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Penis Power?
Can you imagine having a conversation about sex toys with your Mom? Well the host of this public access show in Georgia did. The host's name is Alexyss Tylor and the name of her show is Vagina Power.
Can you imagine having a conversation about sex toys with your Mom? Well the host of this public access show in Georgia did. The host'... more -
Dancing In Anger
Self-help books can get a pretty bad rap. Even Harriet Lerner, psychologist and author of the classic female life manual The Dance of Anger, bristles at "feverishly inspirational books that make large and silly promises." Which may be why she writes them so well.
The Dance of Anger analyzes the impact and importance of anger in intimate relationships, identifying common patterns while productively redirecting anger's path. Lerner states: "Anger is something we feel. It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention." Where we often go awry is in its expression. And wow do we.
Many women (Lerner's book is specifically directed toward women, though is insightful for any reader) tend toward two distinct patterns: a) suppressing anger in the interest of propriety until it bubbles forth at a truly inappropriate time, ultimately diminishing our credibility despite our anger's rational origin, or b) expressing ourselves immediately, but in heated terms that can yield wildly unproductive labels like "crazy" and "bitch."
Good times, right? And that's just the angry iceberg tip. Lerner also delves into the balance of "I" versus "We" in relationships, and the dance between over-functioning and under-functioning partners. Generally, the more emotional responsibility one person carries, the less is required of their partner, and so goes the imbalance cycle.
So, excellent! Patterns exposed, true source of anger explored; Lerner's work is done, right? Well, if this were the brand of self-help book she derides, perhaps. But changing the pattern of our intimate relationships is more difficult and complicated than can generally be summarized, let alone accomplished, in ten easy steps.
What begins as an exploration of common patterns quickly expands to anticipate the effects of our changes on others. Resistance to change is a basic human truth, and when one person chooses to step boldly into personal growth, adjustment, and exploration, it generally follows that the surrounding people scream "Change Back!" as quickly and loudly as possible. By forcing change too soon, and creating a jarring, deeply uncomfortable dynamic, you may be first in line, begging yourself to return to pre-established patterns. Fortunately, Lerner is a step ahead of you, preaching patience and self-love as she guides us through our anger's evolution, identifying the possible responses among loved ones, and arming us with an informed perseverance.
So, is her process easy? Well, no. But sincere pattern-changing requires an exploration of perhaps decades-long emotional habits. Lerner isn't offering the psychological equivalent of a rapid weight loss diet so you can fit into that great new dress next week. She's teaching skills and awareness for lasting change. I'll dance to that.
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The Unending Orgasm
An exploration of this mysterious practice and the world of spirituality, taboo, the multi-orgasmic lover, the Tantric couples and of course, Sting. An exploration of this mysterious practice and the world of spirituality, taboo, the multi-orgasmic lover, the Tantric couples and of ... more
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Dating Secrets By Sign: Is Your Partner Telling You The Truth?
Going on a first date is daunting enough, but then you have to worry if your potential partner's for real and sharing the truth about their being, or on their best behavior and masking less attractive qualities. Sure we all want to make a first good impression, but knowing your date's sun sign may help you navigate the dating minefield and figure out how genuine your date is being. Water sign dates may spill their emotions, whereas fire signs may hide behind little white lies, and dramatize their life because they want you to know how fantastic the world feels about them.
In order to gain a bit of insight, click on the link above for a list of how truths may be told by zodiac sign.... Going on a first date is daunting enough, but then you have to worry if your potential partner's for real and sharing the truth about ... more -
Female orgasm - The Welcomed Consensus
The Welcomed Consensus offers courses and videos in sensuality, relationships, and communication, with a focus on female orgasm.
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Fitting never-ending orgasms into your schedule: who has time for tantric sex?
Tantra teacher and practitioner Scott Catamas claims that "by combining our sexuality with our spirituality" we can make our "relationships more profound." He also tantalizes with the prospect of never-ending orgasms, which he says make women "very, very happy."
We're sure there's a lot to be said about the benefits of tantric sex. Its focus on eye contact and intimacy is very appealing, but while endless orgasms may sound like a lot of fun, in practice we know that busy schedules (and limited energy levels) rarely allow for never-ending fun (of any kind).
