Eek! A Male!

Do not stop showing kindness. We all need it even if they do not realize it.

agreed :)

yaaay uber positive.

My interpretation is that the running man feeling all eyes on him and following him.

yep. +^d

p.s. Lets get those "little people" back in the FACTORIES, where they belong !

LOL You are what you eat. Organic children taste better!

I know how you feel, ever since my niece was born I have had baby fever, they are just cute and funny. But every time I smile at a kid in the store I get the death glares sent back at me from all directions. Its sad the world of fear we live in, cant even pick up the toy a kid threw down the aisle anymore. Someone will think you have intentions.

Do you sometimes encounter kids that are not so cute? Like, OMG keep that thing away from me.

i was reading a story about a man in england who was driving his truck down the highway and spotted a female toddler unattended along side the road. his fear of being labled a preditor prevented him from stopping to help. she was later found drowned in a nearby pond. tragic!

I would have stopped anyways, scooped her up and just called 911.

as would have i. better to potentially save a life and be accused of assault than to leave a child to fend for herself

The life of a child will always be more important to me than my own.

That is awful. That truck driver must have been crushed when he found out. I would have stopped.

agreed

i'm not even involved and it crushed me

No wonder our children are depressed and have tenancies to commit suicides even as young as 7. In fear of boogieman our children are discouraged to build healthy attachments and relationships.

What made it worse was I had to tell them I couldn't play around anymore and when I told them they looked so upset..

What a world.

Its the rubber gloves, man. I'm telling you. Every time I approach a women I dont know that well with the ol' rubber gloves on,....they get all "weird" on me !

p.s. +^d

i always thought women were turned on by rubber gloves. must be the crowd i hang with

Although I can not personally relate but I understand and share your frustrations. I am a woman and a mother and I am disappointed about the way boys and men are treated. I also noticed that men very seldom openly speak about unequal treatment. I believe women are better at expressing our opinions. Women must speak up for the sake of millions good boys and men!

although my own self esteem is plenty enough, thank you mother. reach out and speak up for those without balls or a voice, we are innocent until proven otherwise.

I am trying and need more voices to chime in.

Well said. We need to protect our children from real treat - debilitating fear of life and love!

Exactly.

Im a man and i take serious offense to this. Im hardwired to rape and assault women? Bullshit. I have not and will not physically abuse a woman EVER. I know far too many women who have been abused and i know the terrible effects it can have on a person's mental health.

Stop spreading misandry!

"Man are programmed to be predators and have a natural tendency to rape and sexually assault children and women. It has to do with their chemical make up."

Are you out of your mind?

Debra, is your real name Catherine MacKinnon who believes that "All sex, even consensual sex between a married couple, is an act of violence perpetrated against a woman"?

Yes Catherine MacKinnon, is a great equal rights crusader. Sex involves force in the form of penetration of woman, so at a basic level all sex is rape.

Oh, you are really out of your mind. Please take your meds.

Yes its called testosterone. And its drive needs to be dampened. Chemically if necessary. There are many scientists from the 1930's who wrote papers stating that this must be done in order to maintain and achieve a more peaceful society.

Rape is forced penetration on an unwilling individual. The keywords here being forced and unwilling. Penetration =/= rape.

+^'d times infinity. I feel, as a man, that I am being baited into writing some really strong derogatory statement. Thank you for your level head.

Again im calling bullshit. People with heightened testosterone levels are not necessarily more violent. Many scientists in the 1930's also supported eugenics programs. Go figure.

Any time, treewolf39!

Do you know that your notion of forced "castration" is itself assault and an act of violence? The notion you are promoting is a total contradiction.

There are so many things wrong with what you've said. I honestly cannot believe you are that crazy.

I mean, first off, I DO NOT HAVE THE FUCKING URGE TO RUN AROUND AND RAPE CHILDREN AND WOMEN!! That's disgusting on so many levels, and I do not let my genes dictate my life! That's about as sexist as if I was saying all women are only good for being in the kitchen and having babies.

And introducing chemicals into foods to make us 'docile'? Are you insane?! I don't want to be force-fed foods that are going to change the person I am today, never mind make me submissive to any government! And guess who else has to eat that food? Oh right, women and children. Isn't that going to make THEM more docile, as well? Does that not sound wrong to you?!

You're ridiculous.

20% of spousal abuse in every home is attributed to a female assaulting a male. In almost all cases the male requests it not be filed or reported. Abuse is ugly both male and female.

