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The Martial Art of Difficult Conversations by Peter Bregman How We Work - Harvard Business Publishing
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My wife Eleanor and I used to live in a small house in Princeton, New Jersey. One night we returned home to find a car parked in our single space driveway with no owner in sight. We were tired and had nowhere nearby to legally park our car. So we had the car towed, parked our car in its place, and went to sleep.
The next morning there was a loud knock on the door. Eleanor was the first to answer. She immediately regretted it. It was our next-door neighbor, we'll call her Leslie, and she was mad. As soon as she saw Eleanor she burst forth with a barrage of angry words and accusations. I was in the back of the house and could hear her clearly.
It turns out the mystery car we had towed belonged to her son. Eleanor, usually calm and collected, began to defend herself against the bombardment of accusations, which only made Leslie angrier and louder. So they went at it, both arguing their points.
Meanwhile, I had a brief moment to consider the best way to rescue Eleanor. I had to diffuse Leslie's anger, otherwise we'd never get anywhere. The only way to do that was to give Leslie the experience of being heard. Once she felt we understood her point of view and appreciated how angry she was, she'd calm down. Then we could talk.
I decided to do three things that, together, communicate listening:
Ask questions. I would ask open ended, exploratory questions. Who, what, when, where, how, why, etc. Questions that would clarify what she was saying and feeling. Questions that would help me unpack the situation from her perspective. I would stay away from leading questions and statements that pretended to be questions but wouldn't fool anyone, like "You don't actually believe that, do you?"
Actually listen. I would shut up and hear what she had to say. And I would avoid thinking about anything except what she was saying. I would also try to hear what she wasn't saying but was implying, the desires, fears, and assumptions that were behind what she was saying.
Repeat and summarize. I would recap what I heard, trying to use the same words she did. I would also summarize what I heard and check with her to see if I understood her correctly. If she told me I didn't get it, I wouldn't ask her to repeat herself because, well, she would and I'd hear the whole thing over again. What I really wanted to know is what I got wrong. So I'd ask her what I missed. Once she told me, I'd repeat that part again and ask her if I got it right this time.
Most importantly, I wouldn't bother to defend our decision until her anger was diffused. And I picked a sign for myself: once she took a deep breath and relaxed her shoulders, I'd make my point.
I felt as ready as I was going to be. My adrenaline was pumping as I walked to the doorway where they were standing yelling at each other. "Leslie," I broke in, "Hi. You're obviously really angry about something." She saw a new victim and pounced. "Angry doesn't even begin to describe it . . ." I listened. I asked questions. I repeated and summarized. Eventually, I felt like I really understood why she was so angry.
After about 15 minutes I said, " So your son only visits once in a blue moon and you really want him to have a good experience when he's with you. And then the people who you think are your good neighbors have his car towed. One more reason for him not to come home."
"Yeah, that's right," she said, a little more softly. And then . . . nothing. She was silent. She had nothing left to say. I had understood the depth of her reaction. Her emotional transaction was complete. She felt heard.
continued....The Martial Art of Difficult Conversations by Peter Bregman How We Work - Harvard... more
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I enjoy using this website, however the news section is really starting to seem like a bit of a poorly structured mess. Stories are constantly added about a variety of topics and for some reason it seems like Current is not trying too hard when it comes to organizing the news in a sensible fashion. Users who are exposed to the string of articles on the site appear to rarely go beyond the first 150 or so stories. The same news stories are repeatedly posted for days on end and/or they cycle through the top 100 until enough new stories are posted to force them out. Current needs a topic web, repeated post cancellation option, and a trash article option to keep the site from being flooded by articles which most people will end up ignoring. I really do like the concept of Current, but feel it is being so poorly implemented that a select few individuals seem to constantly dominate the picked for tv arena. Rather than being a forum for discussion, it seems like it is turning into a race to see who can post the most popular and already mainstream media acknowledged story the fastest so that someone can get their name on tv. Personally, I have always hoped that the picked for tv topics for Current would be the hidden jems of the internet that most people never hear about. I look to Current to learn, and lately it's not happening......I enjoy using this website, however the news section is really starting to seem like a... more
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The "Vanguard" team is breaking convention and new stories with a breed of journalism. Young, aggressive and willing to go places few other people go, "Vanguard" is telling stories in a way that manhandles the stand up, scripted, bizarre cadence and dearth of content that has come to define so much of TV news. By pushing boundaries, borders and limits, "Vanguard" has been at the forefront of a series of original stories.The "Vanguard" team is breaking convention and new stories with a breed of journalism.... more
The recent decision to pull the plug on the missile shield in Central Europe came as a surprise to Prague and Warsaw. It seems curious that the president didn't plan the new move with Poland and the Czech Republic. Instead, the decision hit newstands mere hours after Obama telephoned the Central European democracies.
