe me, I know that porn kisses are far different. You can just tell...

Kissing hasn't changed but at least the seventies bush has! Muah!

Kissing for tv and film is different too.