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When Geeks Attack,...or,...Disarmed Maiden in Unrest
Last week, my boyfriend and I found this group of guys who boffer (it’s basically sword fighting role play) so that he could do a documentary about them. I went with because I was bored and figured I could help Matt out. I was expecting a group of stereotypical Dungeons and Dragons nerds; aka fat white boys who have no social lives. Well, we show up and there were, dare I say, really hot guys there!
Since I was just there to be Matt’s assistant, I sat on the porch while he filmed the guys doing their thing. I was just watching until one of the gents came over to the porch to get something. He noticed me just sitting there and kept trying to get me to join them. I kept telling him I’d have no idea what I’d be doing and I’d make a fool of myself, but he kept trying to get me to play along with them. He even offered to let me use the good weapons. (Ooo lala!) There was just no way that I was going to try to sword fight with these guys, so I stayed on the porch. Later this guy decided to keep tapping me on the shoulder from behind with his sword (his actual foam sword for those of you with dirty minds) and would pretend to be minding his own business when I turned around.
I’ve never been one to garner a lot of attention from men, so I naturally was very awkward around this guy. I thought he was just trying to be friendly, but in the car on the way home, Matt informed me that that guy was hitting on me. I was MORTIFIED! It was bad enough that I’m totally oblivious to the fact that I couldn’t tell when a guy was hitting on me, but the fact that my boyfriend had to tell me was the cherry on top. If I would’ve known that he was trying to flirt I would’ve naturally told the guy to back off because I’m taken!
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http://collegecandy.com/2010/04/22/coupled-and-getting-hit-on/When Geeks Attack,...or,...Disarmed Maiden in Unrest
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Still Going Rogue after all these,...er,...semesters.
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"Her best friend told us that she doesn’t tell us when she’s coming back to Austin because we’ve become THAT couple".
..............this could happen to YOU!
http://collegecandy.com/2010/04/29/coupled-that-couple/Still Going Rogue after all these,...er,...semesters.
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Lindsey Latourette, 25-year-old Saugerties woman, who gave methadone to a 15-year-old boy and had sex with him before he died later that day, was sentenced in Ulster County Court, Thursday, to 1 1/3 to four years in state prison. Latourette pleaded guilty in March to criminally negligent homicide, rape and criminal sale of a controlled substance in connection with the Saugerties teenager’s death.
Ulster County Judge Donald Williams told Latourette "my only regret is I cannot do more to punish you." Latourette received the methadone legally from a methadone clinic. It was the practice of that facility to give their clients their weekend dose on Fridays and allow them to take them home. It was from that weekend supply that Latourette gave the lethal dose to the victim on June 14, 2008.
http://femalesexoffenders.com/fso/index.php/the-news/62-lindsey-latouretteLindsey Latourette, 25-year-old Saugerties woman, who gave methadone to a 15-year-old... more
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A countdown of short films about unusual approaches to love and intimacy. Part 5 takes a closer look at polyamorous relationships.A countdown of short films about unusual approaches to love and intimacy. Part 5... more
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Anal sex is just one of those things: she either loves it, or she hates it. There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, and a fair few of them will never dare again despite their hankering to be one of the "lucky ones" who love anal sex. The reason for this avoidance is clear: pain. If there was no pain, there was probably pleasure. Hence, love or hate.
It is true, however, that while you're trying to "get it right" there are likely to be some painful moments, practice makes perfect and it’s the ability to maneuver oneself and try different styles that allows anal sex to be pleasurable.
We've decided to let you in on what women love and hate about anal sex so you can enter the situation sufficiently informed and ready to rock his/her world.
the allure of anal sex
For men and women, anal sex is a different, tighter sensation, it’s a little bit naughty and it provides some variety to normal sex. Anal sex has a tang of taboo attached to it, though this is falling away: The taboo status of anal sex gives it better credence among the adventuresome and timid alike, and this adds to its attraction. Once tried, however, anal sex can quickly lose its appeal for women (and some men). Here we will discuss some of the reasons why women love and hate anal sex.
why does she/he love anal sex?
Let’s start with the positives:
Because anal sex feels good
Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It's different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before -- it's deep inside, it's not her clitoris and is not in her vagina, but feels strangely like both in a sort of mixed-up combination in another part of her body. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. The back passage transforms itself into a sexual playground. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while you are inside of her, it can take her to another sexual realm. Anal orgasms are possible.
Because anal sex is naughty
People love to be a little bit naughty sometimes, and anal sex is one of those things you can do completely privately, and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your partner -- which is part of the fun. It is also often a "first time for everything" type of activity which can also be nice -- doing something you've
why does she hate anal sex?
Now for what goes wrong:
Because anal sex hurts
Anal sex is not easy to master when you haven’t done it before. For a man it may seem straight forward -- in, out -- but it isn’t this simple. Women hate anal sex primarily because it hurts. It can cause cold sweats, shivers, extreme agony, and a massive chemical release into the blood stream that causes pain. This is highly unpleasant, but may be endured because A) She wants to like it; and B) She wants you to like it.