Is this is a sign of future disrespect to smaller international players from the new administration? A tactical mistake from the state department? What ever the case, Obama's choice to reward the gleeful Russians on his own terms begs some questions.
What was the intended message to these younger NATO member states?The recent decision to pull the plug on the missile shield in Central Europe came as a... more
I wonder if the Sun will be one day our main source of energy, limitless, powerful,
are wars, among people, still going to exist?
I was driving, unfortunately not a solar powered car, and traffic lights were not working at an intersection.
A car next to me tries to drive through this fast flow of running cars in front of us.
He can't make it, no cars are stopping.
I decided to couple him,
a few seconds later,
magically all those cars gradually stopped.
We crossed the intersection together.
We both looked at each other with a big smile on our faces and went on laughing.
"Have a great day sir" we said to each other and both went on different directions.
I felt that human connection, unity that lives inside us and inside our Universe, such a small event, almost insignificant someone could think, not to me, not to me.
“There is hope in dreams, imagination, and in the courage of those who wish to make those dreams a reality.”
By Jonas Salk
"The Guardian's George Monbiot on the evils of advertising and the hypocrisy of journalists."
This is the sentence I remember the most after having watched this video:
"It's very uncomfortable... that my pay depends on the very companies I spend my time campaigning against"
A little old but timeless in its message.
This reminds me of the "Washington post" which had a good article about the environment and on the left side there was a monsanto advertisement.
That was enough to disgust me and drop that article altogether.
I might still quote one of their articles if it is very important and deserves attention but they are definitely not on my white list.
This is only an example of many out there.
I hope we won't start to see this kind of advertisement here on Current.com as this would create a bit of outrage in our community.
What do you think about the Evil advertising and how should it be approached and solved?"The Guardian's George Monbiot on the evils of advertising and the hypocrisy of... more
Hey folks! Zombelle and I thought October would be the perfect time for an Art Gallery/Zombies Group team up- so this month's challenge is all about the brain loving undead!
Bring us your paintings, sculptures, drawings, even crazy Halloween costumes and make-up and anything else you can think of! Zombelle of the Zombies group will be co-judging this challenge- join the Zombie group today! (http://current.com/groups/zombies/) The user with the coolest Zombie Art will get free goodies from me!
2. Go to the "add something" button at the top right of the screen.
3. Upload a picture of your sweet ZOMBIE art.
4. Submit it!
The winners of the last contest will be announced shortly, I'm still in discussion with the co-judge! To my September winners, if you haven't gotten your swag yet it's on it's way so keep your eye on your mailbox :)
If you have a group and would like to collabo with me for next month's challenge, HOLLER!
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I love Current and mostly found it a fair website made of intelligent and respectful individuals, from members of the community to its management.
What happened to me though is ridiculous.
I created a group called : The Best Of Current, eight members joined it, was very happy about it.
The members are ThoughtNu, Leahl (Current green producer), naty_forty, Xiola, Kaecvtionr, JonRaymond and me as the leader of the group.
Suddenly I realize the group does not belong to me anymore. "CTV" a Current stuff member has taken leadership and kept me as a member.
He even kept my written original description of the group.
How did this group suddenly become his?
Why wasn't I informed about this?
This is not only an insult to me but to all of us as a community.
This is outrageously unfair.
I hope it has been an innocent mistake as I want to believe in fairness and respect from Current and within Current.
I request my group: The best of current which was created to give a second chance to posts from community members that never made it to the homepage, to be given back to me.
"CTV", you are still welcome to join my group as a member if you wish so, it would make me very happy, supposing this was a mistake.
I can't help in the meantime to feel disappointed, disrespected and discriminated.