So before we stress out about barely attainable goals and orgasms lasting longer than an MTV Real World marathon, we thought we'd bring some balance into the equation by drawing attention to a recent US study which aims "to dispel unrealistic beliefs among couples that good sex should go on for a long time."
The survey, which was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, found that a modest 13 minutes was considered the most "desirable" amount of time for penetrative sex to last by those interviewed. Intercourse lasting between 3 and 7 minutes was considered "adequate,” less than three minutes was "too short," but over 13 minutes was "too long."
So, while it might be fun to give tantra a whirl, if both partners have the time, energy and inclination, the thrill, timeliness and therapeutic benefits of a 3-minute quickie should not be underestimated. All good things do come to an end, quality can be more important than quantity, and a highly "desirable" 13 minutes should not be under-appreciated by those who may just have unrealistic (KY-sponsored) expectations. Tantra teacher and practitioner Scott Catamas claims that "by combining our sexuality with our spirituality" we can make our "relation... more -
Bad habits by sign
Whether it's the 'me first' attitude of an Aries or the workaholic nature of a Capricorn, we all have annoying little habits that can drive our partner or friends crazy. If we know what we are getting in to in advance it's a lot easier to play nice and not allow someone's usual behavior to drive us away. So before you throw in the towel on your relationship or jump into a new one, read more about your partner's sign sun to know first hand what annoying little habits come with the package.
Hit the link above for a by sign analysis, and find out if your relationship is destined to be enduring, annoying habits and all! Whether it's the 'me first' attitude of an Aries or the workaholic nature of a Capricorn, we all have annoying little habits that can ... more -
Clever Women More Likely To Have Trouble Climaxing
New research suggests that clever women are more likely to experience problems climaxing.
A survey, conducted by a German lifestyle website, found that 62% of women who had "completed their education" reported that they often had trouble reaching orgasm. That compared with just 38% of their less qualified colleagues. Over 2,000 women between the ages of 18 and 49 participated in the study.
Experts concluded that intelligent women are "too busy thinking" in bed. Seems like these smarter women may need to clear their minds with a meditation Rx.
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Love and Vote
Our unique way we are getting people to register to vote. Our online sex and relationship advice show has 6 million viewers...and we felt we needed to get involved! Our unique way we are getting people to register to vote. Our online sex and relationship advice show has 6 million viewers...and we f... more
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Man and Wife TV
Love is Beautiful!
We want to be able to share our feelings, thoughts, and personal experiences with our audience. To offer open and candid advice in love, friendship, family and everyday life. No subject is taboo! We'd like to offer a platform for people to discuss love and sexual experiences in a fun and unabashed way to nurture and build emotional and physical intimacy with their partners. And we hope to learn from you too!
Man and Wife, the sex and relationships advice show that says it like it is!
Funny, colorful and raw, Man And Wife, was born completely out of Fatman Scoop (Grammy Winner/Legend) and his wife Shandas marriage. The show gives viewers an interactive and voyeuristic role in the steamy, wild, naughty banter between a sexy couple in love, keeping it real, and keeping it hot! Scoop and Shanda answer your questions about Sex, money, Sex, relationships, Sex, jobs, Sex, politics, Sex, marriage...and yes, Sex!
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What it Means When A Spouse Says It's Ok to Sleep Around
Many of the men that I interviewed for my book, "Having an Affair?" (and one, whom I was involved with personally) shockingly told me that their wives did in fact know that they were having an affair, and, or, sex with other women in general.
I was truly shocked at first, thinking "these wives deserve their men to cheat on them with attitudes like that." I went on to investigate it further in chapter three of my book - "How and Why Married Men Stray," and why their wives stay!!
One guy told me he had confronted his wife of 10 years to tell her he was not getting enough sex. They had talked about it many times apparently. He suggested they go to marriage counseling but she'd said - "to save time, money, AND our marriage, I give you permission to go get your sex with other women, as long as you are discreet about it!" He was dumbfounded and said he felt totally rejected as a man. He didn't know what he was supposed to do, or how he should feel.
