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Dear Seeking 1178,
Please allow me to introduce myself myself, my name is Mary. I am contacting you because I have noticed that you have not had a date, or shall I say a successful date since 2009. I know this because you have been on Match.com for at least that long. Every time I open my yahoo email account there you are with about six other prospects on the right side of my screen. Your still smiling and it is the same head shot. I will tell you in case you haven’t noticed, you have been moved to a smaller box and have been replaced by Trevor 7878. His picture now is in the larger “featured” spot which you dominated for so many years.
Trevor 7878 is very handsome as well but the good news is that his face is covered with a box titled “View Single Men in Philadelphia” with little title boxes below asking to SELECT AGE AND NEAR ZIP. The final box, which might be a problem is VIEW PHOTOS OF MEN, I know, the competition.
I think you are very very handsome with that tan model face, perfectly white teeth that gleam when you smile and those twinkling blue eyes that shine brighter than all the stars in the sky. You are dreamy. You look very clean cut and must make money if you can continue to renew your account yearly. By now you must of spent hundreds of dollars on this site. That money could have easily been spent in other ways that I assure you would get your needs met and maybe in the process fell in love. I don’t understand why you have not found your match?
One reason could be that you do have “stiff” competition. For example Vegas 90403 is dark and handsome. I don’t know how tall he is, or you either, because you both are just heads in your photos. Vegas 90403′s face is tan like yours and has facial hair (mustache and goatee). He looks like a bad boy so that could be trouble. Women like bad boys, think Johnny Depp. You, Seeking 1178, are the Brad Pitt type so it is like comparing apples and oranges. You’re both fruit your just the different flavors.
There are a few other heads showing as well but I want to help you.
The one thing that Trevor 7878 has that you and Vegas 90403 don’t is information about his interests. Trevor 7878 likes coffee and conversation, dining out, movies/videos, music and concerts, playing sports, watching sports and travel/sightseeing. Personally they are generic and nothing to write home about. What are your interests? I would image jumping out of airplanes, traveling to exotic places like El Calafate, Argentina, The Galapagos Islands or one of my favorites Phuket, and learning different languages. Do you like to travel, do you like coffee, do you like watching sports? Who are you Seeking 1178?
Unless you drool when you eat, have noticeable ear wax or spit when you talk, I can only think of two reasons you are not successful at love. You are a perpetual playboy devoted chiefly to the pursuit of pleasurable activities, the cat on the prowl type or you suffer from a syndrome known as “fear of commitment”. Being a playboy is great if that makes you happy. It’s a free country go out and serial date! I caution you to always be upfront and honest with the women you date and tell them the truth. You don’t want to be a heart breaker or get a reputation as a womanizer. We women know, we smell it on you.
The second reason is problematic, “fear of commitment” known as commitment-phobia. Don’t worry you are not alone. Thousand of men suffer silently with this condition. Perhaps Trevor7878 and Vegas 90403 are afflicted as well. Maybe you three should exchange numbers and set up a date to talk about it. If you like I would be happy to help all three of you, for a fee, address this issue once diagnosed. I am very familiar with this condition both personally (his side) and professionally, but back to you.
Here is a brief summary of commitment-phobia. This is a common condition that manifests in romantic life. The afflicted , that would be you Seeking 1178, want to find love and get married but fail. Ironically what you crave you fear most, love and connection. This is a confusing and destructive cycle of seduction and rejection. This is based in FEAR. To keep it simple, you think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. This thinking makes you feel trapped forever. Remember there are options available, take Newt Gingrich for example, he wants the lifestyle known as an open marriage. Many people choose this, there are conventions held annually in Los Vegas for fellowshipping. I’m sure Vegas 90403 would be happy to host you and perhaps attend the event as well. There is also divorce, which we know is now common and then good old fashioned cheating. All three, in my opinion are destructive and I don’t advocate any of them but the point is, you’re not powerless. You have choices.
So I ask you Seeking 1178, do you think you have a problem? The first step is acceptance and it’s ok, there is help. I will help you. I know this realization can be frightening and unsettling but continuing down this dead end road of serial dating, spending hundreds of dollars on the wrong site and being constantly displayed as a failure on Match.com is not going to satisfy you in the end when you are 86 years old, alone, and wearing a diaper that someone you don’t know has to change as they steal your money. Life is very hard Seeking1178, don’t do it alone.
Sincerely,
Dear Seeking 1178,
Please allow me to introduce myself myself, my name is Mary. I... more
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why Internet Dating sucks!