Waiting for an explanation.
Thank you very much Current community.
P.S.: In my scroll down list Current.com blog does not appear although I am a member of it.
I was not able to post it there. I ask Current to please do it for me as this concerns our community. ThanksI love Current and mostly found it a fair website made of intelligent and respectful... more
I write to you, America, as a Muslim-American who is frustrated at seeing both sides of my identity spreading myths about each other. In part one of this two part article, I address America from a Muslim perspective. In part two, which will follow in the coming weeks, I shall write to the Muslim community, from an American perspective.
Dear America,
Our world today is assaulted with myriad headlines describing rising extremism and terrorism, and political instability in Afghanistan, Pakistan, and the Middle East. Despite the plethora of bad news, most recently we have seen a day of hope marked by the end of Ramadan, where Muslims from all nations, social classes, and sects openly united in the spirit of humility, brotherhood, thankfulness, and peace.
As human beings, you and me have a tendency to let the negative marginalize the good and the true. But in this Ramadan the unity and the message of peace and humility that nearly a billion Muslims have exhibited should not go unnoticed, nor should it be underestimated.
America, even though you are part of us (Muslims) and we are a part of you, you often fear and misunderstand the one thing that unites the billion of us around the world is peace, love, and spiritual strength. You fear our religion, Islam. I write the following to not accuse anyone or apologize on behalf of any group. In part one of this article, I speak to you America, as one Muslim who is part of the majority of Muslims standing against the Ahmedinijads, Bin Ladens, and Taliban and Al Qaeda. These men have stolen my voice... our voice. The actions of a violent minority have for too long trumped the selfless and righteous actions of the moderate majority who do good in the name of Islam.
Firstly, Muslims are not a violent people and Islam is not a violent religion. I fear you overlook the fact that the faith of Muslims has been monopolized by the corrupt despots of Muslim countries and Muslim extremists. And it is the extremists whose power is bolstered by a media that has paralyzed the voice of the Muslim majority, who in fact abhor violence and terrorism.
It can be confusing even to me because on one side we only see Muslim extremists on the TV preaching hate in the name of Islam and we barely hear the majority. As I will touch on in part two of this article, Muslims have even marginalized themselves. But America, Muslims are a community of over a billion people, most of whom live in poverty within developing countries governed by oppressive, abusive, authoritarian regimes. These very regimes remain bunkered against an alienated group of extremists who are taking to the gun instead of a potentially rigged ballot. It is our mothers and daughters and sons who are being killed on a daily basis by either violent extremists or botched missile attacks by NATO. We are against violence and terrorism America, be it from Muslim extremists or NATO bombs. We are against violence because it is we who are the primary target of most terrorist attacks today. And while we may disagree with your military actions and policies, we look up to the principles that make up America... I speak of the freedom to be critical of yourself as a society and government; the opportunities awarded by the most comprehensive education system in the world; and your effortless ability to adapt in an ever transforming world.
We're thrilled to announce Embedded -- a new show coming to Current TV on October 14th. Shana Naomi Krochmal, Current Music's online producer, has posted all of the details on the Current Music blog, so follow the link for the full scoop:
"The best part about my job as online producer for Current Music is that I sit right here in the heart of the department, and since January I’ve had a front-row seat to watch the development of a new show unlike anything you’ve ever seen. Embedded, premiering on Wednesday, October 14, is the kind of TV any music fan dreams of—and though you have no real reason to believe me, I swear I’m saying that first and foremost as that lucky music fan, not because I work here. (Rolling Stone also picked us as one of their 50 reasons to watch TV. In one of the weirdest but most awesome and accurate reviews I’ve ever read about anything, they said, “If Animal Planet had a show that captured musicians in their natural habitats, it would look like this refreshingly raw documentary series.”)"
To check out and join the Embedded group, head in this direction: http://current.com/groups/embedded/We're thrilled to announce Embedded -- a new show coming to Current TV on October... more
“So why did the Israeli government boycott the commission? The real answer is quite simple: they knew full well that the commission, any commission, would have to reach the conclusions it did reach.”