If you're not very careful, if you don’t warm her up properly, if you don’t go slowly enough, you will probably hurt her. This really minimizes your chances for trying anal sex again. Do your best every time and you have at least a fighting chance at having another go.
Because she's worried about a mess
Anal sex is obviously a hot spot for mess. The idea that you could penetrate her butt and come out in a sticky situation is hugely embarrassing for her before it’s even happened, and for this reason she may avoid anal sex altogether. Women spend so much time making themselves look and smell beautiful that to have something ruin her hard work can be mildly devastating. Worrying about mess can be alleviated by using an anal douche before engaging in any anal play. Try taking a shower together too, and make sure her bowels are emptied at least an hour before starting.Anal sex is just one of those things: she either loves it, or she hates it. There is... more
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Dillinger Escape Plan were on Fox News's internet show, Strategy Room. Why? Who knows. But there is some comedy in thereDillinger Escape Plan were on Fox News's internet show, Strategy Room. Why? Who... more
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“I am a straight male who speaks to women. They want me. They want me to talk to them, and to take them to another world. I’m good at it. I’m a pro. A ladies man. I speak to younger women. I speak to older women. I speak both Spanish and English. I have been thrown offers left and right.“I am a straight male who speaks to women. They want me. They want me to talk to... more
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This is the Top 10 x-ray images of things stuck in people, ranging from the unimaginative yet funny to the WTF WERE YOU THINKING yet hysterical. (Seriously, you're not gonna believe what's at number 1. Whatever you think it is, we guarantee you're wrong.)This is the Top 10 x-ray images of things stuck in people, ranging from the... more
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With Valentines Day just around the corner, here's ten scientifically-supported tips to increase your chances of finding and keeping the love of your life…..With Valentines Day just around the corner, here's ten scientifically-supported... more
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Technology has changed the way we date and the way we break up.
Gigi Quintana is a veteran of breaking hearts in the age of social networking. She recently parted ways with a girlfriend after dating for several months, and admits that putting an end to their online connection was just as difficult as the breakup itself.
Her Facebook status said "in a relationship," so she deleted it. But she didn't stop there.
"I blocked her sister, I blocked everyone that knew her," Quintana says while on a smoke break from her coffee-shop job at Tryst in Washington, D.C. "And she is still friends with my friends, so I had to go to the extent of blocking her."
The cafe where Quintana works is full of people surfing the Web, and quite a few had an opinion about what it's like to break up when you're virtually tied to your ex by Twitter, Tumblr, LinkedIn, Delicious, MySpace, Flickr, Foursquare and Facebook.
Paul Monday, a blogger and avid social networker, says that if you stay socially networked to an ex, it's "basically like stabbing yourself in the heart again every four hours or something."
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=123501060Technology has changed the way we date and the way we break up.
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This is the return of one of our more popular lists… Babes With Cleavage. All are clothed in bikinis, lingerie, shirts, etc, but you will notice something standing out in each picture.This is the return of one of our more popular lists… Babes With Cleavage. All... more
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Discover how a little creativity and fun can rejuvenate your sexual relationship and make a real difference, in just 48 hours!
Many couples find that their sex life loses sparkle as they make more of a commitment to each other. Dealing with a stressful job while juggling work, childcare and your relationship can also dampen the fires of passion over time and this is especially true if either of you has been ill or had a sexual problem that needed medical help.
Home or away?
Talk to your partner about devoting a whole weekend to exploring your sex life. Regardless of whether you plan to stay at home or book into a remote B&B, if you have children, you will need to find babysitters. The focus is on you and your partner, so ask a friend or relative if your children can sleep over with them.
If you decide to go away, look for somewhere quiet where you can come and go as you please. You might consider renting an out-of-the-way cottage or a room in a small beachside hotel. If you decide to stay at home, unplug the TV and turn on the answer-machine to prevent any interruptions or distractions.
Setting the scene
If you plan to go away for the weekend, take some basic items with you to set the scene during love play such as scented candles or a simple oil burner. Consider also taking a silk sheet to drape over the bed, or a soft fleece blanket, to provide a stimulating texture for your skin.
If you have a portable CD player, then take it with you along with a selection of your favourite CDs. Choose your music with care. Look for music that has a good rhythm but is not too disturbing (no heavy metal!), or music that helps you relax. Music that you listened to when you first got together is a great choice as it will remind you of a time when you felt sexy and close to one another.
Props for your sex play
You may be surprised to discover that you already own a multitude of aids to sexual pleasure in your wardrobe or around your home. Look for items such as silk scarves, furry gloves, feathers (especially a feather boa), a chain link or pearl necklace, and any sexy underwear you have tucked away for special occasions. Your partner too may also want to search for silky boxer shorts, and other fabrics that will stimulate your touch sensors.
Buy a good-quality massage oil (available from chemists or health and beauty outlets) and a lubricant for lovemaking (look for silicone-based lubricants), for fun, try KY Warming Liquid! You should also invest in a vibrator; they are so much more than just plastic willies, and your partner can learn some new tricks with them too!