Looks like we have a simple man hater here....somewhere along the way ole Debra got to hating men and decided to spew her hatred toward them...maybe she needs a hug.

That's why I say I'm a Lesbian trapped in a man's body.

Eugenics, nice, historically you're in great company. Many fascist regimes had people preaching what you are preaching. Many of the 13 original Masonic families believe in that type of teaching.

here you go again... you're such a winner

i must have something wrong with me then... if all penetration is rape, i sure do love me some rape!

oh so you are the product of rape then... that explains a lot

I warned of this uber-feminism in previous articles. People with this train of thought would promote cloning and artificial means of reproduction and have all men neutered. Most are the victims of child sexual abuse by males. This is not the fault of the millions of innocent men. However, the victim identifies men as predators from the moment they understand sex and relationships.

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the unlawful compelling of a woman through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse.
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any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person.

she really is that crazy

how dare you offer her a hug... you just want to rape her... lol

Actually rape is violating someone's consent. You don't have to penetrate someone to assault them, regardless of what the law says (for which 15 out of 16 rapists go free). Consent is expressed and verbalized agreement and is often mistaken for lack of response, being passed out, etc. There are many ways to violate consent and assault people. That's why we always need to ask for consent and not assume it is there.

Debra, as much as I also dig on scum manifesto, and do my share of hating on dudes when prudent (which is often), I don't think we should let them off so easy as to assume they are helplessly programmed predators in a culture of patriarchy. Let's keep them responsible for their actions and acknowledge that, even if they were programmed, they need be made accountable- rather than weeded out in some eugenecist thing.

To everyone else, 99% of rapists are men. That's a fact. So, there is something to the male aspect of rape. It's important that we all make sure we have clear definitions of consent and that we are constantly checking in to make sure we have proper consent with our partners. We need to be respectful regardless of our sex or gender- even if men do most of the raping.

Debra You are extremely offensive not only to men but to women as well.

The paranoid feminist propaganda you are using defame innocent men and boys is completely insane and some of the most warped unhealthy views on reality that I have seen on this site in a long time.

There is a line between views that are opposite my own and complete and offensive trash. You have far past the line and ventured very far into the realm of offensive garbage.

I am not sure why you are so angry towards men, but you need to learn to let it go or leave your views to yourself and you paranoid feminist wacko friends.

I'm 6'4" 220lb, & I had to get a restraining order against my ex. She's like 5'2", 100lb, crazy, crazy bitch.

As I said to you before, you obviously have not followed the trend of crime and judicial injustice in US. Most often women predictors are not charged with rape but instead with variety of lesser charges, thus the statistics can be highly questionable. Please pay attention to posts on this subject on http://current.com/groups/fight-against-sex-crimes/ (I am not the owner of this group and hope the owner does not mind my referral) or this one http://current.com/groups/law-and-justice/

Stop spreading misandry. Pro-women does not mean anti-man!

Excellent and elegant comment! I am also a female and I also find Debra's comments extremely offensive. For the sake of my children I will continue addressing boys and men bashing.

I am often a court watcher and unfortunately I see many men who are abused by their wifes or girlfriends. I have seen 6" beat up man with facial and body bruises seeking protection from 4" tall wife and all this while he reported to court because SHE claimed to be a victim. Sadly your story is very common.

Yup, its sad, & scary, that when a man is the victim we can't even defend ourselves without getting in trouble. Hell even when I was in court telling the judge why I needed the restraining order I had a baliff look at me, then her & laugh at me. If I had defended myself at all at home I'm sure I would've also had to defend myself in court.

Parents teach their sons that hitting girls is wrong but sadly do not teach their daughters that hitting boys is wrong. Violence knows no gender and it is wrong! Law must protect men and women equally!

So 95% then? Statistics are always a little skewed. But they don't make a big statement like most sexual predators are men when it's actually men, women, and other genders in equal parts.

It's a well known fact that most rapists are men. By fighting that in showing the minority that are committed by other genders to try to act as if that makes it any less mens' problem to deal with is real shitty.

Men need to be talking to each other about rape and rape culture and calling each other out on it.

I've never said all men are rapists for the record. Why do men get soooooo defensive when their sex is in questions. Dudes, the whole world caters to you. Just because patriarchy or rapists are bashed, it doesn't mean it's you- unless you're a rapist.

Think about why you're so defensive.

Men may be predators but that does not lead to a "natural tendency to rape and sexually assault children and women." Stereotypes and one size fits all theories are useless.

