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InBrief: What If Your Undies had the Last Word

The new contest is called In Brief: What if Your Undies had the Last Word... We are asking people to design a pair of underwear... more

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Fresh Focus Sex Ed Video Contest Finalists

The Fresh Focus Sex Ed Video Contest was organized in conjunction with the recent San Francisco Sex::Tech Conference in San... more

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AIDS among women of color

The health care crisis and the AIDS crisis are disproportionately affecting women of color.

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No-sex programmes 'not working'

Sex abstinence programmes do not stop risky sexual behaviour or help in the prevention of unwanted pregnancy, a research team has... more

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The silent genocide of South Carolinas kids and its poor . under a republican dictatatorship

YOUTUBE VIDEOS : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ygmnkfynrg http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9MX5fDNCyg A 2003 General... more

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The Condom Grandma

This film is the story of a spry 88-year-old woman who volunteers and raises awareness on the issue of senior HIV/AIDS cases. She... more

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Abstinence-only sex education is working, NOT!

WASHINGTON, Dec. 5 ? The birth rate among teenagers 15 to 19 in the United States rose 3 percent in 2006, according to a report... more

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Pronto Condoms!

The name says it all!

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Introducing PRONTO, the condom for the new millennium

"Introducing PRONTO, the condom for the new millennium. The PRONTO condom can be applied in a few seconds. And its a lot... more

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Do you know?...

Did you know?... South Carolina is ranked 9th in the nation in new cases of AIDS. South Carolina's rate of new cases of... more

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World AIDS Day 2007

World AIDS Day emerged from the World Summit of Ministers of Health on Programs for AIDS Prevention in January 1988. Its purpose... more

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One in 10 Men Has Multiple Sex Partners

A survey of 4,928 men in the US shows between 6.6 and 11 percent are engaging in concurrent relationships, which may facilitate... more

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This documentary stands at 22 minutes. I made it as part of my degree program in Broadcast Visual design. In this film I basically come out of the HIV closet and let the world know my status. What is remarkable about this film, that I shot in 2000 during the run up to the presidential election, is that I reveal the fact that I had at that time probably had been HIV positive for close to 25 years, however, I want to be clear that these are speculations based on factual data.

During my teenage years from 12 to 18 I became sexually active. This was in the late 60's and early 70's. HIV was just beginning to make the rounds and working its way into humanity and being spread through fast and free sexual encounters. It hadn't had enough of an incubation period to start making people sick. I was sexually molested when I was 12 years old and quite possibly I could have been infected by that man. Today I am 46 years old. However, the molestation was not a traumatic experience in the sense that I got say "raped" violently against my will. I actually was interested and intrigued by the experience as well as being afraid of being "found out" or "shamed". The man that molested me was in his mid 30's.

I wanted to make a documentary that used my own personal experience to bring hope to those who would watch this film. I especially tailored it to target those who have recently found out that they are HIV positive. I believe very strongly that beside the best of what modern medicine has to offer to people, there is another dimension to disease that is psychosocialspiritual. The psychology that is at work is pretty evident, the social interactions and repercussions that are at work are also evident, however the spiritual nature of healing is not evident and is at great risk when the other two areas are unresolved and/or in chaos. In my life this was absolutely true because I had come to loathe myself and I longed for death as a release from the shame and the guilt that I was carrying around for being such a sexually active teen. Death had become a self fulfilling prophecy in my life.

Imagine how it feels when a person first hears those words "you have tested positive for HIV" it sounds as though someone is reading your death sentence. Feeling this way is a perfectly natural reaction. However, after we have gone through our initial shock and the grieving stage then we need to move into the empowerment stage. This is the stage wherein we take full ownership of our situation, we move away from blame or trying to find a reason "why this happened to us." Energy spent on this kind of thinking only robs us of precious life energy that we need in order to live with this disease and create any sort of "quality of life" for ourselves. Also energy spent on this kind of thinking can become a trap or prison that keeps us from growing and possibly even transcending our situation. Moving into the empowerment stage turns us into self validating, self motivating and self loving individuals who readily enjoin the work of creating new realities for ourselves; realities within which we can begin to find joy.This documentary stands at 22 minutes. I made it as part of my degree program in Broadcast Visual design. In this film I basically... more