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The important points come near the end: that the rather conservative findings of the report (and its acceptance of Israel’s dubious right to self-defense–dubious because Gaza is effectively occupied), have acted as a "bombshell" in Israel because Goldstone calls for action, and because the report contributes to the fraying of Jewish support for Israel and to the "Legitimacy War" that Israel has been losing in the eyes of the world. "A historic contribution" to the Palestinian struggle for justice, Falk concludes.
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Uri Avnery (Israeli peace activist, and former Knesset member), “On the Goldstone Report” 19 Sept 2009
Richard Goldstone, former judge of South Aftica’s Constitutional Court, the first prosecutor at The Hague on behalf of the International Criminal Court for Former Yugolavia, and anti-apartheid campaigner reports that he was most reluctant to take on the job of chairing the UN fact-finding mission charged with investigating allegations of war crimes committed by Israel and Hamas during the three week Gaza War of last winter. Goldstone explains that his reluctance was due to the issue being “deeply charged and politically loaded,” and was overcome because he and his fellow commissioners were “professionals committed to an objective, fact-based investigation,” adding that “above all, I accepted because I believe deeply in the rule of law and the laws of war,” as well as the duty to protect civilians to the extent possible in combat zones. The four-person fact-finding mission was composed of widely respected and highly qualified individuals, including the distinguished international law scholar, Christine Chinkin, a professor at the London School of Economics. Undoubtedly adding complexity to Goldstone’s decision is the fact that he is Jewish, with deep emotional and family ties to Israel and Zionism, bonds solidified by his long association with several organizations active in Israel.
Despite the impeccable credentials of the commission members, and the worldwide reputation of Richard Goldstone as a person of integrity and political balance, Israel refused cooperation from the outset. It did not even allow the UN undertaking to enter Israel or the Palestinian Territories, forcing reliance on the Egyptian government to facilitate entry at Rafah to Gaza. As Uri Avnery observes, however much Israel may attack the commission report as one-sided and unfair, the only plausible explanation of its refusal to cooperate with fact-finding and taking the opportunity to tell its side of the story was that it had nothing to tell that could hope to overcome the overwhelming evidence of the Israeli failure to carry out its attacks on Gaza last winter in accordance with the international law of war. No credible international commission could reach any set of conclusions other than those reached by the Goldstone Report on the central allegations.
In substantive respects the Goldstone Report adds nothing new. Its main contribution is to confirm widely reported and analyzed Israeli military practices during the Gaza War. There had been several reliable reports already issued, condemning Israel’s tactics as violations of the laws of war and international humanitarian law, including by Amnesty International, Human Rights Watch, and a variety of respected Israeli human rights groups. Journalists and senior United Nations civil servants had reached similar conclusions. Perhaps, most damning of all the material available before the Goldstone Report was the publication of a document entitled “Breaking the Silence,” containing commentaries by thirty members of the Israel Defense Forces---continued below“So why did the Israeli government boycott the commission? The real answer is quite... more
The United Nations nuclear assembly voted on Friday to urge Israel to accede to the Non-Proliferation Treaty (NPT) and place all atomic sites under the world body's inspections, in a surprise victory for Arab states.
The resolution, passed narrowly for the first time in nearly two decades, expresses concern about "Israeli nuclear capabilities" and calls on the International Atomic Energy Agency chief, Mohamed ElBaradei, to work on the issue.
The Middle East resolution, sponsored by Arab states, was backed by 49 votes to 45 against in a floor vote at the IAEA's annual member states conference. The vote split along Western and developing nation lines. There were 16 abstentions.
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Its about time... the worlds starting to wake up to Israels arrogance .The United Nations nuclear assembly voted on Friday to urge Israel to accede to the... more
In a landmark decision, Britain’s trade unions have voted overwhelmingly to commit to build a mass boycott movement, disinvestment and sanctions on Israel for a negotiated settlement based on justice for Palestinians.
The motion was passed at the 2009 TUC Annual Congress in Liverpool today (17 September), by unions representing 6.5 million workers across the UK.
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Its growing every day. Israel needs to change her way, not yesterday-today.
“Non-violence is not inaction. It is not discussion. It is not for the timid or weak… Non-violence is hard work. It is the willingness to sacrifice. It is the patience to win.” César Estrada Chávez (1927 – 1993) was an American labor leader, and civil rights activist.In a landmark decision, Britain’s trade unions have voted overwhelmingly to commit... more
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