Not all sex involves penetration of women. If two women have sex, which one is the victim? If sex is consensual, there is no rape, therefore all sex is not rape on a basic level.

And some of those same scientists believed in eugenics and forced sterilization.

what? thats just ridiculous, I have never in my life ever even thought of rapping a woman or a child or a man, I am gay after all, the point is im not programmed to rape. I do have violent tendencies of that I am fully aware, but it only comes out when I see someone mistreat women and children. the very idea that I am preprogrammed sexual predator is just so ridiculous I don't know what to say. i dont know who told you that or what makes you believe that but you really should invest in a good therapist.

As a man, I am expected to be several things: a provider, a bread winner, a father, a disciplinary figure, security, and fidelity.
We live in a society where it is expected of men to hold these traditional roles, yet women, still in pursuit of "equality" hold men to lower standards, thus oppressing them.

Women now want to be the bread winners but they want their man to pick up the check, they don't want men to open doors or show chivalry but they want him to be romantic, they want a man to be aggressive in the bed room but everywhere else she wants to be in charge.

Sexual predators come from women also. If you'd like I can point to numerous articles of child care workers, teachers, neighbors, etc who've been caught with minors.
By your logic, maybe estrogen should be reduced from their systems.

What is worse, is we live in a society where sex offenders get more news coverage than war heroes. I bet if this was changed, people would begin to think differently of men.

If scientists said men are more aggressive because they're not getting enough sex, do you think women would be more inclined to help? Definitely not, even if it was science fact, since it does not suit the female ego, they would not believe it.

Testosterone is the chemical in our bodies which makes us stick out for our fellow man. It makes us athletes, protectors, providers, etc.

Nature endowed us with these roles without our asking.
It can be observed by our chemical make-up, as you said.
However, it is wrong to demonize men as a whole and to over generalize them to group everyone into one category.

so we should chemically suppress the natural process. testosterone is what makes men protective and alert. it is what drives us to do for our family's, our people. It does not inherently make men violent but it does give us the ability to be violent if the need comes.

not defensive, just happy, accepting and well adjusted

one is only as oppressed as they allow themselves to be. its a freeing thought, try it sometime!

you just need to get layed. a good release of estrogen would do you a world of good

Well if thats how you feel then dont have sex, at all ever. Even with you bob cause then your little vibe is raping you too.

Excellent response to Debra's nonsense! Bottom line is men and women should respect each other's differences, it is not a competition it is a cooperation. Neither sex is superior!

It happens and quite often... abusive behavior is not exclusive to the male gender of our species.Femi-nazis like ole Deb turn my stomach...but something tells me she has a reason for her twisted opinion on men.

Here, here... well said!

In many conversations with my husband, male friends, and relatives I realized that majority of men depend on themselves to resolve challenges in their lives but women seek someone's help and support. Men are thought to toughen up, and too often men do not want to admit even to themselves that they have been abused.

You are right about the media, these tv shows and commercials where a woman is violent and physically abusive are simply sick. If sexes where reversed in this commercials I grantee you too many heads would be rolling. But too many people find violence against man funny.

i have an elevated level of testosterone but i'm a female... so am i thinking of raping myself?

she has been raped... countless times... by her father... thats why she is the way she is

Many sciences, especially psychology and its surrounding fields, from the 1930s are hopelessly outdated and misguided. The human race has thrived for thousands of years, what good do you hope to accomplish by changing hormones in males? Please enlighten me. Do you hope to stop to rape, murder, molestation, etc? While males are more likely commit a crime, women aren't all saints either.

so her predjudicial beef should be against fathers not men

i'd pay a dollar to see that

most men appreciate being treated like or looked at as sex object and dont mind the female attention. double standard maybe, but hey we're men!

That is fine, but I am talking about how men respond to physical and emotional abuse by their wives or girlfriends.

i agree... i think that she was a victim of incest probably all of her childhood... nobody hates men with such a passion without a reason. something very bad has happened to her by a white male that she trusted... this is why she hates white males

agreed. but when a man or a woman is on the receiving end of an abusive relationship they are obligated to get out of it. if it were me i'd be out the door in less than 5 seconds if ever attacked by my woman.

i rather like my hormones, and so does my woman. if someone has a problem change starts in the mirror

The situation gets complicated when children are involved. There are many responsible fathers who will not abandon their children.

Woah... -18 that has to be a record. Well done cuddlecakes.

agreed, but i would rather cut off my arm than abandon a child