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Today I heard a statement I had just voiced to a dear friend. "There is nothing more comforting than cuddling a Baby, or Small Child in your Arms while they Sleep!"
Many of us may not own up to this, but we do have children to fulfill our own Selfish Needs. Ofcourse Pro-Creation is just one of them. You need Heirs to carry own the empires that you attempt to establish while you live, someone for your namesake, and so forth. But I believe there is so much more.
They can be the best Tranquilizers, and the worst "Nerve Wreckers", one can imagine. So we enjoy these sweet gentle Creatures...and then they awaken! They too can be very demanding and self consumed. So I guess we savor the moments when they're young, and just wait till they older and ..."Drive Us Crazy!"Today I heard a statement I had just voiced to a dear friend. "There is nothing... more
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Let us join in and wish her a Happy Mother's Day. After all, who has created one of the most gigantic Media Sensations of all time than her. Let's lighten up, just for a moment. Who knows what those beautiful Beings will grow-up and achieve in life. In time it is our Children who will Parent us. And sometimes do a much better job than we do.
And just think of all the beautiful, colorful "Water Pitchers" she'll get over the years. It is certainly what we, my 5 other siblings and I gave our Mom. And she just smiled graciously said "Thank You!" Always bearing the sweetest smile. Over the years some of them gained great value, even a few antiques and collectable in the bunch!
But clearly she has a lot of lives to affect one day. She has great Parents, and they have great Grand Parents, to help instill unforgettables life lessons and values in them.
And when all is said and done, we'll look back and say, "Life Happens," intime it will all be crystal clear. Sometimes we make huge plans and they backfire. Often we don't seem to have a plan that makes sense, and it seems to work out okay! So let's live and let live,
give life a chance...even though we live in a not so PERFECT World!
(There must be a good lesson here somewhere to learn)Let us join in and wish her a Happy Mother's Day. After all, who has created one... more
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" A Child Speaks"
Mother Dearest. I have loved you from the time I was conceived in Your Womb
and was Born unto You - That Memorable Moment was well overdue
When those two Entities met (A Tiny Sperm and Egg) went dancing around
so entwined, I knew My Life in HIS Hand and Yours was part of My Destiny -
in GOD's Plan so Devine...You came along and recued Me from
Life's Realitites and Woes, that happen everyday of Our Lives
And I say to You, "Thank You, for all that You give, and have given unto Me,
in Your own Dear and Loving way - You do so whith such Caring and Generousity
And for the Life I now Live even though My words can not adequately Express
In My Heart and thru My Thoughts and Deeds , it is You i Love Best!
One day Our Lives on this Earth shall Depart, deep n My Spirit I'll always know
that this shall exist, for now and throughout Eternity.
We both know, however in the Grand Scheme of things..it was GOD Who
joined Us together, in this "Marriage" of Life
Again, I say to You, Mother Dearest - it is You I Love Most!
(Happy Mothers Day - Today and Always)
By Shirma3
B..T.C.A.B" A Child Speaks"... more
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She is my Everything! My Rock of Gibralter, when I need someone to lean on
My Reason for Being, I enjoy the Sunrise and Sunset, when I sing "Her Song"
Your Love for her is ever so consuming, you can feel it deep down in your soul,
as it enriches you and helps makes you whole......No, they're not Faultless or Perfect,
just trying their best each day to get it Right!
When Life's Obstacles make you want to Quit, she is that driving force that encourages
you to go forward, while trying to fulfil your "Impossibles Dreams," and Goals -
Thinking to yourself, "Maybe I'll accomplish some of mine and hers!"
Her Confidence is so real, that she gives you enough Reassurance and Love
to share with others in distress, and in their times of need, "From My Arms to Yours!"
Even when you Dissagree she is still there with 'Open Arms,' saying, "All is okay..you just wait and see"....Her Love, Compassion, and Understanding provides you with the sweetest of Peace and Contentment, whether in the comfort of your home... or on the "Battle Field".....It is said that, when in times of crises, often Soldiers cry out her name in their own language, somehow it all comes ever so naturally....MOTHER?!
"A Tribute To Mother"
And when there is no more to give while she is down here on Earth
Somehow she'll reach out, and keep on giving "Somewhere over The Rainbow"
and Beyond.- Your Heart will hear her 'Soft Sweet Voice' say, often in the wee hours
of the morning, before the First Burst of Dawn, that seems to last 'All Day" long
In your Darkest hour of need as you go thru Life's many Heartbreaks and Pain
Open up your Soul, to your Inner Being, to receive the Peace and warmth that
thoughts of her bring
One thing for certain at this present moment, all of us are quite sure - that in order for us to be here on Earth, a mother was there enduring, and enjoying your Birth.