Stimulate all your senses
Start your weekend love-in by taking turns to have a relaxing bath, or bathing or showering together. Use the water from your bath to caress your body, relaxing as you allow yourself to get in touch with your sexual self again. Enjoy the sensations of touch as you think about the pleasure you will share together. If you bathe together, avoid making love immediately. Instead, take time to caress one another, using sweeping strokes over each other's back and thighs.
Wrap yourselves in a clean fluffy towel or dressing gown and eat a simple meal of finger foods that you can dip in sauces and feed to one another. Avoid strongly flavoured foods such as garlic or chilli because they can flavour bodily fluids; foods with a sensuous quality, however, will awaken your body to further delights. Try chocolate and strawberries which are believed to promote feelings of well-being and sexual arousal.
Use your scented candles and favourite perfumes and aftershaves to lend a luxurious feel to the room. Pile up cushions and pillows to create a 'harem' feel alongside your silk sheet or soft fleece. Wear your slinkiest underwear and enjoy leading yourselves up to lovemaking.www.playtime4us.co.uk
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Do snow and cold weather lead to more people having affairs? In the UK, maybe.
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A lot of men obsess over their girlfriend's sexual past. Why? What you find will either not affect you or affect you negatively. Why engage in any act in which the best case scenario is a break even?! -- http://bit.ly/4zlv2MA lot of men obsess over their girlfriend's sexual past. Why? What you find will... more
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Hardly anyone noticed this summer when former president Jimmy Carter explained why he had decided to leave the Baptist Church. However “painful and difficult,” wrote Carter in an essay that appeared in the Guardian, his break with the denomination to which he had belonged for sixty years had begun to seem like the only possible response to past opinions expressed and codified by the Southern Baptist Convention. “It was an unavoidable decision when the convention’s leaders, quoting a few carefully selected Bible verses and claiming that Eve was created second to Adam and responsible for original sin, ordained that women must be ‘subservient’ to their husbands and prohibited from serving as deacons, pastors, or chaplains in the military service. This was in conflict with my belief—confirmed in the holy scriptures—that we are all equal in the eyes of God.”
Considerably more attention was generated some months earlier by another story about how religion conceives and enforces its view of a woman’s place. The horrific attack on two Afghan girls en route to school—the young women were severely disfigured by acid allegedly thrown by Taliban fighters—was widely reported and discussed. Obviously, the assault was more brutal, shocking, and newsworthy than an elderly white guy’s regretful decision to separate himself from the misguided pronouncements of some other elderly white guys. And just as clearly, the Taliban’s plans for women far exceed the darkest imaginings of the Southern Baptists, whose tenets—“a wife is to submit herself graciously to the servant leadership of her husband”—seem genial and reassuringly vague when compared to the restrictions that the Taliban impose, and seek to impose, on women, regulations that narrow the parameters of daily life down to a space in which anyone, male or female, would suffocate. Under Taliban rule Afghan women cannot work, attend school, leave home without a male chaperone, or ride in a taxi. Minor infractions, such as showing an ankle, are punished by public whippings. More serious violations, such as adultery, are capital crimes for which the sentence is death by hanging or stoning.
The acid attack on the schoolgirls offered graphic and persuasive confirmation of one reason why we have gone to war, or in any case one reason we’ve been given: according to some, once we defeat the Taliban, every Afghan girl can go to school. That’s the outcome everyone wants, though it is less often mentioned that literacy rates among Afghan women were appallingly low long before the Taliban, back in the 1980s when we were still arming the mujahideen—including many future Taliban warriors—to fight against the Russians. The Taliban’s demonic and demonizing attitude toward women represents merely the most current extreme manifestation of the grotesque misogyny fostered throughout history by religion and patriarchal tribal culture. Both the Taliban and the Southern Baptists employ the “lessons” of biology and scripture to “prove” women’s inferiority, a view of our gender unlikely to be eliminated by another air strike or drone-missile deployment, or by the polite demurrals of a former president.
Sensible, decent Jimmy Carter got it right again. “This view that women are somehow inferior to men is not restricted to one religion or belief. It is widespread. Women are prevented from playing a full and equal role in many faiths. Nor, tragically, does its influence stop at the walls of the church, mosque, synagogue, or temple. This discrimination, unjustifiably attributed to a higher authority, has provided a reason or excuse for the deprivation of women’s equal rights across the world for centuries. The male interpretations of religious texts and the way they interact with and reinforce traditional practices justify some of the most pervasive, persistent, flagrant, and damaging examples of human-rights abuses.”
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http://www.laphamsquarterly.org/essays/the-original-sin.php?page=1Hardly anyone noticed this summer when former president Jimmy Carter explained why he... more
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An extraordinary sexual arms race that has played out in duck ponds for thousands of years has been uncovered by evolutionary biologists.
Faced with unwelcome advances from undesirable males wielding large, corkscrew-shaped penises, the females have gone on the defensive.
The solution – the result of millennia of evolution – arrived in the form of vaginas that spiral in the opposite direction, so thwarting uninvited males at a stroke.
Some female ducks possess genitalia of labyrinthine complexity, with kinks, dead ends and hairpin bends, according to a report in the journal Proceedings of the Royal SocietyAn extraordinary sexual arms race that has played out in duck ponds for thousands of... more
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