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When meeting someone from the Internet, you want to take a back up in case your date goes awry.When meeting someone from the Internet, you want to take a back up in case your date... more
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Finding the right girl on a dating site can be like finding a needle in a haystack. Or finding the G-spot on aFinding the right girl on a dating site can be like finding a needle in a haystack. Or... more
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Internet dating sites now offer psychological tests to find your perfect match. So is it just a gimmick - or the path to true love?Internet dating sites now offer psychological tests to find your perfect match. So is... more
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This site offers detailed reviews on the most popular Dating Web Sites out there. With the Online Dating Services reviewed all in one spot it will be easier to see which site is more suited to you as a person. You will find out how each site works and how much it approximately costs. Most sites do offer free submitting of your dating profile and searching of matching profiles but to communicate with someone you will have to purchase a subscription or buy credits to that particular site. No popular dating site is completely free.
We have tried to make it easy for you to find Singles online by including different Online Personals Categories. These will allow you see at a glance which sites you should read the review on for example, if you are interested in meeting a mature older companion or maybe someone from the Christian Faith. Some of the categories include:
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Dating Sites are also referred to as Match Making or Web Personals on the internet. All three terms mean the same thing, a place to meet new people on-line whether it is as friends, casual acquaintances or someone for Marriage.
So what do you think? Can one find love??? or is it only a meat market?This site offers detailed reviews on the most popular Dating Web Sites out there. With... more
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(quoted from blogger--this is not ME--I am NOT oneof365)
Ladies! Calling all gorgeous, Los Angeles based ladies! You claim there are plenty of fish in the sea---well, boy, do I have a catch for YOU! Emerging from the Pacific itself I have Maestro One Of 365, my handsome, kind, wonderful lawyer brother who is 31, and in the prime of his life looking for love. Are you ready to make a match?
Errrmmm, okay, here’s the deal, you know how I’m an anonymous blogger----well, he has no idea I have a blog, let alone that I’m putting out a cat call for him. So, we have to be kinda hush-hush about this. But, we can work out the details later! What matters is making the match! So, if you love a kind, sweet, well-traveled, honest, generous, intelligent person with a deep soul and spirit------you’ve hit gold baby! The only thing is you’ll have to deal with ME! Just kidding (sort of).
Read the entry---it’s a bit of fun…and you never know, you might be swept off your feet or know someone who is looking to be swept of hers.
My site is eclectic with everything from beauty, fashion, diary style entries, poetry, life in the magazine world----this girl has everything. I’ve won the prestigious “Blog Of The Day Award” (not too bad, eh?) and on top level blog rolls of awesome bloggers. Check out my other work on the site too….you’ll love it---it’ a lot of fun.
Hope to see you at the wedding!!!!!!!
X(quoted from blogger--this is not ME--I am NOT oneof365)
Ladies! Calling all... more
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Helen Croydon decides to discover whether she can find love on the internet. As well as trying the traditional dating websites, Helen gives some less conventional ways a go.
As well as goth dating, wine tasting dating and looking for romance in the gym by fitness dating, Helen tries speed dating... but with a twist.
Will she find her perfect match?Helen Croydon decides to discover whether she can find love on the internet. As well... more
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Dating in New York City has never been easier and, at the same time, more complicated with the proliferation of online dating sites. Amy uses sites like match.com in her search for a long lasting connection, whereas Rhon uses adultfriendfinder.com for hook-ups. Follow them on their quests for love and lust in the city of 5 million singles.Dating in New York City has never been easier and, at the same time, more complicated... more
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Cyberdating Horror story number 123,111,456,789 ....
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MY EXPERIENCES WITH CYBERDATING.
LESSON#1- LEARN TO DECIPHER THE CODE
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MORE TIPS FOR NEWBIE INTERNET DATERS-IF HE SOUNDS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE-HE PROBABLY IS......
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TRUE TALES OF MY CYBERDATING EXPERIENCES..
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TRUE TAKE ON CYBERDATING FROM MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCES.
LESSON #1 HOW TO DECIPHER THE CODE !!TRUE TAKE ON CYBERDATING FROM MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCES.
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Adultfriendfinder.com (there are spin-off FriendFinders for different ethnicities, religions, and seniors, and even a PG-rated friendfinder.com) is currently the 25th most-visited website in the United States and the 43rd in the world; no other stand-alone dating site has cracked either top 100.
The casual-sex mediator boasts more than 30 million members and maintains that only half are heterosexual men (a figure not borne out by either informal studies or a quick glance in one of its chat rooms, where the male-to-female ratio is 30:1 or greater). It advertises widely on the Web to snare the curious and susceptible, usually with small pictures of comely young females and text indicating that these nubile women in your town all want to have sex—with you.Adultfriendfinder.com (there are spin-off FriendFinders for different ethnicities,... more
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A senior teacher at an exclusive Sydney school has resigned after students viewed naked pictures of him on a gay dating website.