Even if you lost track of her, perhaps thru no real fault of her own,
Your can relish this thought forever - she can never forget you, and the Pain
and Joy she endured! Her spirit will linger always as she becomes the...
"Wind Beneath Your Wing!"
( "Be Happy My Child and Have JOY")
Shirma3 5/5/2009She is my Everything! My Rock of Gibralter, when I need someone to lean on
My Reason... more
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The Scottish Lady, Suzan Boyle on British Idle, proved you can come as you are, and knock folks off their feet. Some folks harm themsleves seeking approval. She went forth "as I am," and stole the show.
Now, we may not recognize her next time. But she did prove a point....don't Judge a Book by it's Cover.
BRAVO!!!The Scottish Lady, Suzan Boyle on British Idle, proved you can come as you are, and... more
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Well some of us knew this would happen. That this thing would not go away. and that not only will the Octuplets be famous, but so will the 6 other kids...and why not, they do have to share their space with them And Octumom, has pulled a "BIG" one on all of us.
She now has an 18 year deal, to make millions. Wow! - a Reality Show, folks taking care of the kids, while you sit back and rake in the bucks. I head she has a Masters Degree, Degree or not, she has certainly devised a "MASTER PLAN!" The Haters will have to grit and bear.
Now don't anyone-else get any ideas, about mutiple implants, and Births....Maybe in a strange way, this is providence. Who could predict 8 kids?! Now that she'll be Rich, perhaps she can get the best counseling. No matter how much help and Money she has, Children need their parents to be fully functionable, and capable of being in charge. She does have great Parents it seems..that's if Mother hasn't already run off...MONEY does change things though!
(Just think we have at least 18 years to hear about all this!)Well some of us knew this would happen. That this thing would not go away. and that... more
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There was a special woman who was strong, had raised 2 sets of Children. Six of her own and 3 Grand Children. Just in the last month of her life, at age 99, her health started faling. She was wise and her mind was sharp and alert.
Shortly after the last Grand Child left home, she lost her jest for living. She was hospitalized for 2 weeks prior to her death. Kidney failure was her prognosis.
Her desire and strenght to speak had literally stopped. But two days before she died, she beckoned her daughter to her bedside, and spoke, "Shelby come here!" It was an urgency in her voice..."Whatever you do in life...be HAPPY and have JOY!" She made a clear distinction between the two.
(She closed it with a footnote..."And Drink Plenty of Milk and Ice Cold Water")
Whenever her daughter is down she reflects on her words, and when she's near the refrigerator she thinks twice, and Drinks-up!There was a special woman who was strong, had raised 2 sets of Children. Six of her... more
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A young woman and mother of two young kids....1 year, and 2 & 1/2 are returning from a long day of Shopping. Ofcourse she has plenty of Diapers to change, and countless conversations and reprimands about the "Potty."
Regretting to stop and take the kids out of their Car Seats one more time, she has been
"holding it " quite awhile now. She reaches the front door of her home, twisting and turning, about to burst. She realizes she cannot find her Door Key. (Her 2&1/2 is closely observing her demeanor). Suddenly the water lets loose, and is flowing freely down her legs, forming a puddle on the concrete entrance way porch...Although relieved, she wnats to crawl underneath the potted plant.
The 2 year old looks down at the "pool" of water and declares, "Oooooooooh Weee!......
...Mommie -.You wet yourself,...You need a Dry Diaper!"A young woman and mother of two young kids....1 year, and 2 & 1/2 are returning... more
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Today, we acknowledge the life of Dr.Martin Luther King. His accomplishments are many. Even though we would rather celebrate his Brithday rather than the day of his demise. His life was brief in the context of longivity, yet he packed more living into those short years than most in a full lifetime.
Most of his Dream has transpired, and we cherish his memory. His philosophy and inspiring words, live on vicariously through all of us. Today we may choose these, while we pause to reflect......
"OUR LIVES BEGIN TO END....THE DAY WE BECOME SILENT ABOUT THINGS THAT MATTER."
(M.L.K.)Today, we acknowledge the life of Dr.Martin Luther King. His accomplishments are... more
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Most Women are so grounded. Early in life they become Caretakers, they learn to mother their younger siblings, so it starts early in life. They think with their heads as well as their Hearts. Even though frivlous at times, they pull it together and help balance the lives of everyone who crosses their path. "Mother's Wit," is one of their greatest gifts. Not that men don't have it...Women simply use it differently. That built-in instinct is what keeps them afloat.
I'm convinced, "Women are from Venus, and Men are from Mars." (book)Most Women are so grounded. Early in life they become Caretakers, they learn to mother... more
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Many folks say, when your children are grown step back and leave them alone...A lot of people I know do just that. Unfortunately some of us don't see it quite that way. Surely you do not interfere, when they don't need advise. But there are times they don't ask, and yet that mother/parent instinct just slps thru. Even though you try to retrain yourself....it just races right past your common sense thinking. Now mind you, some adult children need it less, or even more for that matter.
