LoveLife | June 03, 2009 | 6 comments

3 Men And A Little Problem – send us your woes!!

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Hello Women.

We are about to have a regular slot on Current TV's up-and-coming Friday night show for the ladies in which we solve women's problems (not in the old fashioned sense, unfortunately). Here's why...

Ladies, your girlfriends are brilliant for fashion tips, pinot grigio binges and generally having a laugh but when it comes to dishing out advice, your best mates are often your worst enemies - they tell you what you want to hear, hold back on the criticism and only give you a girl’s eye view on relationship matters.

To right this wrong, we - Tom (the posh boy), Klaud (the queen) and Wade (the geezer) - are soliciting letters from female users on current.com and dedicating some serious man time to sorting out your girly problems. With a pint in hand, each week we'll tackle real and modern problems such as “I’ve slept with 40 men, should I tell my curious new boyfriend the truth?’ or, ‘our insecure friend is marrying a total arsehole, should we speak up?’ and, ‘is it right to be bothered by my new boyfriend’s bisexuality?’.

With our three very different and opinionated perspectives, each week we slug it out to give you girls our very honest, sometimes brutal but always practical advice...

We assume you want to be anonymous so just send us your problem(s) to our email address. No problem is too big or small and can be about ANYTHING at all. We just want to hear from you!

All The best,

Tom, Klaud and Wade xxx
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6 comments // 3 Men And A Little Problem – send us your woes!!

  • 3MenAndALittleProblem
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      3MenAndALittleProblem  

    • This sounds like it's going to be difficult but we'll do our best!!!

      Hi

      My close group of girl mates and I are in dilemma. One of our best mates has just agreed to marry this real controlling arse-hole of a man who we all secretly hate with a passion, and she keeps seeking approval from us that she’s doing the right thing.

      As much as we love her, she is fairly average-looking and has had less than her fair share of men to date. Unfortunately this egotistical guy she’s been seeing for the last year has managed to squash her self-confidence to next to nothing and has turned her into an obedient puppy, who is a shell of her former self. Have you ever been in a similar situation with any of your mates and did you slap on fake smiles and let them walk into what is sure to be a damaging marriage or did you tell them the truth, that you are not so sure abut their choice of life partner?

    • 2 years ago
  • aljones
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      aljones  
    • 3MenAndALittleProblem:

      This is hard one and you are always going to be at risk of 'shoot the messenger' syndrome BUT i was in a relationship like this and whilst my friends didn't tell me to get out of it they did make it known that he was not who they would have chosen for me and made me see what he was doing to my personality. And then when i dumped the arrogant arsehole they were there to pick up the pieces.

      I say have a quiet word and try and ascertain if it is what she really wants... if he is as bad as my ex was she WILL thank you!

    • 2 years ago
  • 3MenAndALittleProblem
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      3MenAndALittleProblem  

    • Ok, we've had our first problems!

      Dear 3 men and a Little Problem,

      I’m a 27-year-old woman, and I’ve been dating my bloke for the last 3 months. He’s openly bi-sexual and has had long-term relationships with both men and women in the past. I’m really keen on him, he’s very exciting and we have a great time in bed together and I like too think that I’m open-minded.

      We haven’t discussed how serious we are about each other, cos the time’s never seemed right. Recently I’ve found myself getting really jealous when we go out, threatened by the thought that I have twice as much competition as he does, with temptation coming in all directions for him. I’m used to being in control and calling the shots in previous relationships and I don’t like this jealous side of me.

      Is he likely to be less faithful because he’s bi-sexual?

    • 2 years ago
  • Lina1980
  • Slick
  • 3MenAndALittleProblem
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      3MenAndALittleProblem  

    • Hello Ladies!

      We've filmed our first advice session which you can see a little teaser of here. To see the full video you'll have to wait a few weeks but hopefully this will give you a nice introduction to who we are.

      Here's the young woman's question in full -

      "Dear 3 Men and a Little Problem,
      I’m 28 and after two years of being single, I’ve started seeing someone who I really like and appears to like me, too. The problem is that after quite a few relationships since the age of fifteen and several years of having fun I’ve realised that the number of men I’ve slept with has crept up to around forty. My new boyfriend has asked a few times what ‘my number’ is but I’m reluctant to tell him as I’m worried that he’ll be put off as he can be a bit old-fashioned about things sometimes. That’s great when he’s paying for all our dinners but in this case I’m worried my usual maxim of ‘honesty is the best relationship policy” might not be suitable.
      My female friends say that 40-odd isn’t that bad as it roughly works out about three men a year since I started being sexually active but I suspect maths might not solve the problem here. What should I do? Should I tell him?

      - Anon"

      Feel free to message us, email us directly at 3men@current.com or post your question here.

      Don’t forget –your problems can be about anything at all, doesn’t just have to be relationships!

      XxX

    • 2 years ago
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