The teacher, who had taught at the school for 15 years, used a distinctive word as his username while accessing an educational website during a presentation to students. The word he used was also his profile name for a gay dating website and was visible on the projector for students to see.
Several students noticed the strange username and put the word into the Google search engine. The first result that appeared was an explicit personal profile for the teacher, in which he advertised himself as a "40-year-old cuddly bear who is looking for "a fuckbuddy/friend for fun."
Once the profile was accessed in full, it is understood to have contained a description of his genitals, sexual fetishes as well as several naked pictures.
The school's principal, Richard Morgan, said they became aware of the matter on Friday when a student alerted them to the material. He said the teacher had admitted responsibility for the images contained on his profile on the website and had resigned yesterday morning.A senior teacher at an exclusive Sydney school has resigned after students viewed... more
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I think these tips are also applicable with Facebook. Take notes.
p.s. this video has only 15 views... can we make it go viral?I think these tips are also applicable with Facebook. Take notes.
p.s. this video... more
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I think her own words are best, so here is her story:
Her email to me starts here:
"You said you would help warn others about what happened to me. It's painful, but this is my story. Thanks for your help.
Why?
So, here in a state I don't want to name, I don't know a soul.. I don't get out and meet many people on average probably because I am disabled, but it's an invisible illness. I look normal, can act normal, feel alot of pain everywhere in my body.. nature of the illness.
I signed up on an Internet dating source in the summer, had not dated anyone yet. I'm cute, so people are always surprised I'm single, I just don't know anyone. Mailbox always full.
New Years came 2008.. didn't want to kiss my cat... again. I sent a mail to a guy close that had been talking to me. I was so excited to have a date, the guy, awesome. Checked him out, all seemed good. In officer program in the military. false comfort.
Suddenly plans get changed. I was lost. He was kind on the phone. We met up in a parking lot, where I eneded up purchasing something at a store for allergies (probably his cologne), and we left in his car. Thankfully I put the receipt in my coat pocket or I would not have found my car. After I was out of the hospital.
The dinner, weird. He was constantly gone, phone, texts, bathroom, something elese. He took about 4 bites of food. I worried, are you ok? He said his friend got in trouble.
Asked if we should scrap plans and go find him? Suddenly it wasn't a problem. We were at a dive but it wasn't his original plan. I just cared for the company and couldn't care less that plans fell.
I had been crushing on him a while... . we kissed and I asked what was wrong, he said nothing. I told him before specifically not to expect sex or anything more than a kiss in our email communications. He seemed fine.
The kiss for new years, is the last i remember and I did get a kiss. And a glass of diet drink, he got it for me. Tasted fine, toast, laugh kiss.. warm.
Soda needed ice, who cares. Just be happy.
Next memory. Shower, too cold. Hurts. So much hurts. Don't rub so hard. Tender. More cold. no covers. cold wet. Am i alone? towel? dark.
Next memory. I woke up alone, was naked. In a hotel. I didn't know what state, town, city, etc? Where was my car? No idea. I called the police and they said it wasn't their responsibility to know where my car was. Thinking i was a bimbo that drank to much I suppose, not drugged, raped, from the damage repeatedly. Left alone. I'm diabetic. Sugar less than 40, nothing to eat/drink. I couldn't hardly walk. I have little memory of that day too. Drug is strong. Lost. No money for a cab. Phone dead.
Hospital. Exam. Hurts. I cry. They document where my throat was holding me down. They stitch me back up, in that private place. I try to escape in my head. Glucose iv. Pills, so many to protect from std's.
Car? where could it be? I needed showers many showers.
As I sat there, hospital scrubs, not my own clothes, the police took all I was wearing and the biological evidence I gathered before I left the motel room. Blood, semen, soda cans and glasses. I don't want him hurting another girl.
I had spent hours looking for my car and trying to figure out details.
When I left the hospital they let me keep my coat, hands cold, in pockets. paper. the answer, my car was in another town completely.
Due to my medical conditions, I was told at the emergency room that street drug could have killed me. I was lucky they said. Why don't I feel lucky?
I'm a mess. I've been on bed rest for 8 days now. I am wearing 3 layers of clothes. So confused. Why? I was so careful."
Thanks for reading her story. I hope it helps someone.I think her own words are best, so here is her story:
Her email to me starts here:... more
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