Don't most of us function from information passed down to us from generations past. After allisn't it better coming from those who love us, who have our best interest in mind...rather than your proposed 'best friends.
Some say only act when asked...I say, when ever you get that feeling deep down in your belly, and you're about to choke.....spit it out!
If you're wrong, be prepared to suffer the consequences.....Many folks say, when your children are grown step back and leave them alone...A lot... more
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I would like to have atleast Half the knowledge I have today!.......
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Artistic Expression, is so important because primarily by engaging ourselves in it, we help chronicle our "Born Days," and those of our loved ones and friends. It is the glue that bridges Generational Gaps. Most importantly it is our God given priviledge. By each of us sharing our stories and experiences, it enlightens the mind, and helps enhance the thought process of others while passing it on to future generations.Ultimately we reach the heart and soul of humakind.
As imperfect, seemingly insignifient and mundane as these items of note appear to be, everyone has something worthwhile to offer,(even when it's controvercial). It helps mend and blend peoples lives, from wide-ranging unique backgrounds, heritages, diverse cultures, and ethnic groups. Family bonds are strengthened, while helping create balance. The Broken seem less broken, and may heal through the artistic contributions of others, and themselves. Thus we produce a more potent social structure in our communities, nation, and the world. Art stimulates that part of the Brain like no other form of stimuli, thus becoming a catalyst towards our childrens' learning.
Many idioms exist, connecting the Voice and mind of the artist to others, ranging from writing, to the spoken word, drama to humor, the stage, theater, movies, videos, and other mediums including dance, song, painting, sculpturing, so forth. Artistic expression is in everything we see, hear, and do in our everyday activity throughout the life process. As Artists we owe it to ourselves and others.....So let us Continue!Artistic Expression, is so important because primarily by engaging ourselves in it, we... more
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Why not?! They are often more knowledgeable, they have earned it, paid the price, and gotten older. The other stuff is usually geared toward younger audiences.. Having their own network, they can focus on related issues, pertinent to them. Like Health Care, Entertainment in genres, of Interest to them. Music, that will not burst the eardrum, or offend. Beauty Pproducts, for the aging, Religion, because usually it is more important to the elderly, and other issues, such as Social Security, Insurance, so forth....Now things could get to be a bit boring, so it should be a well planned program format. Often Seniors are afraid to be themselves, because they fear redicule, by their younger counterparts, as well as family members.and friends. So let's define Seniors...I take some offense to 55 year olds being called Seniors....almost. However, we don't want folks to miss out on certain Benifits.
Definitions: Seniors, I believe are those past a ceratin age (55+)
Elderly, are those past a certain age, and may be more likely to
rely on others for their welbeing, and safe keeping. Some folks
reach these stages earlier than others, so it just depends.
By the way...we will allow youger people to partake, and participate on this network, just as they do our elite Seniors. The difference is, Senoiors will be in control. We will not discriminate!!
Having said that, I have a great idea, for a project of this nature....("Not Quite Over The Hill Gang").....Vintage Entertainment Network....Tune in Soon..
(Don't have my glases, have to guess at spelling....Oh, Oooh!, must be Growing Old or becoming a Senior ?)Why not?! They are often more knowledgeable, they have earned it, paid the price, and... more
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Frequent Trips to the Mirror...Crows Feet line the surfaces beneath both your once Large Beautiful Eyes....At least that's what you see from time to time....Old Wrinkled Skin, that now falls to one side....Instead.....Tired Ole' Pretty Faces are trying to brace themselves up for Company and Friends....Scratchy Ole' Voices ring out, when they need to rest..A Brief Vacation you would enjoy at best, so you can revive...Folks talking to you like Babies, such as when you were First Born...The kind you used to Baby-Sit...and Care for so long ago.........
It's just so much you can take in order to stay in this (Human) Race - down here on Earth! .....How many times shall you reminisce and go back to the Day of your Birth!
You know you were there, because each Tiny Cell in your Body tells you this is true....... Besides it is quite gratifying to know - that all forms of Human Life get started this way...Oh, the Days can rough, and you have to be tough to survive this Whole Thing....Even if the Crows have set up Housekeeping, right underneath your eyes in your Face, now, it is so much harder to chase them away.....The Laugh Lines now capture your mouth..Your Cute Little Nose, that you once had, has now gone out on a Date....But......continued.....
(Mother Grows Older, copyright,, 2007)Frequent Trips to the Mirror...Crows Feet line the surfaces beneath both your once... more
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