NOTE: Once he got over the hurt and anger, he did of course go straight out and have an affair!
Obviously this wife had largely opted out of their relationship, neither interested in romance or passion with him, nor wanting to find out where it had gone and how to get it back. Interestingly enough though, she didn?t want to lose the life, nor partnership, she had with him. So she gave him her blessing to seek sex elsewhere, as long as she wasn't involved.
For wives who do this - it might seem like a viable solution - but it is a huge slap in the face for any man who wants his marriage to succeed! Can you imagine how you'd feel? I will be examining this topic more deeply, this week. I wonder how many fake marriages exist like this, especially here in Hollywood?
In this episode, I welcome stories from mistresses who have been involved, or is involved with a guy who has been given 'an unlimited access pass to other women' by the wife that he married.
Source: KarmaAir.com
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The most imporant sexual spot on a woman...
Did you know that women don't respond to Viagra the way men do? Oh, medical studies on thousands of women given the drug resulted in them getting more blood flow "down there" just like men, but with a significant difference: It doesn't make them want to have sex any more than they did before taking the little blue pill (which it pretty much always does for men). Why? Because the thing that gets women "going," isn't heightening their circulation or improving any of their other natural "bodily functions" having to do with sex. It's something much more important...
It's what's going on between their ears! That's right, the makers of Viagra concluded that how a woman is thinking and feeling determines if she feels sexual or not.
Duh...
But here's the problem - women have a whole lot of "stuff" going on "between their ears" that can get in the way of what's going on between their other places. Thinking she's supposed to be a "good girl," wanting to please a man more than please herself, feeling negatively about her body, feeling unsafe or unloved, having bad past experiences... these are just a handful of items from an endless list that can get in the way of a woman have an enlightened sex life, and a man being able to truly rock her world.
So if you're a woman who'd like to know how to "get your mind right" so you can have more mind-blowing bedroom activities, or a man who wants to know how to help a woman get over this stuff, then you'll definitely want to listen to this week's episode of "Enlightening Relationships." We'll be interviewing Laura Landers, author of the eBook, Bliss In The Bedroom - A Real Woman's Guide To Better Sex.
Source: Karma Air
Full show: http://www.karmaair.com/showblog.aspx?episodeid=565
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Like dirty text messages? You're not alone!
Find out how you can add technology into your relationship and make it work. Doesn't anyone like to talk anymore...what is this world coming to? Find out how you can add technology into your relationship and make it work. Doesn't anyone like to talk anymore...what is this world... more
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How Yoga Can Improve Your Sex Life
You started yoga to help keep your mind and body fit but are there added bonuses as well. This article thinks that yoga will make quite an impact on your sex life as well. You started yoga to help keep your mind and body fit but are there added bonuses as well. This article thinks that yoga will make quit... more
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If you pay attention to this, you're doomed
I've been meaning to start a topic page for a long time for all the Bad Advice you can find on the Internet. I haven't found just the right piece, though, until right now. Featured on Yahoo's homepage is this article, "Is She Attracted to Me?"
These are some of the most ridiculous bits of dating advice I've ever seen. A woman is into you if:
* She will not look at her watch.
* She will not look around the room.
* She will be totally fixated on you the whole time.
* She will play with her hair and lick her lips before she moves towards you, because she is creating a sexual feeling inside her.
* She will reach her hand across the table and glance at yours.
* She will touch your shoulder or another part of you very casually.
* When she is speaking, she will touch her leg or her face, imagining it was you who was touching her.
How embarrassing! I've been meaning to start a topic page for a long time for all the Bad Advice you can find on the Internet. I haven't found just the ... more -
Relationship Advice: Do you listen?
Getting, and giving, relationship advice is tricky. Sometimes we ask for advice... but then reject it if it's not really something we want to hear. Everyone's got an opinion about relationships. What's the best advice you've ever had? What's the worst? Getting, and giving, relationship advice is tricky. Sometimes we ask for advice... but then reject it if it's not really something we ... more
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Sex advice from vid-game designers?!?
Think geeks know nothing about sex? You might be surprised.
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